{"id":32668,"date":"2019-02-13T07:55:10","date_gmt":"2019-02-13T07:55:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=32668"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:04:17","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:04:17","slug":"e-pensavas-que-ela-nunca-se-iria-embora-mas-adivinha-o-que-ela-fez","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/e-pensavas-que-ela-nunca-se-iria-embora-mas-adivinha-o-que-ela-fez\/","title":{"rendered":"E tu pensavas que ela nunca se iria embora, mas adivinha? Ela foi-se embora"},"content":{"rendered":"

She believed your every word with all of her heart because she thought you were honest with her. She believed that you would always be there for her. She gave you her heart because she thought you would take good care of it. But you didn\u2019t.<\/p>\n

Em vez disso, vendeste-lhe doces mentiras, apesar de saberes que ela era honesta contigo. Nunca estiveste presente quando ela precisou de ti. Partiste-lhe o cora\u00e7\u00e3o, apesar de saberes o quanto isso a magoaria.<\/p>\n

And you thought she\u2019d never leave but guess what? She did.<\/b><\/p>\n

She didn\u2019t leave because she wanted to. She left because you gave her no choice. She left because all that time she was waiting for you to change but you didn\u2019t. Don\u2019t think that she didn\u2019t know that you were taking her for granted. She knew it very well.<\/p>\n

But her heart was too strong and stubborn to give up without fighting. She is not a quitter. She fights hard for something she believes in. And she believed in you\u2014she believed that you would change and start treating her the way she deserved.<\/p>\n

But you didn\u2019t. You deliberately <\/b>tomou-a por garantida<\/b><\/a> and you thought she\u2019d never leave. You gave her crumbs of your toxic love while she gave you all of herself and you thought she\u2019d never leave.<\/b><\/p>\n

Cada vez que ela sorriu para si quando estava a sofrer, estava a dar-lhe a oportunidade de a curar. Sempre que ela ficou em sil\u00eancio perante os seus maus tratos, estava a dar-lhe a oportunidade de se aperceber dos seus pr\u00f3prios erros. E sempre que ela lhe deu outra oportunidade, estava a dizer-lhe que esperaria que voc\u00ea mudasse.<\/p>\n

But you didn\u2019t.<\/b><\/p>\n

Fizeste-a perceber que, por muito esfor\u00e7o que investisse em ti, nunca seria suficiente. Fizeste-a perceber que, durante todo este tempo, ela tinha estado a negligenciar a sua pr\u00f3pria felicidade enquanto se concentrava apenas na tua.<\/p>\n

Apercebeu-se de que tinha ficado em d\u00edvida consigo pr\u00f3pria e que era altura de come\u00e7ar um novo cap\u00edtulo na sua vida. Era altura de deixar de lutar por aqueles que n\u00e3o estavam destinados a ficar. Era altura de encontrar a coragem para deixar ir aqueles que ela n\u00e3o podia mudar.<\/p>\n

Decidiu que o novo cap\u00edtulo da sua vida consistiria apenas em felicidade, verdade, respeito e reciprocidade. J\u00e1 n\u00e3o se contentava com a mediocridade porque estava farta dela.<\/p>\n

Estava farta de ser a \u00fanica a lutar. Tinha-se cansado de ser uma segunda op\u00e7\u00e3o para algu\u00e9m que ela tratava como prioridade. Estava cansada de fingir a sua felicidade s\u00f3 para o ver sorrir.<\/b><\/p>\n

She left because she missed seeing herself smile. She didn\u2019t leave because she was too weak. She left because she had been too strong for too long. And she doesn\u2019t regret a single thing she did for you. She did what she had to because she had no choice.<\/p>\n

When she loves, she loves with all of her body and heart or she doesn\u2019t love at all. She never regrets anything. She is just sad that you don\u2019t see it the way she sees it. She is disappointed in you for thinking that she\u2019d never leave no matter how badly you treated her.<\/p>\n

E o momento em que decidiu seguir em frente foi o momento em que jurou a si pr\u00f3pria que nunca mais voltaria a olhar para tr\u00e1s.<\/b><\/p>\n

Ela levar-te-\u00e1 sempre no seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o mas nunca mais olhar\u00e1 para tr\u00e1s. De prioridade, passaste a ser apenas uma mem\u00f3ria, porque ela percebeu que a vida era demasiado curta para desperdi\u00e7ar o seu tempo com doces mentiras, solid\u00e3o e dor.<\/p>\n

She decided to bury all of the pain deep down in her soul and never unravel it again. She decided to pursue happiness, to keep her head high and protect her heart. And you thought she\u2019d never leave but guess what? She did.<\/p>\n

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She believed your every word with all of her heart because she thought you were honest with her. She believed that you would always be there for her. She gave you her heart because she thought you would take good care of it. But you didn\u2019t. Instead, you sold her sweet lies even though you…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":32669,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-32668","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/back-view-blur-blurred-background-1758144.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/32668","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=32668"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/32668\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/32669"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=32668"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=32668"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=32668"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}