{"id":3255,"date":"2020-02-07T07:49:32","date_gmt":"2020-02-07T07:49:32","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=3255"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:30:01","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:30:01","slug":"tu-es-o-unico-criador-da-tua-propria-felicidade-so-depende-de-ti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/tu-es-o-unico-criador-da-tua-propria-felicidade-so-depende-de-ti\/","title":{"rendered":"Voc\u00ea \u00e9 o \u00fanico criador da sua pr\u00f3pria felicidade (depende de si)"},"content":{"rendered":"

Sei que quase toda a gente j\u00e1 sabe isto, mas vou escrever na mesma - nunca \u00e9 demais sublinhar o quanto \u00e9 importante ser feliz.<\/p>\n

Todos n\u00f3s passamos por dificuldades. Todos ca\u00edmos, mas conseguimos voltar a levantar-nos. Porqu\u00ea? Porque queremos e decidimos faz\u00ea-lo.<\/p>\n

No matter if someone broke your heart or you\u2019ve lost someone, your life has to go on\u2014it\u2019s a little bit harsh to say that, but it\u2019s true.<\/p>\n

Now, it\u2019s up to you whether you are going to dwell in the past or you are going to embrace the future and rearrange yourself\u2014your perspective and your attitude\u2014to be able to enjoy everything that your life has got to offer.<\/p>\n

I always say that some higher force, or God, or whatever you want to call it, won\u2019t ever serve you more than you can handle. You\u2019ve been through hell.<\/p>\n

You thought your life is going to end right at that moment. But still, here you are\u2014still alive, still struggling to move forward.<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1 a ver? Nada te pode vencer.<\/a> Est\u00e1 a seguir em frente.<\/p>\n

The only thing is that it\u2019s up to you whether you will bury your past and grab for the future or keep doing what you\u2019ve been doing\u2014nothing.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not saying that it\u2019s easy. Heck, if it was easy, I wouldn\u2019t have written this. I wish I could give you some kind of magic formula for you to follow and POOF!\u2014you\u2019re happy.<\/p>\n

But it doesn\u2019t work that way. I can only speak from my own experience and hope some of my words will help you, too.<\/p>\n

Deixar de culpar o passado e deixar de pensar no passado.<\/a> N\u00e3o o podes mudar e sabes disso.<\/p>\n

Stop thinking about what you would have done differently because you had your chance then and you didn\u2019t take it. You did only what you thought was right.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t worry\u2014you will get another chance to redeem yourself for the mistakes you did in the past. That is actually what the past is all about\u2014to make us learn from our past events.<\/p>\n

E depois vem o futuro para nos dar a oportunidade de voltar a fazer as coisas bem. Temos sempre uma escolha, mas temos de ser pacientes.<\/p>\n

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\"Mulher<\/p>\n

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\u00c9 preciso perceber que tem a capacidade de mudar a sua vida<\/a>. S\u00f3 voc\u00ea \u00e9 respons\u00e1vel pela sua vida, pelos seus actos e, sobretudo, pela sua felicidade.<\/p>\n

Forget about that brain-numbing ignorance. I know that every time you decide to do something with your life\u2014to take charge\u2014you regret it because it\u2019s hard and you automatically wish to go back to the life you knew before.<\/p>\n

You think to yourself that it\u2019s not that bad\u2014you got used to living that way and you will make peace with it.<\/p>\n

But no!\u2014That\u2019s the wrong answer. Don\u2019t be a wuss and fight for your happiness.<\/p>\n

I can\u2019t stress enough that it\u2019s up to you and it was up to you from the beginning. There is no need to put blame on others for the things that are happening to you because you are the one who has the ball in your court\u2014you are calling all the shots.<\/p>\n

Se algo n\u00e3o est\u00e1 bem, deixe de culpar os outros, porque a culpa \u00e9 s\u00f3 sua.<\/p>\n

Enquanto n\u00e3o perceber que a sua felicidade depende de si, ficar\u00e1 preso \u00e0 rotina impiedosa da sua vida infeliz.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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\"\u00c9<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I know that pretty much everyone knows this already, but I\u2019m going to write about it anyway\u2014it\u2019s never enough to stress how much being happy is important. We all have hardships. We all fall down but we manage to find our way up again. Why? Because we want to and we decide to do so….<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":3256,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29637],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3255","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-life-hacks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29637,"label":"life hacks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/StockSnap_QDV0VNIZT1-1.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29637,"name":"life hacks","slug":"life-hacks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29637,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When life gives you lemons - make lemonade, and allow these life hacks to remind you of your strength, potential, and the right to be happy.","parent":22911,"count":281,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29637,"category_count":281,"category_description":"When life gives you lemons - make lemonade, and allow these life hacks to remind you of your strength, potential, and the right to be happy.","cat_name":"life hacks","category_nicename":"life-hacks","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3255","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3255"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3255\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3256"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3255"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3255"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3255"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}