{"id":32609,"date":"2019-02-12T09:41:42","date_gmt":"2019-02-12T09:41:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=32609"},"modified":"2022-02-27T12:46:21","modified_gmt":"2022-02-27T12:46:21","slug":"no-momento-em-que-eu-me-for-embora-e-parar-de-lutar-considerem-me-desaparecido-para-sempre","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/no-momento-em-que-eu-me-for-embora-e-parar-de-lutar-considerem-me-desaparecido-para-sempre\/","title":{"rendered":"No momento em que eu me for embora e parar de lutar, considerem-me desaparecido para sempre"},"content":{"rendered":"

Fui sempre eu que lutei por n\u00f3s. Fui sempre eu que comprei a paz na nossa casa, pagando-a com as minhas l\u00e1grimas. A que sempre dizia que n\u00e3o valia a pena brigar por coisas pequenas.<\/p>\n

But when a lot of small things happen often, they become a really big problem you can\u2019t solve just like that. When you put up with something for such a long time, in one moment you decide para deixar ir<\/a> of everything. And it doesn\u2019t happen because you get tired of fighting but because the other side doesn\u2019t fight at all.<\/p>\n

E \u00e9 exatamente isso que me est\u00e1 a matar lentamente. Est\u00e1 a matar-me ver que sou a \u00fanica a lutar, a \u00fanica a tentar e a melhorar as coisas. Mesmo que esteja numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o contigo, sinto-me a mulher mais solit\u00e1ria do mundo.<\/p>\n

I feel like I am the only one who is actually doing something to save what we have and that you don\u2019t give a damn what will happen. You are so indifferent and it hurts more than anything.<\/p>\n

It hurts so much telling someone about your dreams and hopes while that person doesn\u2019t even listen to you. It hurts to give your love to a man who doesn\u2019t reciprocate in the same way. It hurts to sleep next to him, asking God to make him hug you, but the only thing he does is make more space between the two of you.<\/p>\n

D\u00f3i estar numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o mas n\u00e3o passar pelo que as outras mulheres apaixonadas est\u00e3o a passar. Sabes, d\u00f3i.<\/p>\n

And I just want you to know that I won\u2019t be able to continue doing this for much longer. Because this is not love anymore, it is just a bad compromise. The one in which you get all you want and where I only get the crumbs from your table.<\/p>\n

And that is not fair. That is not love. That is abuse. And I can\u2019t take it anymore. No matter how much I love you and how much I care about you, I won\u2019t be the one fighting for us.<\/p>\n

Juro que vou desistir de ti, tal como tu desististe de n\u00f3s h\u00e1 muito tempo. Vou-me embora e a \u00fanica raz\u00e3o pela qual olharei para tr\u00e1s \u00e9 para ver at\u00e9 onde cheguei.<\/p>\n

And that will happen sooner than you think. I will leave you when you least expect it. And I will never look back. You will be shocked, I know. You still don\u2019t think that I am strong enough to leave you and that you are the only man for me.<\/p>\n

Listen, even if you were the only one left standing on this earth, I wouldn\u2019t be with you. What you are giving me is not what I need. If you think that it takes so little for love, then be satisfied with someone who will take you for granted, who will neglect you and gaslight you.<\/p>\n

Because that is what you have been doing to me for all these years. And it is time to let go of everything that has been breaking me. It is finally time to accept that staying with you would hurt me more than leaving. It is time to say, \u201cGoodbye,\u201d once and for all. So, when you see me parar de lutar<\/a>Considera-me fora.<\/p>\n

And once I leave, there won\u2019t be a way for you to bring me back. Once I leave you, you won\u2019t be able to tell me your sweet lies that you love me and that you want us to work.<\/p>\n

You won\u2019t have a chance to blind me with your kisses and hugs. Once I leave, I will burn all the bridges between us.<\/p>\n

F\u00e1-lo-ei com muita satisfa\u00e7\u00e3o porque sofri durante muito tempo, desejando um amor que nunca me deste. E desta vez, quero que sintas o que eu senti durante tanto tempo.<\/p>\n

Desta vez, quero que provem do vosso pr\u00f3prio rem\u00e9dio. Talvez, mas talvez, s\u00f3 ent\u00e3o ver\u00e1s o que me fizeste.<\/p>\n

E se fores metade do homem que te apresentas, vais deixar-me em paz e nunca mais te vais meter na minha vida.<\/p>\n

V\u00e1 l\u00e1, at\u00e9 tu sabes que eu mere\u00e7o um homem melhor do que tu.<\/p>\n

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