{"id":32544,"date":"2020-04-11T14:27:34","date_gmt":"2020-04-11T14:27:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=32544"},"modified":"2022-02-24T10:21:57","modified_gmt":"2022-02-24T10:21:57","slug":"o-que-fazer-quando-nao-se-consegue-parar-de-pensar-nela","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/o-que-fazer-quando-nao-se-consegue-parar-de-pensar-nela\/","title":{"rendered":"O que fazer quando n\u00e3o consegues parar de pensar nela"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Por vezes, conhecemos uma rapariga e ela deixa-nos imediatamente sem f\u00f4lego.<\/p>\n<p>She won\u2019t be like any other girl you\u2019ve ever met\u2026 This one will be different.<\/p>\n<p>Vais v\u00ea-la, conhec\u00ea-la, aproximar-te dela, e ela ser\u00e1 especial. Haver\u00e1 algo nela que simplesmente irradia positividade e beleza, e dar\u00e1s por ti <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/11-coisas-subconscientes-que-os-homens-fazem-quando-se-apaixonam-perdidamente-por-uma-mulher\/\">de cabe\u00e7a para baixo <\/a>para ela.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Sempre que ela fala, \u00e9s todo ouvidos, pois cada palavra que sai da sua boca soa como uma melodia feita s\u00f3 para os teus ouvidos. Quando ela entra numa sala, parece um anjo que foi colocado nesta terra para tornar a sua vida mais significativa e encantadora.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>A forma como o seu cabelo flui numa brisa suave \u00e9 t\u00e3o hipnotizante, e o seu olhar \u00e9 de puro amor e bondade.<\/p>\n<p>She is one in a million. And you\u2019re a lucky son of a gun who gets to call her yours.<\/p>\n<p>You will spend an incredible amount of time together, and you won\u2019t be able to believe how you get to be so damn lucky\u2026 Until it stops.<\/p>\n<p>One day, things just won\u2019t work anymore between you two. You won\u2019t even know what hit you, but <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/esta-e-a-rapariga-que-so-aprenderas-a-apreciar-depois-de-ela-partir\/\">quando esta rapariga te deixa<\/a>, it\u2019s like a punch in your gut that takes a hell of a long time to recover from.<\/p>\n<p>You will suddenly be left without this person who has been making your life so much more meaningful, and you won\u2019t know how to recover from this. She was your \u2018one\u2019.<\/p>\n<p>And now, you\u2019re left with nothing but memories of your time together, and you can\u2019t get her out of your head.<\/p>\n<p>You just can\u2019t stop <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/alguem-esta-a-pensar-em-si\/\">a pensar nela<\/a> e rebobinar o tempo, tentando perceber o que raio correu mal.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>To other people, she may seem like just a regular girl who looks really cute and has a charming personality, but to you, she was the most special girl you\u2019ve ever encountered\u2026 and no one really gets it. Not like you.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>She has left such a profound impact on your life, and it\u2019s not like any other break-up you\u2019ve dealt with before. You know that this one will be much more difficult to overcome.<\/p>\n<p>No matter what you do, how much you try, you can\u2019t stop thinking about her, and worse off\u2026 you know you can\u2019t win her back.<\/p>\n<p>O teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o est\u00e1 completamente destro\u00e7ado e s\u00f3 queres deixar de pensar nisso pelo menos durante um dia.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>This is a challenging time in your life, and nobody can take this away from you. You\u2019re going through a horrible loss, and you deserve to grieve properly. But before you do, it\u2019s important that you take the right steps while trying to heal from it.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Tens de aceitar esta nova realidade como ela \u00e9, e tentar, tentar mesmo ultrapass\u00e1-la, porque quanto mais tempo a mantiveres na tua cabe\u00e7a, mais dif\u00edcil ser\u00e1 ultrapassar isto.<\/p>\n<p>Eis algumas coisas que, esperamos, facilitem esta transi\u00e7\u00e3o e o ajudem a ultrapassar esta situa\u00e7\u00e3o <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/leia-isto-se-estiver-a-passar-por-uma-separacao-dolorosa\/\">separa\u00e7\u00e3o dolorosa<\/a>e devolver-lhe o gosto pela vida.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Sair das redes sociais dela<br \/>\n<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78342 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/dark-photo-of-man-typing-on-his-phone-at-home-1.jpg\" alt=\"fotografia escura de um homem a escrever no telem\u00f3vel em casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"548\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/dark-photo-of-man-typing-on-his-phone-at-home-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/dark-photo-of-man-typing-on-his-phone-at-home-1-300x206.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/dark-photo-of-man-typing-on-his-phone-at-home-1-768x526.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/h2>\n<p>You\u2019re trying to get this girl out of your head, and you\u2019re creeping on her social media? If so, you need to stop with that, like yesterday.<\/p>\n<p>A \u00fanica forma de deixar de pensar nela \u00e9 removendo-a das suas contas online, porque ver a cara dela em todas as suas redes sociais vai fazer com que seja muito mais dif\u00edcil esquec\u00ea-la.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll never get over someone you see every single day. So do yourself a favor, and if you\u2019re not going to delete her from your friends list (which is okay) than stop following her, and hide her activity. It\u2019s that simple.<\/p>\n<p>And that\u2019s your first healthy step toward regaining your normal routine and getting your mind off of this painful journey to healing.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Assim que a cara dela aparecer na tua cabe\u00e7a, fecha-a com outros pensamentos<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78335 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/man-holding-his-head-outdoors.jpg\" alt=\"homem a segurar a cabe\u00e7a ao ar livre\" width=\"800\" height=\"531\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/man-holding-his-head-outdoors.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/man-holding-his-head-outdoors-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/man-holding-his-head-outdoors-768x510.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>This takes a lot of self-control and willpower, but it\u2019s imperative if you truly want to stop thinking about her.<\/p>\n<p>Sempre que ela lhe vier \u00e0 cabe\u00e7a, decida pensar em algo completamente diferente.<\/p>\n<p>Tentar descobrir o que cozinhar para o jantar desse dia ou planear na sua cabe\u00e7a ir visitar os seus pais nesse fim de semana.<\/p>\n<p>Try to think of some fun activity you could preoccupy yourself with, and without even realizing it, you\u2019ll actually be planning a weekend hangout, and your mind will be free of her.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s no easy task, and it\u2019s even more difficult when you have all of these feelings for her\u2026 but if you give it a real go, it could help you for real.<\/p>\n<p>Also, don\u2019t think about the exact same thing every time she pops into your mind.<\/p>\n<p>That way, you\u2019ll instantly be reminded of her again. Instead, think of a different thing that can in no way be associated with her.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Manter-se ocupado na sua vida social<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78334 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/group-of-friends-laughing-outside.jpg\" alt=\"grupo de amigos a rir-se no exterior\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/group-of-friends-laughing-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/group-of-friends-laughing-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/group-of-friends-laughing-outside-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s hard getting over someone when you\u2019re cooped up all alone in your apartment, with just your thoughts and memories.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re not making it any easier on yourself by ostracizing yourself from the world.<\/p>\n<p>Em vez disso, fa\u00e7a planos com os seus amigos para uma noite divertida. Planeie uma atividade que seja divertida, f\u00edsica e abrangente, o que deixar\u00e1 pouco tempo para pensar em qualquer outra coisa.<\/p>\n<p>When your friends invite you somewhere, don\u2019t think about it, and just go.<\/p>\n<p>Ficar sozinho em casa a desejar a mulher n\u00e3o o vai levar a lado nenhum, por isso saia do sof\u00e1 e passe tempo de qualidade com os seus amigos que certamente o querem ajudar neste processo.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s hard getting yourself to do it, but once you do, you\u2019ll be so happy you did.<\/p>\n<p>Promise! It\u2019s always hardest at the beginning, but once you start getting your groove back, you\u2019ll see that you have a pretty good life, pretty amazing friends, and things will start to look up.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Arranjar algu\u00e9m novo em quem pensar<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78339 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/group-of-friends-cheering-drinks-at-bar.jpg\" alt=\"grupo de amigos a aplaudir bebidas num bar\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/group-of-friends-cheering-drinks-at-bar.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/group-of-friends-cheering-drinks-at-bar-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/group-of-friends-cheering-drinks-at-bar-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>As you\u2019re out there, getting your groove back with your friends out on the town, you will inevitably meet a bunch of new girls who might draw some interest from you.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada de errado em passar bons momentos de flirt com uma rapariga atraente que tamb\u00e9m parece estar interessada em si.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s just innocent fun, and you have every right and reason to indulge yourself!<\/p>\n<p>So if it happens that you\u2019ve come across someone you\u2019re a least a little attracted to\u2026 give it a shot, and see where it goes.<\/p>\n<p>Talvez esta rapariga tamb\u00e9m n\u00e3o queira mais do que uma noite divertida, e pode deix\u00e1-la ajud\u00e1-lo a tirar a sua ex da cabe\u00e7a.<\/p>\n<p>Who knows, you just might meet someone new who will captivate you and truly get you to stop thinking about the ex, but even if that\u2019s not the case, you\u2019ll get some fun in the sun with a cute girl, and it will most definitely help improve your mood\u2026 if you catch my drift.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Concentre-se nos seus outros interesses<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78340 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/man-puts-hands-on-barbel-in-the-gym.jpg\" alt=\"homem p\u00f5e as m\u00e3os em barbos no gin\u00e1sio\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/man-puts-hands-on-barbel-in-the-gym.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/man-puts-hands-on-barbel-in-the-gym-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/man-puts-hands-on-barbel-in-the-gym-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>De certeza que tem passatempos ou outras coisas que faz no seu tempo livre, certo?<\/p>\n<p>Maybe you go to the gym, play in a band or even volunteer at a children\u2019s shelter!<\/p>\n<p>Seja o que for, dedique-lhe ainda mais tempo! Concentrar-se noutras coisas da sua vida que lhe d\u00e3o alegria vai ajud\u00e1-lo a sair dessa depress\u00e3o e a voltar a ver a beleza do mundo.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t let the thought of her take away other things that make you happy in life! The more time you spend doing positive things that you\u2019re passionate about, the less time you\u2019ll have to think about her.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Definir novos objectivos para si pr\u00f3prio<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78332 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/man-with-jacket-looking-around.jpg\" alt=\"homem com casaco a olhar em volta\" width=\"800\" height=\"532\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/man-with-jacket-looking-around.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/man-with-jacket-looking-around-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/man-with-jacket-looking-around-768x511.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>This is really about keeping your mind busy at all times, so that you don\u2019t have any time to dedicate to anything negative or discouraging.<\/p>\n<p>Por isso, talvez esta seja a melhor altura para pensar no seu futuro e naquilo que ainda quer alcan\u00e7ar.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t have to be anything big. Just a little project that will occupy your time and leave as little time as possible to be thinking about her.<\/p>\n<p>It can be fitness-related, work-related or even a project around the house that you\u2019ve been wanting to do for a while now.<\/p>\n<p>Pintar as paredes de uma nova cor, arranjar um quarto novo ou renovar o quintal.<\/p>\n<p>Whatever it is, make sure it\u2019s something that will bring a positive change into your life and make it better one way or another.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Desabafa com os teus amigos<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78331 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/male-friends-laughing-and-sitting-on-the-hill.jpg\" alt=\"amigos do sexo masculino a rir e sentados na colina\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/male-friends-laughing-and-sitting-on-the-hill.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/male-friends-laughing-and-sitting-on-the-hill-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/male-friends-laughing-and-sitting-on-the-hill-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>O que s\u00e3o <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/friendship\/se-estas-confuso-sobre-quem-sao-os-teus-verdadeiros-amigos-le-isto\/\">amigos verdadeiros<\/a> for, if not for being your support system when you\u2019re going through a difficult time?<\/p>\n<p>Be honest with them. Admit that you just can\u2019t stop thinking about her, and you desperately need help in ridding your mind of the painful memories of your time together.<\/p>\n<p>Os seus amigos ficar\u00e3o satisfeitos por se sentir suficientemente \u00e0 vontade para lhes confiar este assunto sens\u00edvel e delicado, e estar\u00e3o a postos para o ajudar a ultrapassar esta situa\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>Al\u00e9m disso, o simples facto de falar sobre o assunto ser\u00e1 um grande al\u00edvio. Quando se tem amigos genu\u00ednos que querem verdadeiramente <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/se-a-amas-apoia-a\/\">estar l\u00e1 para si<\/a>, it\u2019s such a reassuring feeling being able to confide in them and let them help you carry this burden.<\/p>\n<p>Let it all out, and until it feels better, don\u2019t stop. You\u2019re only human, and never feel weak about having feelings and going through dark periods.<\/p>\n<p>We all go through this; there\u2019s no shame in it. Only a real man is capable of bearing his soul and keeping it real with himself. So be proud of yourself, and let your friends be there for you.<\/p>\n<p>Acabar\u00e1 por ser muito mais feliz por ter \u00e0 sua volta um verdadeiro sistema de apoio.<\/p>\n<p>Isso ir\u00e1 certamente ajud\u00e1-lo a deixar de pensar nela e tamb\u00e9m a ligar-se aos seus amigos a um n\u00edvel ainda mais profundo.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78329 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/What-To-Do-When-You-Just-Can\u2019t-Stop-Thinking-About-Her-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"O que fazer quando n\u00e3o consegues parar de pensar nela \" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/What-To-Do-When-You-Just-Can\u2019t-Stop-Thinking-About-Her-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/What-To-Do-When-You-Just-Can\u2019t-Stop-Thinking-About-Her-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/What-To-Do-When-You-Just-Can\u2019t-Stop-Thinking-About-Her-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/What-To-Do-When-You-Just-Can\u2019t-Stop-Thinking-About-Her-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/What-To-Do-When-You-Just-Can\u2019t-Stop-Thinking-About-Her-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/What-To-Do-When-You-Just-Can\u2019t-Stop-Thinking-About-Her-Pinterest.jpg 1587w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sometimes, you will meet a girl and she will instantly take your breath away. She won\u2019t be like any other girl you\u2019ve ever met\u2026 This one will be different. You will see her, meet her, get close to her, and she will be special. There will be something about her that simply radiates positivity and&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":39,"featured_media":78330,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29641],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-32544","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips-for-him"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29641,"label":"dating tips for him"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/What-To-Do-When-You-Just-Can\u2019t-Stop-Thinking-About-Her.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Owen Scott","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/hase\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29641,"name":"dating tips for him","slug":"dating-tips-for-him","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29641,"taxonomy":"category","description":"These are not just any dating tips. 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