{"id":32643,"date":"2020-05-12T13:48:04","date_gmt":"2020-05-12T13:48:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=32643"},"modified":"2021-08-11T09:42:54","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T09:42:54","slug":"odeio-a-minha-namorada-15-razoes-para-pensar-em-seguir-em-frente","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/odeio-a-minha-namorada-15-razoes-para-pensar-em-seguir-em-frente\/","title":{"rendered":"Odeio a minha namorada: 15 raz\u00f5es pelas quais deves pensar em seguir em frente"},"content":{"rendered":"

Do you have the feeling that you\u2019ve started hating everything your girlfriend does? You have that sense of hatred that overwhelms you every time you look at her or talk to her?<\/i><\/p>\n

Hate is a strong word, and if you\u2019re going through it, there\u2019s must be a valid reason behind it. You see, not every relationship is meant to last.<\/p>\n

Algumas pessoas conquistar o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> no momento em que os vemos, e isso nunca muda.<\/p>\n

Mas tamb\u00e9m h\u00e1 pessoas que nos conquistam no in\u00edcio e, quando aprendemos mais sobre elas, apercebemo-nos de que n\u00e3o s\u00e3o o tipo de pessoa com quem gostar\u00edamos de estar. E \u00e9 a\u00ed que o \u00f3dio acontece.<\/p>\n

Al\u00e9m disso, por vezes, pode ter grandes expectativas em rela\u00e7\u00e3o aos seus potenciais parceiros e, quando se apercebe de que eles nunca ser\u00e3o capazes de as satisfazer, come\u00e7a a odiar a ideia de estar com algu\u00e9m como eles.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o perca o seu tempo numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00f3xica!<\/b><\/p>\n

Whatever the reason be, if you find yourself in a relationship with a girlfriend whom you thought you could love and now you\u2019ve realized is the exact opposite, do not waste your time or nerves on this type of toxic relationship.<\/p>\n

Summarized, if the sentence \u201cI hate my girlfriend\u201d has occupied your brain lately, you should end things.<\/p>\n

I know, I know\u2026Now you\u2019re probably thinking: Mas, e se isto estiver apenas na minha cabe\u00e7a, e ela n\u00e3o for assim t\u00e3o m\u00e1? E se eu estiver a passar por uma fase estranha em que comecei a odiar toda a gente \u00e0 minha volta? E se eu me arrepender de a ter deixado?<\/i><\/p>\n

Well, there\u2019s a solution for that, too. To be a hundred percent sure that you shouldn\u2019t doubt for a second leaving her, there are some things you should pay attention to.<\/p>\n

If any of these 15 things applies to you, know that it\u2019s time to let her go.<\/p>\n

Odeio a minha namorada: 15 raz\u00f5es para pensar em seguir em frente<\/b><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

Odeia-a<\/h2>\n

\"Imagem<\/p>\n

Eu sei que esta \u00e9 praticamente auto-explicativa, mas \u00e0s vezes \u00e9 preciso lembrarmo-nos dela.<\/p>\n

Se odeias a tua namorada com cada cent\u00edmetro do teu corpo, deves sair dessa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

O \u00f3dio \u00e9 o total oposto do amor, e se der por si a estar desse outro lado, saiba que \u00e9 altura de seguir em frente.<\/p>\n

How will you know that you hate your girlfriend? You will know that you hate your girlfriend when you\u2019re not happy about seeing her. You\u2019re not enjoying spending time with her.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re constantly imagining how it would be to be with someone else. You\u2019re frustrated.<\/p>\n

Lembre-se que \u00e9 sempre melhor acabar com as coisas do que torn\u00e1-las piores do que j\u00e1 s\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Tra\u00ed-la \u00e9 a \u00faltima coisa que gostaria de fazer, e \u00e9 por isso que a sua melhor aposta \u00e9 aceitar a verdade de que a odeia e ir embora a tempo.<\/p>\n

J\u00e1 n\u00e3o gosta de sexo<\/h2>\n

\"Os<\/p>\n

Sex is an important aspect of every happy and healthy relationship. If you\u2019ve noticed that you no longer enjoy having sex with her, it\u2019s time to cut her loose.<\/p>\n

Quando se come\u00e7a a odiar algu\u00e9m que se amava, tudo muda, incluindo a vida sexual.<\/p>\n

You can never enjoy being intimate with someone you hate. It\u2019s as simple as that.<\/p>\n

E quando isso acontece, sabe-se que chegou a altura certa. Pensem em como era o vosso sexo no in\u00edcio da vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Mudou? Achas que serias mais feliz a ter sexo com outra pessoa?<\/p>\n

Do you often think about having sex with someone else? If yes, chances are that your sex life will never improve, not until you decide to move on (before it\u2019s too late).<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve got nothing to talk about<\/h2>\n

\"Casal<\/p>\n

Outro aspeto importante de qualquer rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel \u00e9 a comunica\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

If you feel like you\u2019ve got nothing to talk about with your girlfriend, you know the situation is alarming.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s normal for people when they just start dating to have flawed conversation patterns because they are still exploring each other.<\/p>\n

But, if this doesn\u2019t change even after your beginning phase, you have a communication problem, and I\u2019m sorry to tell you, but you will start hating her more and more if you don\u2019t quit things.<\/p>\n

Por esta altura, j\u00e1 devem ter aprendido muito um sobre o outro e a conversa deve ter florescido.<\/p>\n

E se n\u00e3o for, devem fazer um favor a ambos e come\u00e7ar a seguir caminhos separados.<\/p>\n

Ela est\u00e1 a control\u00e1-lo<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Do you feel she has entrapped you? Do you feel like she is depriving you of your freedom and making choices for you by herself? If yes, she might have become a \u201ccontrol freak\u201d.<\/p>\n

Controlling behavior is a serious disorder which is known as Obsessive – Compulsive Personality Disorder (OCPD), and such people are really hard to get along with.<\/p>\n

E essa pode ser a raz\u00e3o pela qual a come\u00e7aste a odiar em primeiro lugar.<\/p>\n

Outros sinais de comportamento controlador s\u00e3o o questionamento constante sobre tudo o que faz e a imposi\u00e7\u00e3o das suas opini\u00f5es em todos os assuntos.<\/p>\n

Fazer ultimatos e condi\u00e7\u00f5es seguidas de consequ\u00eancias (se n\u00e3o forem cumpridas) e assim por diante.<\/p>\n

Mas o maior sinal de que se est\u00e1 a ser controlado \u00e9 a sensa\u00e7\u00e3o de aprisionamento, que nos faz enlouquecer.<\/p>\n

Odeias o que \u00e9s com ela<\/h2>\n

\"focagem<\/p>\n

Uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o requer reciprocidade. Se odeias quem \u00e9s quando est\u00e1s com ela, isso \u00e9 um grande sinal de \u00f3dio. Provavelmente odeia-a por se odiar a si pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n

It is a vicious, never-ending cycle that you need to destroy ASAP. We all change when we enter a relationship, but if you hate those changes, then you know you\u2019re not with the right person.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019ve been constantly changing because of her, and you don\u2019t like these changes (you feel like you\u2019ve lost yourself), it\u2019s a grande bandeira vermelha<\/a> that something\u2019s utterly wrong, and it\u2019s time to move on.<\/p>\n

O melhor que tem a fazer \u00e9 falar com ela sobre o assunto e dar-lhe a conhecer as suas opini\u00f5es e sentimentos.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 muito prov\u00e1vel que ela sinta o mesmo, mas que esteja relutante em dizer-lhe (tal como voc\u00ea).<\/p>\n

E voil\u00e1! A melhor coisa a fazer \u00e9 terminar a rela\u00e7\u00e3o de comum acordo para que ningu\u00e9m saia prejudicado.<\/p>\n

Ela n\u00e3o \u00e9 a mesma pessoa que conheceste<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

You expected a reasonable and caring girlfriend, and she turned out to be the complete opposite. Don\u2019t worry. It happens to everyone.<\/p>\n

It is normal to be \u201cblind\u201d when you just start dating someone because you tend to create a picture of that person in your head which is the main reason of disappointments in future.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 dif\u00edcil ter a certeza de que a pessoa \u00e9 exatamente quem pensamos que \u00e9.<\/p>\n

And when you realize that all this time you\u2019ve been fooling yourself, you start hating her (and yourself as well).<\/p>\n

Apercebe-se que ela j\u00e1 n\u00e3o \u00e9 a mesma pessoa que conheceu, talvez porque nunca o foi, mas simplesmente estava cego para o ver (como todos n\u00f3s).<\/p>\n

She doesn\u2019t care about her looks around you<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Embora n\u00e3o seja justo esperar que ela se pare\u00e7a com um anjo da Victoria Secret todos os dias, tamb\u00e9m n\u00e3o \u00e9 justo que ela n\u00e3o se preocupe com a sua apar\u00eancia.<\/p>\n

Lembra-se dos tempos em que ela se esfor\u00e7ava para o impressionar em cada encontro com uma maquilhagem perfeita e uma roupa perfeita? E agora esses dias j\u00e1 l\u00e1 v\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Sabe porqu\u00ea? <\/strong>There are two reasons actually. Reason number one is because you\u2019ve been together for some time, and she\u2019s got totally relaxed about how she looks, so that she\u2019s become too lazy to care about her appearance.<\/p>\n

Reason number two is because she is no longer interested in impressing you, but she\u2019s interested in impressing others. (E.g. when she goes out she spends a lot of time on her appearance).<\/p>\n

E isso \u00e9 um grande problema. Mereces estar com uma namorada que se esforce sempre por ter um aspeto decente e bonito para ti e para ela pr\u00f3pria.<\/p>\n

So, if she no longer gives a damn about her looks when being around you, it\u2019s time to stop giving a damn about it, and let her go.<\/p>\n

She doesn\u2019t give you space<\/h2>\n

\"rapariga<\/p>\n

Ela nunca lhe permite ter algum tempo para si, apesar de passarem muito tempo juntos.<\/p>\n

Por vezes, temos de lhe pedir que nos deixe em paz, para podermos organizar os nossos pensamentos.<\/p>\n

Whatever you do or say, she simply doesn\u2019t understand. You feel frustrated about it, but you simply don\u2019t have any proper solution for it.<\/p>\n

Ela v\u00ea o tempo que passa sozinha como se estivesse zangada com ela ou a ignorasse.<\/p>\n

She doesn\u2019t understand that giving space to each other is necessary, and it is a normal process in every single (healthy) relationship.<\/p>\n

So, if she\u2019s depriving you of your freedom, you know what you\u2019re supposed to do.<\/p>\n

Ela est\u00e1 a fazer-lhe ci\u00fames<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Jealousy is a serious issue, and if you\u2019re experiencing it with your girlfriend, you should never doubt for a second whether or not to give up on her.<\/p>\n

Ela pode estar a fazer-lhe ci\u00fames porque ela pr\u00f3pria \u00e9 insegura e quer a sua valida\u00e7\u00e3o constante do seu afeto.<\/p>\n

Ou ela pode ser fazer-vos inveja<\/a> because she genuinely doesn\u2019t care how you will feel about it. However, none of these reasons is valid.<\/p>\n

You shouldn\u2019t be with a girlfriend who makes you jealous for no apparent reason.<\/p>\n

Merece estar numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel e rec\u00edproca, na qual n\u00e3o questionar\u00e1 nada.<\/p>\n

Mereces ser feliz. Por isso, que se lixe o ci\u00fame! Se ela est\u00e1 deliberadamente a namoriscar com outros s\u00f3 para o irritar ou por outras raz\u00f5es pouco saud\u00e1veis, tem todo o direito de a odiar e de a abandonar.<\/p>\n

Os seus amigos e familiares odeiam-na (tamb\u00e9m)<\/h2>\n

\"grupo<\/p>\n

It\u2019s one thing if you (who are in a relationship with her) hate her, but it\u2019s completely another if your friends and family hate her, too.<\/p>\n

Quando se trata disto, os seus amigos s\u00e3o dez vezes mais fi\u00e1veis do que voc\u00ea pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n

Isso deve-se ao facto de poder ainda estar emocionalmente ligado a ela e de ver a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o de forma diferente da dos outros.<\/p>\n

So, if your friends tell her that they don\u2019t approve of her, believe them.<\/p>\n

Dizem-lhe isto porque est\u00e3o fartos de o ouvir queixar-se dela e perceberam que ela simplesmente n\u00e3o \u00e9 boa para si.<\/p>\n

They would never say this if they think you\u2019re happy with her.<\/p>\n

Al\u00e9m disso, se a sua fam\u00edlia tamb\u00e9m a odeia, ent\u00e3o pode ter a certeza de que s\u00f3 querem o melhor para si.<\/p>\n

Ela \u00e9 irritante<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Se j\u00e1 n\u00e3o te sentes \u00e0 vontade para chegar a casa depois do trabalho porque sabes que ela vai l\u00e1 estar, \u00e9 porque a odeias.<\/p>\n

Se j\u00e1 n\u00e3o sente o entusiasmo de passar tempo juntos, \u00e9 porque a odeia.<\/p>\n

Or to be exact, you hate her because she is annoying. When you\u2019re in a rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel<\/a>, you\u2019re supposed to be willing to spend as much as time together as possible.<\/p>\n

Mas, quando se irrita com a sua namorada, a situa\u00e7\u00e3o muda.<\/p>\n

J\u00e1 n\u00e3o a v\u00ea como algu\u00e9m com quem gostaria de estar sentado no sof\u00e1, a ver filmes ou a jantar juntos.<\/p>\n

And you might also have considered cheating on her because you feel miserable, but you don\u2019t know how to end things.<\/p>\n

Now is the time for you to shine, and do what\u2019s best for you and that is \u2013 ending it.<\/p>\n

You genuinely don\u2019t care about what she\u2019s doing<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Costumava enviar-lhe mensagens com frequ\u00eancia porque estava interessado no que ela estava a fazer e no que se passava na sua vida em geral. Preocupava-se com o que ela estava a fazer porque se preocupava com ela.<\/p>\n

And now you simply couldn\u2019t give less of a fuck about it. She could tell you that she is going on a drink with her ex, and you will stay indifferent to it because you don\u2019t care.<\/p>\n

E o facto de n\u00e3o se importar \u00e9 um s\u00e9rio sinal de alerta que deve ser resolvido.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 um indicador de que deve corrigir as coisas ou desistir (se vir que n\u00e3o vale a pena).<\/p>\n

Here\u2019s a little help: If you don\u2019t care what she\u2019s doing now, you certainly won\u2019t care in the future as well.<\/p>\n

Conheceste algu\u00e9m novo<\/h2>\n

\"foto<\/p>\n

You met someone new, and you have no idea what to do next. But, you know for a fact that you would want to be with that new person you\u2019ve just met.<\/p>\n

If there\u2019s any type of doubting your current relationship and longing to be with another person, you should end it immediately.<\/p>\n

There\u2019s no point in hurting your girlfriend just because you were too weak to end it in time.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019ve met someone new, you hate your girlfriend, and you\u2019re suspicious of the direction in which your relationship will go, it\u2019s time to move on.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t imagine the future with her in it<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Outro forte ind\u00edcio de que deve terminar a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 o facto de n\u00e3o conseguir imaginar o futuro com ela.<\/p>\n

Just think about it for a second. Imagine your future and think about whether you see her in it. If she\u2019s not in it, it means she\u2019s standing in your way to happiness.<\/p>\n

It means you\u2019re not happy with what you have, and you will neither be happy in future with her because you don\u2019t enjoy spending time with her (as you might used to do).<\/p>\n

It means it\u2019s time to stop wasting your time on thinking about it, and let her know how you feel.<\/p>\n

Ela enganou-o<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Esta n\u00e3o \u00e9 negoci\u00e1vel. Se ela enganou-o<\/a>, you have every right to call her now and end it with her no matter how many times she tries to say she\u2019s sorry.<\/p>\n

If all this time you were treating her with respect and admiration and in return you get her cheating on you, she doesn\u2019t deserve you, and she\u2019s not the kind of a girlfriend you should to be with.<\/p>\n

You deserve reciprocity, and I\u2019m sure you\u2019ll find it once you decide to let her go.<\/p>\n

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