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<\/p>\nIsto \u00e9 para si.<\/i><\/p>\n
Ao homem que a deixa \u00e0 espera junto ao telefone durante dias a fio. Aquele que sabe exatamente como mant\u00ea-la agarrada, sem lhe oferecer nada em troca. <\/i><\/p>\n
Aquele que consegue voltar a entrar no mundo dela quando ela estava a come\u00e7ar a esquecer-se de si. <\/i><\/p>\n
Tu, com as tuas palavras inteligentes e o teu sorriso recatado, encontras sempre o teu caminho de volta para ela, porque sabes que ela vai engolir o orgulho e chegar at\u00e9 ti pela bilion\u00e9sima vez.<\/i><\/p>\n
\u00c9 por sua causa que ela chora at\u00e9 adormecer quase todos os dias da semana. Desvalorizam-na, deitam-na abaixo e tratam-na como se fosse uma cidad\u00e3 de segunda classe.<\/p>\n
Sente prazer em saber que ela se afundar\u00e1 ainda mais por si.<\/p>\n
Faz-te sentir importante, sabendo que h\u00e1 algu\u00e9m que atende o telefone \u00e0s 3 da manh\u00e3 quando o teu rabo b\u00eabado est\u00e1 a ligar-lhe pela terceira noite consecutiva nessa semana?<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n
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Aumenta o seu ego saber que ela o ama mais do que a si pr\u00f3pria?<\/p>\n
Even though it\u2019s killing her on the inside, but she can\u2019t help it\u2026 you make her weak, and drain every atom of kindness she has inside her.<\/p>\n
Just you wait. One day\u2026 she will look at you and just laugh. It will be beyond her how she once did everything in the world for you, not caring at all how degrading it was for her.<\/i><\/p>\n
Only now, she won\u2019t care anymore. She will finally see what kind of man she settled for, and she will never stoop so low again.<\/p>\n
You will text her like you normally do at ungodly hours\u2026 and there won\u2019t be a reply.<\/p>\n
Vai ficar muito aborrecido por ela j\u00e1 n\u00e3o lhe dar a aten\u00e7\u00e3o que voc\u00ea deseja e espera dela.<\/p>\n
You will finally ask her on an actual date, and she\u2019ll say no. And then\u2026 it will finally hit you.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n
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Tiveste a tua oportunidade com esta rapariga e estragaste-a ao fazeres os teus jogos de macho e ao aproveitares-te da rapariga mais bonita do mundo.<\/p>\n
You could\u2019ve had it all with her, and until now, you didn\u2019t see it. And now that it\u2019s too late, you\u2019ll wish you could take it all back and apologize for your shitty behavior.<\/p>\n
O que se passa com esta rapariga \u00e9 que, assim que ela se libertar do controlo que voc\u00ea tinha sobre ela, ela vai faz\u00ea-lo perceber a mudan\u00e7a de que precisa desesperadamente.<\/p>\n
Esta rapariga que j\u00e1 foi t\u00e3o insegura e vulner\u00e1vel quando se tratava de ti, mas que agora, depois de desperdi\u00e7ar tantas oportunidades de ser um homem de verdade<\/a> para ela, ela ultrapassou tudo isso e v\u00ea atrav\u00e9s de si.<\/p>\n E ela vai mudar-te. Ela far\u00e1 com que percebas as coisas que fizeste de errado, as formas como perturbaste a vida dela e todas as vezes que tiraste partido da sua bondade e gostaste de a fazer de parva.<\/p>\n Quando esse dia chegar, ver\u00e1s o erro dos teus caminhos e perceber\u00e1s que tens de mudar, porque ningu\u00e9m vai tolerar mais essa merda.<\/p>\n Finalmente ser\u00e1s the man you know you should\u2019ve been to her<\/a> todos aqueles anos atr\u00e1s. Ir\u00e1 <\/i><\/b>sentir a sua falta<\/i><\/b><\/a>.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n You will miss her touch, her sweet voice, her kind heart and gentle nature\u2026 you will miss how she made you feel when you were next to her, and her dry sense of humor that not many get (but you do).<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n Vai v\u00ea-la pela cidade, a passear alegremente com o seu novo homem... ver\u00e1 o brilho no seu rosto e o seu sorriso que \u00e9 t\u00e3o contagiante, e ver\u00e1 finalmente que ela est\u00e1 verdadeiramente feliz agora.<\/p>\n It will kill you that you\u2019re not the man holding her hand. It will kill you that you had your chance to make her that happy, and you did the exact opposite.<\/p>\n And now, all you have are the memories of what could\u2019ve been but never was. Her new man will be there for her at all hours of the day because he adores her.<\/p>\n He will wipe away her tears and soothe her cries… but he will never be the one to cause her to cry. And you will finally see the difference between you and him.<\/p>\n Unlike you, he didn\u2019t need to treat her like crap to realize how much she means to him. <\/i><\/p>\n And when that happens \u2013 she wins.<\/i><\/p>\n This is for you. To the man who keeps her waiting by her phone for days on end. The one who knows just how to keep her hooked, without offering her anything in return. 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