{"id":32057,"date":"2019-10-31T12:55:12","date_gmt":"2019-10-31T12:55:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=32057"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:11:03","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:11:03","slug":"pare-de-mentir-a-si-propria-se-ele-nao-a-trata-bem-agora-nunca-o-fara","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/pare-de-mentir-a-si-propria-se-ele-nao-a-trata-bem-agora-nunca-o-fara\/","title":{"rendered":"P\u00e1ra de mentir a ti pr\u00f3pria: Se ele n\u00e3o a trata bem agora, nunca o far\u00e1"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00c9s algu\u00e9m que acredita no que h\u00e1 de bom nas pessoas. Uma rapariga que tem f\u00e9 que o seu amor \u00e9 essa for\u00e7a omnipotente que pode mudar e consertar aqueles que precisam de ser salvos.<\/span><\/p>\n

You are an optimistic girl who believes in a better tomorrow, even if it\u2019s against all odds. A girl who believes that things always find a way of sorting themselves out, one way or another.<\/span><\/p>\n

Isto \u00e9 especialmente verdade quando se trata da sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o amorosa. Mesmo que toda a gente lhe diga que <\/span>your boyfriend isn\u2019t good enough<\/span><\/a> para si, opta por as ignorar. <\/span><\/p>\n

N\u00e3o s\u00f3 isso<\/span>\u2014<\/span>tamb\u00e9m opta por ignorar a sua intui\u00e7\u00e3o e aquela vozinha no fundo da sua cabe\u00e7a, que lhe diz que ele nunca a mereceu nem nunca a merecer\u00e1.<\/span><\/p>\n

So, despite the way he\u2019s been treating you, you keep on hoping that eventually he\u2019ll change. <\/b><\/p>\n

You keep on hoping that one of these days, things will magically fall into place and that he\u2019ll turn into the man you hope for him to become.<\/b><\/p>\n

That one of these days, he\u2019ll realize how much you mean to him, that he\u2019ll realize how much pain he\u2019s been causing you all along and just like that<\/span>\u2014<\/span>he\u2019ll start treating you differently. <\/span><\/p>\n

That he\u2019ll start regretting the way he keeps on breaking your heart and that he\u2019ll finally take responsibility for his actions. That one of these days, he\u2019ll understand all of his mistakes and that he\u2019ll do everything in his power to change his ways.<\/span><\/p>\n

Eu sei que quer que as coisas com este homem resultem da melhor maneira poss\u00edvel. Sei que queres que esta rela\u00e7\u00e3o seja bem sucedida e sei que esperas mesmo que isso aconte\u00e7a.<\/span><\/p>\n

No entanto, <\/span>all of this doesn\u2019t give you the right to lie to yourself. It doesn\u2019t give you the right to close your eyes to the obvious truth and to keep looking for excuses for this guy\u2019s behavior. <\/b><\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t justify the fact that you keep lying to yourself just so you could continue being with him.<\/b><\/p>\n

However, this is exactly what you\u2019ve been doing. You\u2019ve been living a lie and you\u2019ve been deceiving yourself, believing that this man will eventually change.<\/span><\/p>\n

You refuse to look the truth in the eye and see him for who he really is. You refuse to accept the fact that things won\u2019t be different and that he won\u2019t miraculously become your dream guy.<\/span><\/p>\n

No, he isn\u2019t going through a rough patch<\/b>\u2014<\/b>este \u00e9 o verdadeiro ele. <\/b><\/p>\n

N\u00e3o, isto n\u00e3o \u00e9 uma fase<\/b>\u2014<\/b>\u00e9 assim que as coisas entre voc\u00eas os dois v\u00e3o ser para sempre, a n\u00e3o ser que ponhas um ponto final nesta rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/b><\/p>\n

Por isso, por favor, pare de mentir a si pr\u00f3prio. Pare de esperar por uma mudan\u00e7a que nunca vai acontecer e aceite a realidade, por mais dura e dolorosa que seja.<\/span><\/p>\n

Please, take your rose-tinted glasses off and see this man\u2019s true colors. See that he will never treat you the way you deserve and that he will never give you the love you need.<\/span><\/p>\n

Let\u2019s face it<\/span>\u2014<\/span>most of the time, this man acts like he doesn\u2019t give a damn about your relationship. <\/span><\/p>\n

He treats you like his second choice, he doesn\u2019t give you the place you deserve in his life and he doesn\u2019t respect you the way he should.<\/span><\/p>\n

A maior parte do tempo, este homem <\/span>treats you like he doesn\u2019t care about you<\/span><\/a>. So, why exactly don\u2019t you start believing him?<\/span><\/p>\n

Quando \u00e9 que vais deixar de ter esperan\u00e7as? Quando \u00e9 que vais deixar de esperar que ele se recomponha e comece a dar-te o amor e a aten\u00e7\u00e3o de que precisas? <\/span><\/p>\n

O que \u00e9 preciso que ele fa\u00e7a para que deixes de lhe dar segundas oportunidades intermin\u00e1veis, para que deixes de acreditar nas suas promessas vazias e para que deixes de p\u00f4r a tua vida em suspenso, \u00e0 espera que ele mude?<\/span><\/p>\n

What does it take for you to understand that if he doesn\u2019t treat you the way he should now, chances are that he never will? <\/b><\/p>\n

If he isn\u2019t putting any effort into your relationship now, he probably never will. If he doesn\u2019t love you enough now, that won\u2019t change in the future.<\/b><\/p>\n

Please, stop thinking that one of these days, he\u2019ll wake up and suddenly come to his senses. Stop waiting for him to <\/span>ver o seu verdadeiro valor and for him to start appreciating everything you\u2019ve been giving him because that will never happen.<\/span>
\n<\/b><\/p>\n

Please, don\u2019t waste any more of your time or efforts on someone who clearly doesn\u2019t deserve you. Instead, pack your bags and leave his sorry ass in the past, where he belongs. <\/b><\/p>\n

Confiar em mim<\/b>\u2014<\/b>ser\u00e1 a melhor decis\u00e3o da sua vida.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"P\u00e1ra<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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