{"id":32709,"date":"2020-05-13T09:10:48","date_gmt":"2020-05-13T09:10:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=32709"},"modified":"2021-08-11T08:59:58","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T08:59:58","slug":"5-maneiras-como-ela-mudou-depois-de-uma-relacao-emocionalmente-abusiva","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-maneiras-como-ela-mudou-depois-de-uma-relacao-emocionalmente-abusiva\/","title":{"rendered":"5 maneiras como ela mudou depois de um relacionamento emocionalmente abusivo"},"content":{"rendered":"

Abandonar uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o abusiva \u00e9 uma das coisas mais dif\u00edceis para qualquer v\u00edtima. \u00c9 um passo enorme que exige muita coragem e for\u00e7a.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, sadly, your troubles usually don\u2019t end the moment you leave your abuser.<\/p>\n

A verdade \u00e9 que uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00f3xica como esta deixa muitas vezes cicatrizes na pessoa que foi v\u00edtima de abuso.<\/p>\n

That is exactly what happened to this girl\u2014her emotionally abusive relationship changed her in more ways than she could count.<\/p>\n

1. Ela tem problemas de confian\u00e7a<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Every woman who has been through any type of abuse, including emotional, can\u2019t avoid having strong trust issues when she finally breaks free from an abusive relationship.<\/p>\n

However, something like this is completely normal\u2014the person she loved the most and the person she was ready to trust with her life was the one who made her life a living hell.<\/p>\n

Ent\u00e3o, o que \u00e9 que ela pode esperar exatamente dos outros?<\/p>\n

This was the man who swore he loved her, the man she thought was the one she\u2019d spend the rest of her life with and he ended up betraying her like this.<\/p>\n

Naturalmente, ela pensa que toda a gente \u00e9 igual a ele. Est\u00e1 convencida de que todos os homens que conhece t\u00eam a inten\u00e7\u00e3o de a magoar e de lhe partir o cora\u00e7\u00e3o outra vez.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, this doesn\u2019t just go for the men she meets\u2014she feels the same way about almost all people in her life.<\/p>\n

Everything this girl\u2019s been through made her think that there doesn\u2019t exist a person in this world she can count on.<\/p>\n

Besides, the worst part is that she doesn\u2019t believe herself anymore. She made the wrong choice once so that has to mean that her judgment-making skills are non-existent.<\/p>\n

Esta rapariga j\u00e1 n\u00e3o acredita na sua pr\u00f3pria intui\u00e7\u00e3o e questiona cada decis\u00e3o que toma, pensando que \u00e9 a errada.<\/p>\n

2. A sua vis\u00e3o do amor \u00e9 distorcida<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

After all that has happened, this girl isn\u2019t sure what true love is anymore. Everything she believed in and all the things she thought represented love turned out to be wrong.<\/p>\n

This girl is convinced that she wouldn\u2019t recognize the guy meant for her even if he showed up right in front of her.<\/p>\n

She is scared that she\u2019ll continue with these unhealthy relationship patterns forever and that she\u2019ll never manage to reprogram her brain into seeing love the right way again.<\/p>\n

3. Ela tornou-se cautelosa<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Tal como qualquer v\u00edtima de abuso, esta rapariga tamb\u00e9m se tornou demasiado cuidadosa quando se trata de deixar entrar novas pessoas na sua vida.<\/p>\n

She\u2019s been through hell and she knew that she had to find a way to protect her vulnerable heart from getting crushed all over again.<\/p>\n

A \u00fanica maneira de o fazer era construir muros espessos \u00e0 sua volta e agir sem cora\u00e7\u00e3o para com todos.<\/p>\n

A \u00fanica forma de o fazer era tornar-se cauteloso<\/a> e para n\u00e3o deixar ningu\u00e9m ver as suas vulnerabilidades nunca mais.<\/p>\n

And that was exactly what she did\u2014she became a closed person who didn\u2019t open her heart to love.<\/p>\n

Uma rapariga que se condenou a uma vida de solid\u00e3o por medo de voltar a ser magoada.<\/p>\n

4. She isn\u2019t sure if she\u2019ll find love ever again<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Outra coisa que mudou nesta rapariga foi o facto de ela desistiu do amor <\/a>.<\/p>\n

Antes de este homem t\u00f3xico entrar na sua vida, ela pensava no amor como um conto de fadas e estava fortemente convencida de que o seu \"felizes para sempre\" chegaria mais cedo ou mais tarde.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, after all the insults and humiliations she\u2019s been through, deep down she began thinking that she wasn\u2019t meant to be loved.<\/p>\n

Depois de tantos anos em que o seu agressor a convenceu de que ela \u00e9 que n\u00e3o era am\u00e1vel, ela come\u00e7ou a acreditar nele.<\/p>\n

This girl stopped believing in love and in soulmates. Instead, she became sarcastic about it, convinced that she\u2019d never find anyone who would treat her better than her ex did.<\/p>\n

5. But she is stronger than she\u2019s ever been<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

However, despite all the bad things her emotionally abusive relationship caused, there was also one good thing it brought her\u2014she became stronger than ever.<\/p>\n

She saw that there was nothing she couldn\u2019t take and that she would always survive, whatever life put in front of her.<\/p>\n

Esta rapariga tornou-se a sua pr\u00f3pria hero\u00edna. Apercebeu-se de que era capaz de se safar sozinha e que \u00e9 uma pessoa completa sem um homem ao seu lado.<\/p>\n

And one thing is for sure\u2014this relationship made her become a girl who doesn\u2019t settle for less.<\/p>\n

Uma rapariga que sabe o que merece e uma rapariga que se ama a si pr\u00f3pria mais do que qualquer outra pessoa neste mundo.<\/p>\n

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Walking away from an abusive relationship is one of the toughest things for every victim. It is a huge step which takes a lot of courage and strength. Nevertheless, sadly, your troubles usually don\u2019t end the moment you leave your abuser. The truth is that a toxic relationship like this often leaves scars on the…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":93369,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29632],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-32709","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-abuse-and-trauma"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29632,"label":"abuse & trauma"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/5-Ways-She-Changed-After-An-Emotionally-Abusive-Relationship.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29632,"name":"abuse & trauma","slug":"abuse-and-trauma","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29632,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","parent":22911,"count":138,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29632,"category_count":138,"category_description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","cat_name":"abuse & trauma","category_nicename":"abuse-and-trauma","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/32709","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=32709"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/32709\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/93369"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=32709"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=32709"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=32709"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}