{"id":32350,"date":"2020-07-08T08:39:27","date_gmt":"2020-07-08T08:39:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=32350"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:56:31","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:56:31","slug":"12-sinais-de-uma-mulher-controladora","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/12-sinais-de-uma-mulher-controladora\/","title":{"rendered":"12 sinais de uma mulher controladora"},"content":{"rendered":"

A sua mulher est\u00e1 a tentar control\u00e1-lo? \u00c9 ou tornou-se uma mulher controladora?<\/em><\/p>\n

Todas as mulheres s\u00e3o diferentes. Algumas de n\u00f3s t\u00eam personalidades demasiado emotivas, teimosas, imprudentes, confusas, am\u00e1veis e por a\u00ed fora. Mas tamb\u00e9m h\u00e1 mulheres que exibem um comportamento controlador.<\/p>\n

Controlar o comportamento significa ter constantemente a necessidade de ter tudo sob controlo; garantir que tudo corre como imaginado.<\/p>\n

As pessoas controladoras t\u00eam a sua pr\u00f3pria abordagem especificamente concebida para obrigar os outros a obedecer e a fazer o que elas querem.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s really difficult to get along with them, and that is why conflicts become inevitable.<\/p>\n

But, there\u2019s one thing we should all be aware off:O comportamento de controlo \u00e9 uma perturba\u00e7\u00e3o. N\u00e3o se trata de um comportamento adquirido. Chama-se Perturba\u00e7\u00e3o Obsessivo-Compulsiva da Personalidade (POC) e o tratamento envolve normalmente uma terapia da fala.<\/b><\/p>\n

Por isso, se acha que a sua mulher come\u00e7ou a control\u00e1-lo, n\u00e3o a culpe.<\/p>\n

Ela n\u00e3o est\u00e1 a fazer isso porque quer que se sinta infeliz.<\/p>\n

She is doing it because she\u2019s going through the stages of a personality disorder, and here are 12 signs confirming it.<\/p>\n

12 sinais de uma mulher controladora<\/b><\/p>\n

Ela isola-o dos seus amigos e fam\u00edlia<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Ela pode estar a queixar-se do tempo passado com algu\u00e9m da sua fam\u00edlia ou com os seus amigos (especialmente se forem mulheres).<\/p>\n

Ela faz isso porque est\u00e1 inconscientemente a tentar apagar todo o seu apoio para que se torne fraco.<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re not that much surrounded by others, you become distant with them, and that way, it is easier to control your behavior.<\/p>\n

Por exemplo, quando ela lhe diz que se deve comportar de uma determinada maneira ou mudar algumas coisas, n\u00e3o ter\u00e1 ningu\u00e9m com quem falar sobre o assunto para saber as suas opini\u00f5es sobre o que ela lhe disse.<\/p>\n

Ela est\u00e1 constantemente a critic\u00e1-lo<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Fa\u00e7as o que fizeres, ela encontra sempre algo que fizeste mal.<\/p>\n

No matter how much you try, you will always miss something that she will use against you. But, don\u2019t get me wrong. Criticizing is good but to a certain degree.<\/p>\n

Neste contexto, a cr\u00edtica \u00e9 vista como uma poderosa arma de manipula\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Isso faz com que a outra pessoa se sinta desvalorizada e n\u00e3o aceite. Por isso, se a sua mulher est\u00e1 constantemente a critic\u00e1-lo pelas mais pequenas coisas, saiba que isso n\u00e3o \u00e9 saud\u00e1vel.<\/p>\n

Esta situa\u00e7\u00e3o cria um enorme fosso entre duas pessoas e \u00e9 um fator de destrui\u00e7\u00e3o de uma boa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Ela amea\u00e7a-o<\/h2>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

She threatens that she will leave you if you don\u2019t change some things regarding your behavior.<\/p>\n

Also, she might threaten that she will harm herself if you leave her. It\u2019s a double-edged sword, and it is hard to think clearly in a situation like this.<\/p>\n

Threatening is another powerful weapon when it comes to controlling other people\u2019s behavior.<\/p>\n

It works on the principle: \u201cIf you don\u2019t do this, I will make you feel bad for not doing it.\u201d This also includes emotional manipulation like tears, playing the victim, etc.<\/p>\n

She makes you feel like you\u2019re not good enough<\/h2>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

She is constantly pointing out your flaws, making you feel like you\u2019re not good enough, and you\u2019ll never be no matter what you do. No matter how hard you try to make things better, there will be another reason why you\u2019ll never be able to improve yourself.<\/p>\n

Ela n\u00e3o apoia os seus sonhos e desejos porque isso significaria que tem outros interesses para al\u00e9m dela.<\/p>\n

Ela faz isto porque quer toda a sua aten\u00e7\u00e3o e quer mold\u00e1-lo \u00e0s suas prefer\u00eancias.<\/p>\n

And that is only doable if you\u2019re constantly reminded that you need to work on yourself in order to be accepted.<\/p>\n

She doesn\u2019t reciprocate<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t remember the last time she did something for you. It is always about her desires and wishes, and it is always about you doing something for her.<\/p>\n

Ela espera tudo de si, mas n\u00e3o est\u00e1 disposta a dar-lhe o mesmo tratamento.<\/p>\n

Reciprocity is the key to a happy relationship, and if your woman is depriving you of your right to receive what you\u2019ve given, know that you\u2019re in a controlling, unhealthy environment in which she forces you to think that you don\u2019t deserve the same treatment you\u2019re giving others.<\/p>\n

Ela faz-nos sentir culpados por tudo<\/h2>\n

\"retrato<\/p>\n

When something bad happens, you\u2019re guilty. She accuses you of being guilty for every major and minor occurrence without any valid proof.<\/p>\n

Uma mulher controladora faz isto para manter o poder sobre si, porque se se sentir culpada, estar\u00e1 sempre num estado de alerta que a levar\u00e1 a melhorar.<\/p>\n

A culpa \u00e9 utilizada como uma ferramenta que nos obriga a fazer qualquer coisa para nos livrarmos desse sentimento.<\/p>\n

The feeling of guilt entraps you, and it forces you to become a completely different person, doing things you normally wouldn\u2019t only to wash away your sins.<\/p>\n

Ela faz-nos sentir em d\u00edvida para com ela<\/h2>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

Ao dar-lhe algumas coisas ou ao fazer algo por si, uma mulher controladora cria por vezes um sentimento de expetativa.<\/p>\n

Ela pode comprar-lhe algo que sempre desejou ou aliment\u00e1-lo com o seu amor e carinho para depois o usar contra si.<\/p>\n

She might make you feel in debt to her for everything she\u2019s done for you because her ulterior motives were related to controlling or this just becomes her weapon when she starts craving your attention.<\/p>\n

Exige saber at\u00e9 os mais pequenos pormenores de tudo<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Exige sempre que lhe digam para onde v\u00e3o e quanto tempo v\u00e3o l\u00e1 ficar.<\/p>\n

Exige tamb\u00e9m os mais pequenos pormenores sobre o local onde foi ou as pessoas que o acompanharam.<\/p>\n

Sometimes, she even spies on you by checking your social networks when you leave your phone in the vicinity or demands that you show her what you\u2019ve been posting. And if you refuse to do so, she will start doubting even more.<\/p>\n

She does this because she feels insecure and doesn\u2019t trust anyone around you.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 por isso que ela tem a necessidade de saber tudo e de controlar tudo.<\/p>\n

Ela priva-o da sua liberdade porque ela pr\u00f3pria se sente presa.<\/p>\n

Ela \u00e9 demasiado ciumenta<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t matter if you\u2019ve exchanged a few messages with your female colleague at work or with your female friend.<\/p>\n

Ela torna-se imediatamente excessivamente ciumento<\/a> for no apparent reason, and she demands that you convince her you are not hiding anything, and you\u2019ve got nothing with these women.<\/p>\n

Her jealousy makes her go crazy. You also might have witnessed the act of her jealousy in public where she was pushing you to admit to her you did something that you didn\u2019t.<\/p>\n

Qualquer intera\u00e7\u00e3o que se tenha com a esp\u00e9cie feminina \u00e9 uma amea\u00e7a potencial aos olhos dela, e ela come\u00e7a imediatamente a reagir a isso.<\/p>\n

She doesn\u2019t respect your opinions and the need for alone time<\/h2>\n

\"fotografia<\/p>\n

Whatever you say to her, you are simply not right. She doesn\u2019t respect your opinions on certain matters because she believes only in herself and needs to have everything under control.<\/p>\n

You try to convince her that sometimes she\u2019s just not right about something, but all of your efforts always end up in vain.<\/p>\n

Also, you are never \u201callowed\u201d to have alone time because she sees it as you being unwilling to spend time with her (even if you\u2019ve spent a lot of time with her beforehand).<\/p>\n

She doesn\u2019t respect your precisa de passar algum tempo sozinho<\/a>, and when you tell her that you need to be alone, she starts suspecting that something\u2019s wrong.<\/p>\n

Ela provoca-te s\u00f3 para gozar contigo<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Por vezes, ela provoca-o<\/a> about your appearance or about something you\u2019ve done.<\/p>\n

But, she doesn\u2019t do it in a playful way. Her teasing is directed to making you mad and guilty of doing something.<\/p>\n

The aim of this is to trigger your brain to think that you\u2019re not good enough and to start looking for solutions.<\/p>\n

She\u2019s making you doubt yourself<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Sonha com uma carreira de cantor ou qualquer outra coisa que n\u00e3o seja assim t\u00e3o vulgar, e ela nunca faz um esfor\u00e7o para o apoiar.<\/p>\n

She\u2019s making you doubt your skills again, reminding you that you\u2019re not qualified for a certain position or activity.<\/p>\n

Ao faz\u00ea-lo, ela controla os seus desejos e vontades e, com isso, controla tamb\u00e9m o seu futuro.<\/p>\n

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