{"id":32499,"date":"2019-02-11T09:32:55","date_gmt":"2019-02-11T09:32:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=32499"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:13:20","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:13:20","slug":"querido-ex-ja-nao-sou-a-rapariga-que-conheceste","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/querido-ex-ja-nao-sou-a-rapariga-que-conheceste\/","title":{"rendered":"Querido Ex: J\u00e1 n\u00e3o sou a rapariga que conheceste"},"content":{"rendered":"

Tu mudaste-me, e eu adoro o meu novo eu.<\/span><\/p>\n

I no longer naively trust you, because now I know your word means shit. I no longer secretly hope that you might show up at my doorstep, having realized what an asshole you were for leaving me, because I know you\u2019re not coming and I know you\u2019re not sorry.<\/span><\/p>\n

Even if you did knock on my door again, I probably wouldn\u2019t answer. I no longer take chances on a man who took exactly two seconds to decide to dump me and <\/span>nunca olhar para tr\u00e1s<\/span><\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Never again will I foolishly blame myself for your mistakes and wrongdoings because now I know it\u2019s most definitely not me. It\u2019s you. It was always you.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

See\u2026 now I know that I am indeed <\/span>suficientemente bom<\/span><\/a>. Agora sei que o que tenho para oferecer \u00e9 substancial, digno e genu\u00edno, e aqueles que me fazem sentir inadequado por isso t\u00eam problemas e podem ir-se lixar. (ler: <\/span>voc\u00ea mesmo<\/span><\/i>).<\/span><\/p>\n

There are so many lessons I\u2019ve come to embrace with your departure. First one \u2013 I am so much stronger than both of us ever imagined. I am capable of enduring this heartbreak and thriving again. I am smarter with my decisions when it comes to men, and I am oh so much wiser.<\/span><\/p>\n

As mudan\u00e7as que sinto em mim desde que me deixaste tornaram-me mais aberta ao amor, a novas possibilidades e \u00e0 forma como me vejo a mim pr\u00f3pria. <\/span><\/p>\n

Obrigada, meu querido e doce ex. Obrigada por me teres ensinado exatamente o que nunca mais devo receber na minha vida.<\/span><\/p>\n

Thank you for making me see through all the crap I am never going to tolerate again, and for teaching me how to stand up for myself. I was always such a sucker for love\u2026 but not anymore. You made sure of it.<\/span><\/p>\n

Now, I\u2019ve finally embraced my life for what it is. I have entered the dating pool again, and finally, I no longer compare anyone to you. I no longer wish to see your face across from me at the dinner table, and I no longer crave your voice that is feeding me just what I need to hear.<\/span><\/p>\n

I don\u2019t push guys away from me anymore because I know I deserve to find somebody who will show me love, kindness and honesty.<\/span><\/p>\n

You thought you did a real number on me, didn\u2019t you? I hope it kills you to see me prospering and seeking any opportunity I come across to be happy without you. Because that\u2019s exactly what I\u2019m doing. And I love every second of it.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

I\u2019m not going to sit here and say I never think about you anymore. I do, and I\u2019m not ashamed to admit it. But the good thing is, with every single day, I feel you vanishing from my mind, little by little, and that is what I find solace in. Slowly, but surely\u2026 I am erasing you from my memory. Like you never existed.<\/span><\/p>\n

Porque, deixem-me dizer-vos. J\u00e1 n\u00e3o sou a rapariga que conheceram. Nem por sombras. J\u00e1 n\u00e3o sou a rapariga que se coloca em \u00faltimo lugar e ama o seu homem mais do que a si pr\u00f3pria. N\u00e3o, senhor. Agora, as prioridades mudaram, e eu coloco-me em primeiro lugar.<\/span><\/p>\n

E gosto da rapariga em que me estou a tornar. Gosto da minha nova for\u00e7a, do meu novo poder interior e da minha nova e melhorada perspetiva de vida.<\/span><\/p>\n

I love how I didn\u2019t let you destroy me for love. I am proud at how brave and strong I\u2019ve stayed, and even though there were some dark times… I am finally rising above them. I am a whole new woman who doesn\u2019t take crap from a weak boy, not anymore.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Your inability to love me the way you should\u2019ve loved me has changed me into the kind of woman who has finally learned to love herself, flaws and all.<\/span><\/p>\n

E todos estes anos passados contigo n\u00e3o foram mais do que uma dura li\u00e7\u00e3o e, sem ela, n\u00e3o teria sido capaz de ser a mulher que sou hoje.<\/span><\/p>\n

Por isso, da pr\u00f3xima vez que me vires, fica a saber <\/span>you didn\u2019t break me<\/span><\/a>. Instead, you\u2019ve turned me into a new woman who loves the shit out of  herself, her life, and knows exactly what\u2019s worth fighting for and what isn\u2019t worth her attention.<\/span><\/p>\n

A minha vida, a minha hist\u00f3ria. E, a partir de agora, sou a \u00fanica respons\u00e1vel por a escrever!<\/b><\/p>\n

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You changed me, and I love the new me. I no longer naively trust you, because now I know your word means shit. I no longer secretly hope that you might show up at my doorstep, having realized what an asshole you were for leaving me, because I know you\u2019re not coming and I know…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":32503,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29653],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-32499","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-letters"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29653,"label":"letters"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/gian-cescon-637914-unsplash55.jpg",800,548,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Martha Sullivan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/martha-sullivan\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29653,"name":"letters","slug":"letters","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29653,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","parent":29651,"count":207,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29653,"category_count":207,"category_description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","cat_name":"letters","category_nicename":"letters","category_parent":29651}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/32499","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/41"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=32499"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/32499\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/32503"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=32499"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=32499"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=32499"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}