{"id":32061,"date":"2019-01-31T13:37:13","date_gmt":"2019-01-31T13:37:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=32061"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:21:18","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:21:18","slug":"5-sinais-de-inseguranca-profunda-nele-que-podem-destruir-a-vossa-relacao","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-sinais-de-inseguranca-profunda-nele-que-podem-destruir-a-vossa-relacao\/","title":{"rendered":"5 sinais de profunda inseguran\u00e7a nele que podem destruir a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o"},"content":{"rendered":"

As pessoas dizem-nos sempre para nos afastarmos das pessoas com problemas emocionais e d\u00favidas sobre n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios. Mas a verdade \u00e9 que, em cada um de n\u00f3s, existem inseguran\u00e7as escondidas que alguns de n\u00f3s s\u00e3o melhores a esconder do que outros.<\/p>\n

We all wish to be taller, thinner, smarter, more outgoing or with a perkier ass. That doesn\u2019t make us flawed; it only means we\u2019re human.<\/p>\n

Mas em algumas pessoas, estas inseguran\u00e7as s\u00e3o muito mais profundas e maiores, e desempenham um papel muito perigoso na deteriora\u00e7\u00e3o das suas rela\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let o seu homem<\/span><\/a> escapar a estas 5 inseguran\u00e7as que ele est\u00e1 a descarregar em si e que, lenta mas seguramente, est\u00e3o a arruinar a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o e a matar o seu esp\u00edrito e autoestima.<\/p>\n

1. Ele envergonha-te<\/h2>\n

Agora, uma quantidade normal de provoca\u00e7\u00f5es \u00e9 boa para uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o e \u00e9 de certa forma saud\u00e1vel. Est\u00e1 provado que os casais que se provocam um ao outro duram mais tempo.<\/p>\n

BUT, when he doesn\u2019t stop at anything and just shoots his shot without thinking how humiliating and low it is for you, that\u2019s where you have a problem.<\/p>\n

If he makes fun of any aspect of your physical appearance, the way you do something, and even talks about it shamelessly in front of other people, he is a deeply insecure individual who is putting you down for no justifiable reason and doesn\u2019t deserve you at all.<\/p>\n

2. He doesn\u2019t seem to have friends<\/h2>\n

Let\u2019s be honest. EVERYBODY has friends. It doesn\u2019t really need to be a big number (quality over quantity, duh), but we all have those few people in our lives that make us better.<\/p>\n

Mas ele nunca menciona amigos, nunca sai com ningu\u00e9m (ou muito raramente) e s\u00f3 passa tempo consigo.<\/p>\n

Passar tempo consigo \u00e9 obviamente uma coisa boa, mas, v\u00e1 l\u00e1, todos n\u00f3s precisamos de algum tempo para respirar de vez em quando com os nossos parceiros.<\/p>\n

E se ele parece genuinamente interessado em sair apenas consigo, isso \u00e9 algo que provavelmente deve explorar.<\/p>\n

If he doesn\u2019t have people around him, what is that saying about him as a person and his character? Exactly.<\/p>\n

3. Amea\u00e7a frequentemente terminar a rela\u00e7\u00e3o consigo<\/h2>\n

Sempre que h\u00e1 uma discuss\u00e3o ou um desacordo, ele amea\u00e7a deix\u00e1-lo<\/span><\/a>. As pessoas normais conversam e encontram solu\u00e7\u00f5es para os seus problemas, mas ele vai imediatamente para o extremo.<\/p>\n

Ele faz isso porque est\u00e1 cheio de inseguran\u00e7as e est\u00e1 a tentar manipul\u00e1-la para que ceda e fa\u00e7a o ego dele inflar.<\/p>\n

Ele precisa que lhe implore para n\u00e3o a deixar porque s\u00f3 assim se sente bem consigo pr\u00f3prio. Ele \u00e9 um homem muito fraco com um ego fr\u00e1gil.<\/p>\n

4. Ele persegue as suas redes sociais e expressa as suas opini\u00f5es<\/h2>\n

Whenever you post a photo, he\u2019s the first one to see and comment. If he sees something that he doesn\u2019t like, he\u2019ll make sure to tell you, and even go so far and tell you to remove it.<\/p>\n

Ele vigia todos os teus passos e nada acontece sem que ele veja.<\/p>\n

He needs everyone to see that you\u2019re with him, and he lets his presence be known by leaving comments on the majority of your posts.<\/p>\n

Quem o persegue desta forma tem problemas s\u00e9rios e \u00e9 realmente assustador. S\u00f3 uma pessoa insegura seria t\u00e3o controladora, por isso tenha isso em mente.<\/p>\n

5. He can\u2019t take criticism<\/h2>\n

Even if it\u2019s the smallest thing, you can\u2019t tell him anything without crushing his deeply fragile ego. He is immediately defensive and feels attacked.<\/p>\n

Even though he is the first to point out the slightest imperfection in you or anyone else, he can\u2019t take it being reciprocated.<\/p>\n

So you don\u2019t even bother saying anything because you know it won\u2019t go well. He cannot accept that he, just like every other human being, is flawed. This means he has serious superiority issues.<\/p>\n

Now that you know some signs of insecurities that are extremely unhealthy in an individual, it\u2019s up to you to determine how far advanced it is with your man, and if it\u2019s worth staying.<\/em><\/p>\n

Just remember: you are nobody\u2019s punching bag. If he can\u2019t handle his own issues, don\u2019t let him use you as a fall guy. Leave while it\u2019s still not too late.<\/em><\/p>\n

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People are always quick to tell you to steer clear of those with emotional issues and self-doubts. But the thing is, in each and every one of us there are hidden insecurities that some of us are just better at hiding than others. We all wish to be taller, thinner, smarter, more outgoing or with…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":32062,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-32061","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/connor-wilkins-1321692-unsplash.jpg",800,538,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","parent":29620,"count":544,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29622,"category_count":544,"category_description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","cat_name":"relationship advice","category_nicename":"relationship-advice","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/32061","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=32061"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/32061\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/32062"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=32061"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=32061"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=32061"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}