{"id":32245,"date":"2020-04-06T11:28:11","date_gmt":"2020-04-06T11:28:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=32245"},"modified":"2022-05-04T11:41:59","modified_gmt":"2022-05-04T11:41:59","slug":"8-sinais-de-que-o-seu-medo-pistantrofobico-de-confiar-nos-outros-esta-a-arruinar-as-suas-relacoes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/8-sinais-de-que-o-seu-medo-pistantrofobico-de-confiar-nos-outros-esta-a-arruinar-as-suas-relacoes\/","title":{"rendered":"8 Sinais de que a sua Pistantrofobia (medo de confiar nos outros) est\u00e1 a arruinar as suas rela\u00e7\u00f5es"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ent\u00e3o, o que \u00e9 exatamente a pistantrofobia? \u00c9 o medo de confiar nas outras pessoas e, sim, \u00e9 uma fobia real.<\/p>\n

A pergunta l\u00f3gica seguinte \u00e9: como \u00e9 que as pessoas adquirem este tipo de fobia? Bem, as principais causas para o desenvolvimento da pistofobia s\u00e3o experi\u00eancias anteriores, dolorosas e m\u00e1s, durante as quais se foi magoado de uma forma ou de outra por outras pessoas.<\/p>\n

Por exemplo, se algu\u00e9m o magoou no passado, a sua mente vai lembrar-se disso e, inconscientemente, vai come\u00e7ar a ter um medo constante de ser magoado novamente.<\/p>\n

As suas m\u00e1s experi\u00eancias funcionam como um gatilho quando se trata de conhecer novas pessoas, e \u00e9 por isso que se sente incapaz de se abrir a algu\u00e9m novo.<\/p>\n

No que diz respeito \u00e0s rela\u00e7\u00f5es, este \u00e9 um problema enorme, porque nos impede de sermos quem somos com algu\u00e9m que acab\u00e1mos de conhecer, de mostrarmos as nossas verdadeiras cores e de sermos vulner\u00e1veis \u00e0 frente dessa pessoa.<\/p>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Trust is the core of every relationship, and if you\u2019re having troubles relaxing and trusting others, you will never be able to set the foundation for your relationship to function properly.<\/p>\n

Summarized, if you want to be in a happy relationship, you need to let down your walls and face your fears because you don\u2019t want to ruin every potential date and opportunity to find the one.<\/p>\n

Mas, o primeiro passo \u00e9 estabelecer a exist\u00eancia da pistofobia, e aqui est\u00e3o 8 sinais de que pode ser uma das pessoas que tem medo de confiar nos outros.<\/p>\n

8 sinais de que a sua pistantrofobia (medo de confiar nos outros) est\u00e1 a arruinar as suas rela\u00e7\u00f5es<\/b><\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

\u00c9 c\u00e9tico em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a todas as pessoas que conhece<\/h2>\n

\"mulher       <\/p>\n

Tem dificuldade em classificar algu\u00e9m como digno de confian\u00e7a, mesmo que essa pessoa seja adorada e amada por todos os que o rodeiam.<\/p>\n

You simply cannot help yourself being skeptical about every single person you meet because you can\u2019t believe that such a person exists.<\/p>\n

You are convinced that everyone will hurt you, and it is just a matter of time even though they haven\u2019t given you any single reason not to trust them.<\/p>\n

Mas esta for\u00e7a \u00e9 mais forte do que tu, e sentes que n\u00e3o consegues lutar contra a vontade de ser c\u00e9tico em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a toda a gente.<\/p>\n

Uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o feliz parece estar a quil\u00f3metros de dist\u00e2ncia de si<\/h2>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

Quando pensa na sua vida amorosa, a \u00fanica coisa que v\u00ea \u00e9 o lado negativo da mesma.<\/p>\n

Simplesmente n\u00e3o consegue imaginar o tipo de rela\u00e7\u00e3o ou a pessoa com quem seria feliz. Parece um territ\u00f3rio desconhecido com o qual nunca se ir\u00e1 familiarizar.<\/p>\n

You keep repeating to everyone around you that you\u2019ll forever be single, and you believe it with all of your heart.<\/p>\n

To you, just the mention of a happy relationship sounds irritating and incomprehensible because you don\u2019t believe that such a thing even exists.<\/p>\n

And even if it does, you\u2019re convinced that it will certainly never happen to you.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 uma pessoa que est\u00e1 sempre a pensar demais<\/h2>\n

\"8<\/p>\n

You always think that there has to be more to every person you meet because you don\u2019t believe that they are being genuine with you.<\/p>\n

So, you\u2019re constantly reading between the lines and trying to figure out their hidden, ulterior motives.<\/p>\n

You simply cannot be satisfied with things being as they are. You always dig for more because you\u2019re convinced that it is just a matter of time until you\u2019ll find out that all this time, they\u2019ve been nothing but liars and manipulators.<\/p>\n

Sometimes you find yourself being unable to listen to their words because you\u2019re too busy developing the whole schema regarding their suspicious personality.<\/p>\n

Duvidas de tudo o que ouves<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Trata toda a gente como mentirosa ou potenciais mentirosos disfar\u00e7ados<\/a>. Seja o que for que te digam, nunca, mas nunca, confiar\u00e1s neles.<\/p>\n

You doubt every single word you hear because you\u2019re kind of programmed to do so.<\/p>\n

O teu c\u00e9rebro j\u00e1 n\u00e3o \u00e9 capaz de distinguir as verdades das mentiras.<\/p>\n

Na sua mente, tudo o que ouve \u00e9 uma mentira, e \u00e9 apenas uma quest\u00e3o de tempo at\u00e9 que seja confirmada.<\/p>\n

Acredita que quanto mais simp\u00e1tica for a pessoa, mais mentirosa ela \u00e9, e essa \u00e9 a \u00fanica verdade no que diz respeito \u00e0 sua perce\u00e7\u00e3o das pessoas que o rodeiam. Quanto mais simp\u00e1ticas falarem, menos acreditar\u00e1 nelas.<\/p>\n

You wholeheartedly believe in Murphy\u2019s law (\u201cEverything that can possibly go wrong will go wrong\u201d)<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

\u00c9 um pessimista convicto em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a tudo. Acredita que tudo o que pode correr mal, vai correr mal e ningu\u00e9m lhe pode dizer o contr\u00e1rio.<\/p>\n

Parte-se sempre do princ\u00edpio de que certas coisas v\u00e3o correr mal porque est\u00e3o destinadas a correr assim, mesmo que n\u00e3o se tenha provas disso.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t remember the last time you thought positively about the outcome of a certain situation\u2014most probably you didn\u2019t due to being occupied with the negative side of it.<\/p>\n

Pensar positivamente \u00e9 um pr\u00e9-requisito quando se trata de atrair felicidade e coisas boas na vida.<\/p>\n

So, if you\u2019re constantly negatively oriented, you will attract such things as well.<\/p>\n

Tem ci\u00fames com demasiada facilidade<\/h2>\n

\"grande<\/p>\n

\u00c9 muito inseguro em rela\u00e7\u00e3o ao seu lugar numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a>E esta inseguran\u00e7a provoca ci\u00fames constantes, mesmo nas coisas mais simples.<\/p>\n

You get jealous too easily because you\u2019re constantly on the edge, thinking what\u2019s going to happen next or that your partner or potential partner is doing something bad.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re scared of the new things that come into your life because you see them as potential threats to your relationship.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re always assuming the worst, and you\u2019re suspicious of your partner\u2019s friends, work colleagues, and others with whom you\u2019re not familiar.<\/p>\n

Jealousy is the biggest enemy of every relationship, and if you\u2019re constantly blaming your partner for something they didn\u2019t do, it is a recipe for a true disaster.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve made a choice that you\u2019ll never trust anyone again<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

You have solemnly and wholeheartedly sworn that you\u2019ll never trust anyone again because of some bad experiences in your past.<\/p>\n

Fez esta escolha para proteger-se<\/a> from any possible harm in future, and that is why you\u2019re simply unable to stop overthinking and unable to break the vow of never trusting anyone again.<\/p>\n

Esta determina\u00e7\u00e3o em manter-se fiel \u00e0 sua cren\u00e7a de que as pessoas s\u00e3o batoteiras, mentirosas e manipuladoras t\u00f3xicas \u00e9 o seu maior obst\u00e1culo quando se trata de alcan\u00e7ar a verdadeira felicidade.<\/p>\n

Enquanto se recusar a pensar de forma diferente ou a ver o panorama geral, n\u00e3o conseguir\u00e1 ver que n\u00e3o h\u00e1 necessidade de ter preconceitos em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a toda a gente sem uma raz\u00e3o v\u00e1lida.<\/p>\n

You need constant reassurance of your partner\u2019s affection<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Precisamos sempre que eles nos assegurem o seu afeto e o quanto nos amam.<\/p>\n

Fazes isso porque precisas de uma valida\u00e7\u00e3o constante de que eles n\u00e3o te v\u00e3o magoar.<\/p>\n

Only if they say it as they really mean it, you will get rid of your suspicions. But, even this reassurance doesn\u2019t last for long.<\/p>\n

Em breve, encontra outra raz\u00e3o para desconfiar deles e, assim, d\u00e1 por si e pelo seu parceiro a andar em c\u00edrculos.<\/p>\n

Por vezes, exigimos demasiado deles e, se n\u00e3o forem capazes de o fazer, ficamos desiludidos com eles.<\/p>\n

You see, your fear of trusting others is constantly forcing you to do things you wouldn\u2019t do normally, and it is preventing you from enjoying a felicidade que merece<\/a>.<\/p>\n

O melhor que pode fazer nesta situa\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 dar passos de beb\u00e9 e come\u00e7ar gradualmente a abrir-se aos outros, porque \u00e9 a \u00fanica forma de sair deste labirinto confuso.<\/p>\n

\"8<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

So, what is exactly pistanthrophobia? It is a fear of trusting other people, and yes, it\u2019s an actual phobia. The next logical question is how do people get this kind of phobia? Well, the main causes for developing pistanthrophobia are previous heartbreaking and bad experiences during which you got hurt one way or another by…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":83823,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-32245","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/8-Signs-Your-Pistanthrophobia-Fear-Of-Trusting-Others-Is-Ruining-Your-Relationships.jpg",800,543,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","parent":29620,"count":544,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29622,"category_count":544,"category_description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","cat_name":"relationship advice","category_nicename":"relationship-advice","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/32245","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=32245"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/32245\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/83823"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=32245"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=32245"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=32245"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}