{"id":32100,"date":"2020-05-01T08:51:22","date_gmt":"2020-05-01T08:51:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=32100"},"modified":"2022-01-09T17:07:44","modified_gmt":"2022-01-09T17:07:44","slug":"nao-preciso-de-perfeicao-apenas-de-um-homem-adulto-com-as-suas-merdas-bem-organizadas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nao-preciso-de-perfeicao-apenas-de-um-homem-adulto-com-as-suas-merdas-bem-organizadas\/","title":{"rendered":"Eu n\u00e3o preciso de perfei\u00e7\u00e3o, apenas de um homem adulto com as suas merdas juntas"},"content":{"rendered":"

All of this talking about the characteristics of a real man, things they should do or not do to make us happy, all of these guides and signs on how to find the real one or how you can change him to start treating you right\u2026<\/p>\n

All this time, I\u2019ve been in pursuit of finding the right one for me. To find someone who will exhibit certain traits that will fit my definition of a real man.<\/p>\n

After a few failures, I\u2019ve realized that there\u2019s no point in seeking perfection because it simply doesn\u2019t exist.<\/p>\n

Precisei de alguns desgostos, de muitas l\u00e1grimas e de muita dor para perceber que, por muito elevados que fossem os meus padr\u00f5es, acabaria por ficar desiludida e desapontada.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ve become sick of all of those narcissistic boys, their selfishness and sweet nothings.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ve realized that I don\u2019t need perfection, just a grown-ass man with his shit together.<\/b><\/p>\n

I don\u2019t need a boy with a perfect body and face, flawless, with a perfect mind. All I need is a grown-ass man who will stick to his words and promises.<\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not looking for someone to take me to the moon or the stars. I\u2019m looking for someone who will be willing to gaze at them with me on long, hot, summer nights.<\/p>\n

And I don\u2019t think I\u2019m asking for much.<\/p>\n

My previous disappointments with men have actually taught me not to expect much of them and that is why I wholeheartedly and solemnly swear that I don\u2019t and will never look for perfection.<\/p>\n

Tudo o que preciso \u00e9 de um homem que saiba o que quer, que lute por isso e que saiba apreciar o que tem.<\/b><\/p>\n

I don\u2019t need a boy who wants one thing today and a different thing the next. I don\u2019t need someone whose main priority is their self-centered, egotistical nature.<\/p>\n

Preciso de um homem<\/a> que sabe o que quer, que vai lutar arduamente<\/a> para isso e que saber\u00e1 apreciar o que tem.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t need someone who will jogar jogos mentais<\/a> comigo ou que me fa\u00e7a sentir menos digna. Preciso de um homem que cuide do meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o e da minha alma, tal como eu cuidarei do dele.<\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Tudo o que eu quero \u00e9 a reciprocidade m\u00fatua. Tudo o que eu quero \u00e9 a reciprocidade m\u00fatua de dar e receber. Nada mais.<\/p>\n

Preciso de um homem que n\u00e3o me tome por garantida, que continue a lutar por mim mesmo depois de me ter conquistado.<\/b><\/p>\n

Preciso de um homem que n\u00e3o desista ao primeiro obst\u00e1culo. O amor n\u00e3o \u00e9 um jogo, como os rapazes pensam.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t go out of your way to fight hard to win someone only to take them for granted afterward. You fight hard to win their love and you keep fighting to maintain it.<\/p>\n

And that\u2019s the kind of man I\u2019m looking for.<\/p>\n

I need a man who will understand the seriousness of other people\u2019s feelings and this complex thing called love.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t need someone who will fight for me only to fulfill his egotistical purposes.<\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

I need honesty, respect, and selflessness. I need to know that I\u2019m not just another brick in the wall that will be replaced with another one when it becomes worn.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t need to be treated like a queen. I just need a man who will be there for me no matter what.<\/b><\/p>\n

I don\u2019t expect to be showered with honey, milk and gold. I don\u2019t expect any of the luxuries that we\u2019re bombarded with today.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t need them because I believe in modesty and the beauty of little things. I don\u2019t need someone who will buy me three hundred roses to persuade me of his love.<\/p>\n

Preciso de um homem que o diga como se estivesse a falar a s\u00e9rio. E que me prove o seu amor simplesmente estando l\u00e1 para mim, aconte\u00e7a o que acontecer.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t need any of those expensive gifts from shops.<\/p>\n

All I need is a grown-ass man who is devoted to the core because that\u2019s the biggest gift you could give to someone you really love.<\/p>\n

\"Eu<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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