{"id":32227,"date":"2019-02-06T08:59:38","date_gmt":"2019-02-06T08:59:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=32227"},"modified":"2022-03-09T13:42:28","modified_gmt":"2022-03-09T13:42:28","slug":"leia-isto-se-tiver-sido-rejeitado-e-se-isso-lhe-doer-muito","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/leia-isto-se-tiver-sido-rejeitado-e-se-isso-lhe-doer-muito\/","title":{"rendered":"Leia isto se foi rejeitado e d\u00f3i muito"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>If you hardly had any sleep last night because you spent the whole night looking inside yourself for the main culprit for your getting rejected\u2026Hi! Nice to meet you. I\u2019ve been there and please&#8230; join the club.<\/p>\n<p>There are a lot of us out there, and don\u2019t even for a second start to think that you are alone. Rejection does that to you. It fills you with loneliness. It makes you believe that the other person pushed you away because you are not good enough.<\/p>\n<p>Por isso, continua a pensar que poderia ter feito ou dito algo diferente para mudar o resultado. Que se fosses um pouco menos como tu, tudo seria diferente agora.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t drown in your thoughts. You haven\u2019t made a mistake. You were always supposed to stay true to yourself.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s time you silence that negativity and see the real truth about rejection&#8230;someone failed to see what you are made of and all your potential, and them leaving you is an <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/10-razoes-pelas-quais-ser-solteiro-e-uma-dadiva\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">presente absoluto<\/span><\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><b>A verdade \u00e9 que a vida tem coisas melhores reservadas para si do que a pessoa que escolheu partir. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>E se estiver a ser completamente honesta consigo mesma, nunca foi verdadeiramente feliz com eles. Apenas sentiu que estava perto da felicidade e agarrou-se \u00e0 ideia de que ele era a pessoa certa para si.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not the end of the world even if it feels like that. Your heart gets broken and every crack hurts like hell. You just can\u2019t make peace with what happened so easily.<\/p>\n<p>Isso \u00e9 mais do que bom. Nada acontece de um dia para o outro. Precisa de tempo, mas vai ganhar coragem para lidar com todas as coisas que o assustam e que est\u00e3o no seu caminho.<\/p>\n<p><b>You will open your eyes and see that there was nothing wrong with you. The only wrong here is the person you invested in so selflessly who didn\u2019t know how to reciprocate.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>The only wrong here is the person who underestimated you and took you for granted. The person who showed clearly that they don&#8217;t respect you, and they don\u2019t deserve a place in your life.<\/p>\n<p>The behavior of that person towards you burdened you with a subconscious belief that you are not worthy of love and respect. That\u2019s why you started picking at your flaws and belittling yourself.<\/p>\n<p>Stop. Don\u2019t do that. Your self-worth has nothing to do with getting rejected, and it has everything to do with yourself. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/validar-saber-sentir-real\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Valide-se a si pr\u00f3prio<\/span><\/a> because what matters is how you see yourself, not how others see you. Trust me\u2014half of the time they aren\u2019t really paying attention because all they care about is themselves.<\/p>\n<p>Respect who you are and what you\u2019ve accomplished so far in life. Love yourself. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/tratarmo-nos-como-alguem-que-amamos\/\">Tratar-se bem<\/a>para que outra pessoa saiba como tratar-te.<\/p>\n<p>No final do dia, somos n\u00f3s que damos o exemplo. S\u00f3 n\u00f3s determinamos o que merecemos, por isso seja simp\u00e1tico consigo pr\u00f3prio e nunca permita que ningu\u00e9m o trate mal.<\/p>\n<p><b>Rejection isn\u2019t something that determines your value<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u2014<\/span><b>it&#8217;s just the sign that you deserve more. That you\u2019ve got options in life, so you can start writing a better story than you were in<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u2014<\/span><b>uma hist\u00f3ria que nunca acaba, mas que come\u00e7a e dura na felicidade. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>You see, you learn from your pain. We all do. It\u2019s what makes us grow and evolve. It\u2019s what makes us discover ourselves and what we are made of.<\/p>\n<p>Por isso, aceite a rejei\u00e7\u00e3o como uma parte da vida que o empurrou para fora da sua zona de conforto e que come\u00e7ou a formar a pessoa mais forte, mais s\u00e1bia e mais amante de si pr\u00f3prio que ainda est\u00e1 para se tornar.<\/p>\n<p>Abrace-a como uma oportunidade de amor verdadeiro, porque a pessoa com quem \u00e9 suposto acabares far\u00e1 tudo para te manter na vida dela e apaixonar-se-\u00e1 por todas as tuas pequenas virtudes e defeitos.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If you hardly had any sleep last night because you spent the whole night looking inside yourself for the main culprit for your getting rejected\u2026Hi! Nice to meet you. I\u2019ve been there and please&#8230; join the club. There are a lot of us out there, and don\u2019t even for a second start to think that&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":32228,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29628],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-32227","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dealing-with-breakup"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29628,"label":"dealing with breakup"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/samantha-sophia-363796-unsplash.jpg",800,531,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29628,"name":"dealing with breakup","slug":"dealing-with-breakup","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29628,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. 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