{"id":32189,"date":"2019-02-05T11:21:46","date_gmt":"2019-02-05T11:21:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=32189"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:19:10","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:19:10","slug":"as-consequencias-de-me-aperceber-que-ele-nao-era-a-pessoa-por-quem-me-apaixonei","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/as-consequencias-de-me-aperceber-que-ele-nao-era-a-pessoa-por-quem-me-apaixonei\/","title":{"rendered":"As consequ\u00eancias de perceber que ele n\u00e3o era a pessoa por quem me apaixonei"},"content":{"rendered":"

The truth is, when you fall in love with someone, you become blind. Everything seems perfect, idyllic. You look each other in the eye for hours, you kiss passionately, you laugh, the time flies and you\u2019re happy together.<\/span><\/p>\n

He becomes everything you ever wanted and you wait every second for someone to wake you up from this dream. Your life becomes a fairy tale where you\u2019re treated like a queen, until you realize that it is not.<\/span><\/p>\n

Eu tamb\u00e9m vivia num conto de fadas. Eu amava algu\u00e9m que era perfeito aos meus olhos. Ele tinha tudo. As maneiras de um cavalheiro, um lado sens\u00edvel e um cora\u00e7\u00e3o grande e protetor. Fazia tudo para me fazer sentir especial e surpreendia-me quando eu menos esperava.<\/span><\/p>\n

Eu amava-o com todo o meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o, corpo e alma e pensei para mim pr\u00f3pria: <\/span>\u00c9 isto mesmo! O amor verdadeiro deve ser assim!<\/b> Being unable to sleep at night because you can\u2019t wait for the new day, to hear his voice and be next to him. Acting childishly in front of each other because you feel like you\u2019ve just been born.<\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s like you\u2019ve been waiting all this time for the moment when you\u2019ll discover the beauty of love. You feel like nothing can separate you no matter what because you would never let anyone ruin what you have. You feel blessed.<\/span><\/p>\n

At\u00e9 um momento em que nos apercebemos que a pessoa que amamos j\u00e1 n\u00e3o \u00e9 a mesma por quem nos apaixon\u00e1mos.<\/b><\/p>\n

De repente, ele mudou completamente. As suas ac\u00e7\u00f5es j\u00e1 n\u00e3o eram as ac\u00e7\u00f5es do homem por quem me apaixonei. Eu mal o reconhecia. Ele j\u00e1 n\u00e3o se esfor\u00e7ava para me fazer sentir especial como antes.<\/span><\/p>\n

At first, I refused to believe that this was all true because I was afraid that someone would wake me up from my dream, my fairy tale. I was constantly finding excuses for his behavior because I didn\u2019t want to believe that he\u2019d changed. I didn\u2019t want to believe that his love toward me had all of a sudden turned into something incomprehensible to me. Something indifferent that was totally unlike him.<\/span><\/p>\n

E ent\u00e3o, ocorreu-me. <\/b>When I looked him in the eye, I felt coldness in my heart. Like I was looking at some stranger\u2019s eyes that I had never seen before. I realized that he was no longer the same person with whom I\u2019d been acting childishly and who would hug me so strong that I thought I was going to suffocate. <\/span><\/p>\n

He wasn\u2019t the person who would <\/span>fazer um esfor\u00e7o<\/span><\/a> para fazer qualquer coisa por mim para me fazer feliz.<\/span><\/p>\n

I was no longer his priority. I\u2019d become his option. It was so hard to believe that all of this was going through my brain. It was so hard to accept the fact that nothing would ever be the same.<\/span><\/p>\n

When you invest all of yourself into something you believe is meant to stay, it\u2019s hard to think otherwise. It\u2019s hard to accept crumbs once you\u2019ve experienced the real thing.<\/b><\/p>\n

The worst thing of all is the feeling of powerlessness. When your world is falling apart in front of your eyes and there\u2019s nothing you can do. You wish you could go back and erase every single kiss, hug and gesture made by him so that it doesn\u2019t remind you of the good days you once had.<\/span><\/p>\n

O seu c\u00e9rebro est\u00e1 ocupado com a \u00fanica pergunta que ficar\u00e1 sempre sem resposta: <\/span>O que \u00e9 que mudou? <\/b>Did you love him too much so that he\u2019d become scared of your love? Did you do something wrong that caused him to change his mind about you? Did you become too hard to love? Did you ask for too much?<\/span><\/p>\n

Over time, you realize that none of this is true. You are not the reason why he changed. The only reason why he\u2019s no longer the same person you fell for lies in the amount of his efforts. The truth is that he no longer <\/span>preocupa-se o suficiente<\/span><\/a> para te tratar como a sua rainha.<\/span><\/p>\n

He decided to discard everything you had because he didn\u2019t want to continue building it. He became a stranger who will always remind you of the man he once used to be. He became a memory.<\/span><\/p>\n

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The truth is, when you fall in love with someone, you become blind. Everything seems perfect, idyllic. You look each other in the eye for hours, you kiss passionately, you laugh, the time flies and you\u2019re happy together. He becomes everything you ever wanted and you wait every second for someone to wake you up…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":32190,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-32189","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/kinga-cichewicz-1342232-unsplash.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/32189","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=32189"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/32189\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/32190"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=32189"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=32189"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=32189"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}