Why can\u2019t we pack our things and go? This would save so much of our time and would spare us so many sleepless nights or the nights we\u2019re crying ourselves to sleep.<\/p>\n
When we first meet a toxic person who everybody\u2019s warned us about, we get blinded by their attention directed toward us, and we think we\u2019re special because out of all the people, they\u2019ve chosen to like us. <\/b><\/p>\n
It\u2019s such a privilege, there must be something amazing about us! <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n
The only thing that\u2019s amazing is how naive we can be to think we\u2019re actually something special when, in fact, we\u2019re food for the worst human predators ever.<\/b><\/p>\n
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And although they\u2019re withdrawn emotionally, we stay and keep waiting for them to open up to us because we think we will be the one to change them. <\/b><\/p>\n
Mas, mais uma vez, ser t\u00e3o ing\u00e9nuo s\u00f3 nos pode levar \u00e0 ru\u00edna, mesmo que no in\u00edcio esper\u00e1ssemos ser her\u00f3is. <\/b><\/p>\n
Raparigas que se apaixonam por rapazes maus<\/a> Ficam viciados nos altos e baixos das rela\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n We get intoxicated by the feelings that a toxic relationship awakens in us and this might answer the question of why we aren\u2019t leaving.<\/p>\n Com a nossa tend\u00eancia para namorar meninos maus<\/a>, we don\u2019t give up easily. We stay and we fight harder instead of leaving. And in doing so, narcissistic people strengthen our addiction with their mistreatment.<\/p>\n Parece que quanto maior \u00e9 o n\u00edvel de dor, mais apegados nos tornamos.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t be mistaken\u2014every single one of them does it.<\/p>\n We fall for their \u2018you-are-my-soulmate\u2019 story. They all make a good impression at first and we often (and more than we should), believe the story they sell us about themselves.<\/p>\n Fingem ter inten\u00e7\u00f5es puras e, no in\u00edcio, fazem-nos sentir especiais. Mas nada disso dura muito tempo.<\/p>\n Quando se trata de narcisistas, n\u00e3o se fala sobre as suas rela\u00e7\u00f5es anteriores e, se o fizerem, \u00e9 f\u00e1cil notar o seu historial de rela\u00e7\u00f5es r\u00e1pidas, sobrepostas e t\u00f3xicas.<\/p>\n Uma bandeira vermelha est\u00e1 a ser agitada em todo o lado, mas s\u00f3 se prestarmos aten\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n Eventually, people tend to see through them and it\u2019s easy to notice shallow and disingenuous emotions, but in most cases, it\u2019s when it is way too late.<\/p>\n Nenhuma pessoa que se sinta bem consigo pr\u00f3pria ficaria com um narcisista.<\/p>\n This is something narcissistic people are very aware of and that\u2019s why they\u2019re quick to make their victims feel less worthy.<\/p>\n S\u00e3o r\u00e1pidos a deitar os outros abaixo e a apontar todos os defeitos que temos, quando, ao mesmo tempo, se v\u00eaem a si pr\u00f3prios em termos absolutamente positivos.<\/p>\n It\u2019s their way to feel superior\u2014they need to make everybody less worthy. That\u2019s how they feed their egos since they consider themselves as God\u2019s ultimate creations.<\/p>\n They don\u2019t take criticism very well and that might be one reason they undermine people.<\/p>\n They need to have broken people around them who can\u2019t think for themselves and who will dim their voices\u2014that\u2019s the main reason they put people down.<\/p>\n And once we\u2019re under the constant influence of being told how we are not good enough or how they\u2019re superior and how we should be lucky someone like them wants to be with someone like us, we start believing this.<\/p>\n We get addicted to this idea that someone who\u2019s better than us actually wants to be with us and we stay. We stay even when we know we should be running for our lives.<\/p>\n If we weren\u2019t scared of anything, how could narcissistic people stick their claws into us?<\/p>\n They couldn\u2019t, so they need to create this fear in us in order to be able to gain control over us.<\/p>\n We are afraid of losing them. We\u2019re afraid we\u2019ll never find anyone better than them.<\/p>\n A verdade \u00e9 que se vendem t\u00e3o bem aos outros, gabando-se constantemente e apontando as suas conquistas, na maioria das vezes exagerando tudo. O pior \u00e9 que at\u00e9 eles acreditam nas suas mentiras.<\/p>\n They\u2019ve reached the professional level of being a liar to the point where they manage to convince themselves of their lies.<\/p>\n We tend to see them better than they really are and with time, we develop the idea that they are the best of what\u2019s out there.<\/p>\n That\u2019s why we\u2019re scared to lose them or let them go. And that\u2019s why we put up with being mistreated all the time.<\/p>\n \u201cRelationships with narcissists are held in place by the hope of a \u2018someday better,\u2019 with little evidence to support it will ever arrive.\u201d – Ramani Durvasula<\/p><\/blockquote>\n Somebody needs to break it to you\u2014dating a narcissist won\u2019t give you superpowers.<\/b><\/p>\nNarcissists \u2018lovebomb\u2019 their victims in the beginning.<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nAs pessoas narcisistas fazem com que as suas v\u00edtimas se sintam menos dignas.<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nTodos os narcisistas fazem com que as suas v\u00edtimas se sintam assustadas.<\/h2>\n
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