{"id":32139,"date":"2020-02-04T09:34:03","date_gmt":"2020-02-04T09:34:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=32139"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:37:00","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:37:00","slug":"6-reaccoes-eficazes-para-acabar-com-um-narcisista","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/6-reaccoes-eficazes-para-acabar-com-um-narcisista\/","title":{"rendered":"6 respostas eficazes para acabar com um narcisista"},"content":{"rendered":"

Acabar com um narcisista <\/a> normalmente parece uma miss\u00e3o imposs\u00edvel.<\/p>\n

No entanto, acreditem que isso pode ser feito de forma eficaz.<\/p>\n

Todos os narcisistas t\u00eam um padr\u00e3o de comportamento semelhante e, consequentemente, existem algumas reac\u00e7\u00f5es que funcionam como um encanto em quase todos os narcisistas. Aqui est\u00e3o 6 das mais eficazes.<\/p>\n

\u201cYou are the one who is wrong\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Uma das caracter\u00edsticas que todos os narcisistas partilham \u00e9 o facto de estarem convencidos de que t\u00eam sempre raz\u00e3o, apesar da verdade \u00f3bvia e independentemente das circunst\u00e2ncias.<\/p>\n

Mesmo quando o narcisista tem consci\u00eancia de que n\u00e3o tem raz\u00e3o, esfor\u00e7a-se sempre por persuadir os seus v\u00edtima <\/a> para ver as coisas \u00e0 sua maneira.<\/p>\n

However, this is when you have to tell your abuser that he can\u2019t change your mind about things and that he might as well stop trying.<\/p>\n

Voc\u00eas t\u00eam as vossas pr\u00f3prias vis\u00f5es do mundo e atitudes e ele nunca vos poder\u00e1 fazer acreditar em algo que n\u00e3o \u00e9 verdade.<\/p>\n

Mostre-lhe que existem diferentes pontos de vista em todas as situa\u00e7\u00f5es poss\u00edveis, que simplesmente n\u00e3o concorda com o dele e que n\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada que ele possa fazer.<\/p>\n

\u201cI\u2019m not to blame\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Um narcisista tentar\u00e1 sempre fazer com que a sua v\u00edtima pare\u00e7a o mau da fita.<\/p>\n

He will do his best to convince you that you are responsible for everything going wrong in your relationship; even when he admits that he is guilty, he\u2019ll twist reality by telling you that you made him do or say something he shouldn\u2019t have.<\/p>\n

Seja como for, ele quer que penses que a culpa \u00e9 sempre tua, de uma forma ou de outra.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 por isso que tem de mostrar ao seu narcisista que n\u00e3o est\u00e1 disposto a assumir toda a responsabilidade por tudo o que \u00e9 mau na sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

You have to be brave enough to call him out on his actions and let him know that he didn\u2019t manage to get inside your head and make you feel guilty.<\/p>\n

\u201cI am not crazy\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Cada narcisista tentar\u00e1 brincar com a sua v\u00edtima, fazendo-a acreditar que a sua vis\u00e3o da realidade n\u00e3o \u00e9 correcta.<\/p>\n

He will try to make you question your own sanity, telling you that things are not the way you see them, that something didn\u2019t go down the way it did, that you are imagining things or that you are not sane for feeling something.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 voc\u00ea que tem de dizer ao seu agressor que o est\u00e1 a perseguir; voc\u00ea v\u00ea o que ele est\u00e1 a tentar fazer, mas n\u00e3o o conseguir\u00e1.<\/p>\n

You are not the crazy one and he\u2019ll never manage to make you believe that.<\/p>\n

\u201cI am not overly emotional\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Quando se discute com uma pessoa narcisista, ela vai sempre tentar jogar a carta das emo\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n

Tu \u00e9 que est\u00e1s a exagerar e a deixar que os teus sentimentos te dominem.<\/p>\n

Even though there isn\u2019t anything bad about this, a narcissist is telling you these things to prove to you that you are the weak one and the one who doesn\u2019t see things clearly.<\/p>\n

Por isso, tem de lhe dizer que n\u00e3o \u00e9 demasiado emotiva, que \u00e9 assertiva e que ele n\u00e3o tem o direito de falar do seu estado emocional.<\/p>\n

\u201cYou can\u2019t control me\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Every narcissist\u2019s final goal when it comes to his victims is to have complete controlo sobre eles <\/a>.<\/p>\n

Ele quer controlar todos os aspectos da sua vida, incluindo os seus pensamentos e sentimentos.<\/p>\n

No entanto, quando sentir que o seu narcisista est\u00e1 a tentar ganhar controlo sobre si, tem de o parar imediatamente.<\/p>\n

You need to remind him that you are a strong individual with your own thoughts, desires and feelings and that he can\u2019t cage you in any way.<\/p>\n

Tens de lhe mostrar que ele nunca conseguir\u00e1 mudar a ess\u00eancia de quem tu \u00e9s, por isso \u00e9 melhor ele parar de tentar.<\/p>\n

\u201cI\u2019ve had enough\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

Sempre que estiver a discutir com algu\u00e9m ou se encontrar no meio de uma situa\u00e7\u00e3o desconfort\u00e1vel, lembre-se de que tem sempre o direito de virar as costas a essa pessoa e afastar-se com dignidade.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t allow anyone to drag you into a fight you don\u2019t want to partake in.<\/p>\n

Leaving the situation doesn\u2019t make you weak or a loser and it definitely doesn\u2019t mean that the other person is right.<\/p>\n

Significa apenas que est\u00e1 a escolher a sua paz mental em vez de provar que algu\u00e9m est\u00e1 errado.<\/p>\n

\"6<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Shutting down a narcissist usually seems like mission impossible. Nevertheless, trust me that it can be done effectively. All narcissists have a similar pattern of behavior and consequently, there are some comebacks that work like a charm on almost every single narcissist out there. Here are 6 of the most effective ones. \u201cYou are the…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":85141,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29633],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-32139","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-narcissism"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29633,"label":"narcissism"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/6-Effective-Comebacks-To-Use-To-Shut-Down-A-Narcissist.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29633,"name":"narcissism","slug":"narcissism","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29633,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","parent":22911,"count":232,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29633,"category_count":232,"category_description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","cat_name":"narcissism","category_nicename":"narcissism","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/32139","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=32139"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/32139\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/85141"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=32139"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=32139"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=32139"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}