{"id":32682,"date":"2019-10-13T08:46:04","date_gmt":"2019-10-13T08:46:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=32682"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:03:41","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:03:41","slug":"os-homens-de-verdade-amam-nos-com-as-accoes-mais-reais-e-nao-com-as-palavras-mais-falsas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/os-homens-de-verdade-amam-nos-com-as-accoes-mais-reais-e-nao-com-as-palavras-mais-falsas\/","title":{"rendered":"Os homens de verdade amam-na com as ac\u00e7\u00f5es mais reais, n\u00e3o com as palavras mais falsas"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>No que diz respeito ao amor, os homens tornaram muito dif\u00edcil para n\u00f3s, mulheres, manter os nossos padr\u00f5es. Se tivermos padr\u00f5es elevados, estamos a pedir demasiado.<\/p>\n<p>If we don\u2019t have boundaries\u2014we are too compliant. If we do nothing\u2014we don\u2019t know what we want.<\/p>\n<p><b>Mas e os homens?<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Ser\u00e1 que as suas palavras s\u00e3o simplesmente suficientes para nos arrebatarem? Pensam que devemos contentar-nos com o seu tratamento pobre e pouco criativo para connosco (na maioria dos casos)?<\/p>\n<p>No. We definitely shouldn\u2019t! And do you know why?<\/p>\n<p><b>Because real men love you with the realest of actions, not the fakest words. They don\u2019t believe in just sweet nothings. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Arrega\u00e7am as mangas e transformam os seus sonhos em realidade.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Real men don\u2019t just say they want you to be theirs and then wait for you to jump into their arms. They roll up their sleeves and work hard to win you because you deserve to be chased.<\/p>\n<p>A \u00fanica coisa em que acreditam s\u00e3o os seus sonhos e ac\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n<p>And you are their dream. Real men don\u2019t treat you like something replaceable because they are afraid that they will never find someone like you.<\/p>\n<p>And they don\u2019t make you wait. They appreciate every second spent with you.<\/p>\n<p><b>Real men don\u2019t just say they love you. They make an effort to prove it to you with their actions.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Sim. A coisa mais f\u00e1cil que um homem pode fazer \u00e9 dizer que a ama e depois n\u00e3o fazer nada, esperando que acredite nele.<\/p>\n<p>The easiest thing a man can do is repeat these three words for the rest of their life and even then they probably wouldn\u2019t realize that their words mean nothing if they are not followed by actions.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/real-men-dont-make-excuses-they-make-an-effort\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Homens de verdade<\/span><\/a> don\u2019t do this. They don\u2019t act like boys. They don\u2019t say they love you and the next day turn their back on you.<\/p>\n<p>Eles est\u00e3o aqui. Est\u00e3o presentes e querem que saibas que estar\u00e3o sempre ao teu lado quando precisares deles.<\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Mimam-nos com gestos doces porque querem fazer-nos sentir especiais. Escutam-te porque est\u00e3o interessados em tudo o que tens para dizer. <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Abra\u00e7am-nos e apertam-nos nos bra\u00e7os, em vez de se limitarem a dizer que tudo vai correr bem.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p>And they do so because they want to (not because you asked them to). They do so because they know a woman deserves to be treated like a delicate flower that they need to water if they don\u2019t want it to wither.<\/p>\n<p>Fazem-no porque apreciam a sua verdadeira beleza interior e n\u00e3o apenas a sua apar\u00eancia.<\/p>\n<p><b>Real men shower you with the realest affection, not the fakest of promises. They don\u2019t tell you that you are the one and then cheat on you for their selfish purposes.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>They don\u2019t promise you a fairy tale if they are not sure of their feelings because real men don\u2019t live in fairy tales. They know how they feel about you and they act accordingly.<\/p>\n<p>They don\u2019t expect you to fall head over heels for them after one date.<\/p>\n<p>They don\u2019t expect you to believe anything they say if they don\u2019t prove it to you with their actions. They don\u2019t expect you to be something you\u2019re not only to fit the definition of perfect.<\/p>\n<p><b>Real men don\u2019t expect you to be perfect because they themselves know that they are far from that.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>They don\u2019t have a problem with you wearing baggy clothes because they know you feel comfy in them. They don\u2019t have a problem with you being mad at them when they don\u2019t give you the treatment you deserve.<\/p>\n<p>They don\u2019t have a problem with anything that <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/ser-suficientemente-forte-para-deixar-de-lado-tudo-o-que-o-faz-infeliz\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">faz-te feliz<\/span><\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><b>A sua felicidade \u00e9 a prioridade deles.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>When they fuck things up\u2014they do everything for you to forgive them. When you\u2019re feeling sad\u2014they do everything to make you smile. When someone hurts you\u2014they hurt them.<\/p>\n<p>They don\u2019t take your happiness for granted because seeing you smile is their priority.<\/p>\n<p>Real men don\u2019t give up until they succeed in making you happy. They don\u2019t give up fighting for what they believe in at the first obstacle they face.<\/p>\n<p>They don\u2019t give up fighting for love because they know that every beautiful thing requires efforts. They don\u2019t give up on you.<\/p>\n<p><b>Os verdadeiros homens alimentam-te com amor verdadeiro, n\u00e3o com o tipo t\u00f3xico.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>They stick to their promises instead of breaking them. They watch the stars with you instead of buying you expensive gifts. They hold your hand when you\u2019re scared.<\/p>\n<p>Dizem-te que te amam tal como \u00e9s. Os verdadeiros homens livram-se das tuas inseguran\u00e7as em vez de te fazerem sentir indigna.<\/p>\n<p>Os verdadeiros homens amam-na com um cora\u00e7\u00e3o puro e n\u00e3o com um cora\u00e7\u00e3o ego\u00edsta.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-32699 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/And-You-Thought-Shed-Never-Leave-But-Guess-What_-She-Did-4-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Os homens de verdade amam-na com as ac\u00e7\u00f5es mais reais, n\u00e3o com as palavras mais falsas\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/And-You-Thought-Shed-Never-Leave-But-Guess-What_-She-Did-4-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/And-You-Thought-Shed-Never-Leave-But-Guess-What_-She-Did-4-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/And-You-Thought-Shed-Never-Leave-But-Guess-What_-She-Did-4.jpg 467w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When it comes to love, men have made it really difficult for us women to maintain our standards. If we have high standards\u2014we are asking for too much. If we don\u2019t have boundaries\u2014we are too compliant. If we do nothing\u2014we don\u2019t know what we want. But what about men? Are their words simply enough to&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":32694,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-32682","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/affection-couple-embrace-1822500.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? 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