{"id":32135,"date":"2020-02-04T08:56:33","date_gmt":"2020-02-04T08:56:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=32135"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:37:44","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:37:44","slug":"6-maneiras-de-o-fazer-arrepender-se-de-a-ter-tomado-como-garantida","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/6-maneiras-de-o-fazer-arrepender-se-de-a-ter-tomado-como-garantida\/","title":{"rendered":"6 maneiras de o fazer arrepender-se de a ter tomado por garantida"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>H\u00e1 uma coisa em que os narcisistas, os jogadores e todos os outros manipuladores s\u00e3o realmente bons: tomar as pessoas por garantidas.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s in their nature (most of the time) to think only about themselves and put their needs before others\u2019.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s in their nature to expect you to keep giving all of yourself to them without doing anything in return.<\/p>\n<p>The word reciprocity simply doesn\u2019t exist in their dictionary (at least not in a boy\u2019s dictionary). And contrary to them, women are the exact opposite.<\/p>\n<p>Dar-lhes-\u00edamos tudo o que t\u00ednhamos e ainda mais, privando-nos deliberadamente da felicidade, apenas para sermos <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/7-coisas-que-podes-fazer-quando-ele-comeca-a-tomar-te-por-garantida\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">dado por adquirido<\/span><\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>And that is why it\u2019s time for you to take things into your own hands and make him regret not appreciating everything you\u2019ve done for him!<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s time for you to demand respect and make him regret not treating you the way you deserve and these 6 ways will help you achieve it.<\/p>\n<p><em><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><b>6 maneiras de o fazer arrepender-se de a ter tomado como garantida<\/b><\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Reconhecer as suas tretas<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-73800\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/angry-woman-yelling-at-man.jpg\" alt=\"mulher zangada a gritar com um homem\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/angry-woman-yelling-at-man.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/angry-woman-yelling-at-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/angry-woman-yelling-at-man-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When something pisses you off, just tell him! It\u2019s as simple as that.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00e3o fique em sil\u00eancio ou ignore as suas m\u00e1s palavras ou ac\u00e7\u00f5es, aconte\u00e7a o que acontecer. As mulheres estiveram caladas durante demasiado tempo e agora \u00e9 altura de come\u00e7arem a falar!<\/p>\n<p>Se sabe que o comportamento dele \u00e9 ego\u00edsta e n\u00e3o \u00e9 correto, diga-lhe.<\/p>\n<p>Acknowledge his bullshit to his face so that he knows you\u2019re not a fool and you will not stay indifferent to his mistreatment. You owe yourself that much.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Deixar de se esfor\u00e7ar para fazer coisas agrad\u00e1veis para ele<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-73801\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/worried-woman-in-deep-thoughts.jpg\" alt=\"mulher preocupada em pensamentos profundos\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/worried-woman-in-deep-thoughts.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/worried-woman-in-deep-thoughts-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/worried-woman-in-deep-thoughts-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/h2>\n<p>And for God\u2019s sake, stop going out of your way to make him happy when you see that he\u2019s not trying to do the same for you.<\/p>\n<p>Let him know that you\u2019re no longer the same person who used to give all of yourself only to appease him.<\/p>\n<p>When he sees that you\u2019ve changed, he\u2019ll realize that maybe it is because of him. Maybe you stopped doing things you were usually doing because you\u2019re sick of him not appreciating it.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s the only way for him to realize the mistake of his selfish nature.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Definir regras<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-73802\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/couple-arguing-in-living-room.jpg\" alt=\"casal a discutir na sala de estar\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/couple-arguing-in-living-room.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/couple-arguing-in-living-room-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/couple-arguing-in-living-room-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>O mais importante \u00e9 estabelecer regras e cumpri-las rigorosamente.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re not happy with how he\u2019s been treating you, set rules that will tell him you will no longer tolerate any of his bullshit.<\/p>\n<p>When he sees that you have boundaries and you will not buy any of his crap anymore, he will know that it\u2019s time to change or he will lose you.<\/p>\n<p>Protege-te a ti pr\u00f3pria e \u00e0 tua felicidade, porque mereces ser a prioridade dele e n\u00e3o uma op\u00e7\u00e3o. Mereces ser tratada da mesma forma que tratas os outros.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Let him know that you\u2019re perfectly fine without him<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-73803\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/calm-woman-sitting-on-the-couch.jpg\" alt=\"mulher calma sentada no sof\u00e1\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/calm-woman-sitting-on-the-couch.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/calm-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/calm-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You need to make sure that he knows he\u2019s not the center of the universe and your world doesn\u2019t revolve around him.<\/p>\n<p>Letting him know that you\u2019re perfectly fine without him will make him realize that you have other priorities as well.<\/p>\n<p>Divertir-se sem ele \u00e9 a melhor coisa que pode fazer por si pr\u00f3pria neste momento. Ent\u00e3o, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/nao-perca-o-tempo-dela-se-esta-a-procura-de-algo-temporario\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">don\u2019t waste your time<\/span><\/a> descobrir o que fazer para que ele deixe de a tomar como garantida.<\/p>\n<p>Vive a tua vida agora! E ele vai come\u00e7ar a temer que, se continuar a trat\u00e1-la assim, pode perder a melhor coisa que j\u00e1 teve.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ter sempre dignidade<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-73804\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/woman-with-dignity-standing.jpg\" alt=\"mulher com dignidade de p\u00e9 \" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/woman-with-dignity-standing.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/woman-with-dignity-standing-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/woman-with-dignity-standing-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Nunca, nunca o persiga. Aconte\u00e7a o que acontecer, saiba que a culpa n\u00e3o \u00e9 sua e que n\u00e3o \u00e9 voc\u00ea que deve sair do seu caminho e implorar pela aten\u00e7\u00e3o dele ou, pior ainda, pensar que deve mudar.<\/p>\n<p>The only thing you should be doing is holding your head up high and not giving a damn about him until he starts giving you signs that he\u2019s determined to change himself.<\/p>\n<p>Ande com orgulho, fale com orgulho e recuse-se a receber qualquer coisa que n\u00e3o seja o que merece.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Let him know that if he doesn\u2019t appreciate what he has, somebody else will<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-73805\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/upset-woman-with-man-sitting-on-sofa.jpg\" alt=\"mulher perturbada com homem sentado num sof\u00e1\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/upset-woman-with-man-sitting-on-sofa.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/upset-woman-with-man-sitting-on-sofa-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/upset-woman-with-man-sitting-on-sofa-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Give him some time to prove to you that he\u2019s willing to make an effort and work on his treatment toward you.<\/p>\n<p>And if he still doesn\u2019t do anything about it, then let him know if he\u2019s not ready to appreciate what he has, somebody else surely will.<\/p>\n<p><em>If he\u2019s not answering your calls, DO NOT call him again!<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>If he\u2019s not being there for you when you need him most, DO NOT be there for him!<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>If he\u2019s not making an effort, DO NOT wait a second longer.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Nunca deve permitir-se faz\u00ea-lo pensar que vai dan\u00e7ar ao som da m\u00fasica dele, aconte\u00e7a o que acontecer.<\/p>\n<p>Nunca te deves permitir ficar satisfeito com a mediocridade porque mereces a grandeza. Nunca te esque\u00e7as disso.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-73798\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/6-Ways-To-Make-Him-Regret-Taking-You-For-Granted-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"6 maneiras de o fazer arrepender-se de a ter tomado por garantida\" width=\"735\" height=\"1102\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/6-Ways-To-Make-Him-Regret-Taking-You-For-Granted-pinterest.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/6-Ways-To-Make-Him-Regret-Taking-You-For-Granted-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/6-Ways-To-Make-Him-Regret-Taking-You-For-Granted-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 735px) 100vw, 735px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There is one sure thing that narcissists, players and all of the other manipulators are really good at and that is taking people for granted. It\u2019s in their nature (most of the time) to think only about themselves and put their needs before others\u2019. It\u2019s in their nature to expect you to keep giving all&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":73806,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-32135","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/6-Ways-To-Make-Him-Regret-Taking-You-For-Granted.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. 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