{"id":32719,"date":"2020-02-13T09:38:02","date_gmt":"2020-02-13T09:38:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=32719"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:59:06","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:59:06","slug":"9-maus-habitos-de-envio-de-mensagens-que-o-farao-perder-o-interesse","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/9-maus-habitos-de-envio-de-mensagens-que-o-farao-perder-o-interesse\/","title":{"rendered":"9 maus h\u00e1bitos nas mensagens de texto que far\u00e3o com que ele perca o interesse"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Manda-lhe mais mensagens do que ele a si<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80637\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/smiling-girl-texting-in-jaccuzzi.jpg\" alt=\"\/relacionamento\/9-bad-texting-habits-that-will-make-him-lose-interest\/\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/smiling-girl-texting-in-jaccuzzi.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/smiling-girl-texting-in-jaccuzzi-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/smiling-girl-texting-in-jaccuzzi-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Os textos s\u00e3o como uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o. Exigem reciprocidade. Quando um se est\u00e1 a esfor\u00e7ar e o outro mal participa, \u00e9 um sinal muito mau.<\/p>\n<p>Mandar-lhe mais mensagens do que devia \u00e9 um sinal de desespero.<\/p>\n<p>He will see that you are already crazy about him, and he will think that he can have you whenever he wants\u2014which will naturally make him less interested.<\/p>\n<p>Des\u00e7a um pouco o n\u00edvel. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/sera-que-ele-vai-sentir-a-minha-falta-se-eu-o-deixar-sozinho-e-algo-que-vale-a-pena-descobrir\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">D\u00e1-lhe espa\u00e7o para sentir a tua falta<\/a> e vir atr\u00e1s de si. \u00c9 sempre uma op\u00e7\u00e3o melhor.<\/p>\n<p>You should meet each other halfway. If he can\u2019t do that with text, imagine how lousy he would be in a relationship?<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">N\u00e3o tem um bom in\u00edcio de conversa<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80638\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/attractive-young-woman-looking-at-phone.jpg\" alt=\"mulher jovem e atraente a olhar para o telem\u00f3vel\" width=\"800\" height=\"541\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/attractive-young-woman-looking-at-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/attractive-young-woman-looking-at-phone-300x203.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/attractive-young-woman-looking-at-phone-768x519.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Quando se come\u00e7a uma conversa com uma nota m\u00e1, as coisas s\u00f3 v\u00e3o piorar a partir da\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>Falar sobre o tempo, as suas rotinas di\u00e1rias e o que comeu ao pequeno-almo\u00e7o \u00e9 um sinal de aborrecimento.<\/p>\n<p>During the initial phases of a relationship, it\u2019s important not to fall into a web of boring conversations that will lead you nowhere.<\/p>\n<p>Think outside the box. Comment on something you previously talked about, mention some shared interests or start by saying how much fun you had at the concert (or anywhere else), and that it\u2019s too bad he missed it. Be creative.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">As suas respostas p\u00f5em um ponto final nas mensagens de texto<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80639\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/woman-typing-a-message-on-the-phone.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a escrever uma mensagem no telem\u00f3vel\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/woman-typing-a-message-on-the-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/woman-typing-a-message-on-the-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/woman-typing-a-message-on-the-phone-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If you are giving short effortless replies like an emoji or a one-word answer such as \u201cYeah.\u201d, \u201cSure\u201d, \u201cMaybe.\u201d, \u201cAha\u201d, don\u2019t expect to get a text back and be prepared that your conversation will not last long.<\/p>\n<p>He probably feels like you really don\u2019t want to participate in this conversation and that you are brushing him off.<\/p>\n<p>Evite-os e fa\u00e7a algum esfor\u00e7o se quiser que a sua sess\u00e3o de mensagens de texto dure mais tempo.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Envia um texto de seguimento<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80640\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/worried-woman-looking-at-phone.jpg\" alt=\"mulher preocupada a olhar para o telem\u00f3vel\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/worried-woman-looking-at-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/worried-woman-looking-at-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/worried-woman-looking-at-phone-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Isto nunca \u00e9 uma boa ideia. Em primeiro lugar, faz com que pare\u00e7a desesperada pela aten\u00e7\u00e3o dele e carente, o que, por si s\u00f3, j\u00e1 \u00e9 um desinteresse.<\/p>\n<p>Em segundo lugar, est\u00e1 a diminuir as suas hip\u00f3teses de obter uma resposta.<\/p>\n<p>Ele pode estar no trabalho, a dormir ou ocupado de outra forma e, se vir que lhe enviou uma mensagem de seguimento, pode decidir n\u00e3o responder porque est\u00e1 a ser insistente, ao passo que, se fosse apenas uma mensagem, responderia assim que a visse.<\/p>\n<p>Lastly and most importantly, if a man doesn\u2019t want to reply there is nothing you can do. If for some reason he hasn\u2019t replied to the first text, he won\u2019t reply to a follow-up text either.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You don\u2019t take compliments very well<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80641\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/young-worried-woman-looking-at-phone.jpg\" alt=\"jovem mulher preocupada a olhar para o telem\u00f3vel\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/young-worried-woman-looking-at-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/young-worried-woman-looking-at-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/young-worried-woman-looking-at-phone-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If he tells you you are beautiful, smart, cute, interesting, funny, attractive and you go into debates of why that isn\u2019t true and that you are far from it&#8230; you are sending the wrong message.<\/p>\n<p>Right from the start, you are telling him that you don\u2019t think too highly of yourself and that you lack confidence.<\/p>\n<p>Remember that old saying: \u201cLove yourself so somebody else could love you too\u201d? Well, it\u2019s true.<\/p>\n<p>So the next time he calls you \u2018sweet\u2019 or \u2018super smart\u2019 just say \u201cThank you.\u201d You can also return the compliment and say what you like about him. Trust me\u2014you will have much better results.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Partilha excessiva<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80642\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/happy-woman-texting-on-the-street.jpg\" alt=\"mulher feliz a enviar mensagens de texto na rua\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/happy-woman-texting-on-the-street.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/happy-woman-texting-on-the-street-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/happy-woman-texting-on-the-street-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Enviar mensagens de texto a algu\u00e9m que acabou de conhecer sobre coisas m\u00e1s e dolorosas que lhe aconteceram no passado ou sobre problemas que tem neste momento n\u00e3o \u00e9 uma boa ideia.<\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t burden somebody you hardly know with all of your life issues. There will be time for serious stuff. Start off with casual topics.<\/p>\n<p>Divirtam-se a conhecer-se.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Exagera com a linguagem de texto<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80643\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/woman-sitting-outdoor-and-texting.jpg\" alt=\"mulher sentada ao ar livre e a enviar mensagens de texto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/woman-sitting-outdoor-and-texting.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/woman-sitting-outdoor-and-texting-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/woman-sitting-outdoor-and-texting-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Quando se come\u00e7a a namorar com algu\u00e9m, a forma mais r\u00e1pida de o conhecerem \u00e9 atrav\u00e9s de mensagens de texto.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t let them think that you are stuck in your teens or even uninterested in continuing your communication by not sending.<\/p>\n<p>Watch your grammar\u2014at least the basic stuff. You don\u2019t want to give an impression that you are less intelligent than you actually are.<\/p>\n<p>Mantenha as suas capacidades de envio de mensagens de texto no ponto.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Manda-lhe mensagens mesmo sabendo que ele est\u00e1 ocupado<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80644\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/young-bussines-man-looking-at-phone.jpg\" alt=\"jovem homem de neg\u00f3cios a olhar para o telem\u00f3vel\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/young-bussines-man-looking-at-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/young-bussines-man-looking-at-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/young-bussines-man-looking-at-phone-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Normalmente, os homens e as mulheres t\u00eam h\u00e1bitos de envio de mensagens de texto diferentes.<\/p>\n<p>For the average man, it\u2019s ok if he hears from his girlfriend or potential girlfriend once or twice a day while most women need more texts through the same time period.<\/p>\n<p>Just because he doesn\u2019t text you every 5 seconds doesn\u2019t mean that he lost interest.<\/p>\n<p>Significa apenas que ele \u00e9 um homem e que tem uma vida pr\u00f3pria.<\/p>\n<p>Se ele lhe disse que est\u00e1 no trabalho, a sair com os amigos, a almo\u00e7ar, a dormir ou a fazer o que quer que seja, deixe-o em paz.<\/p>\n<p>D\u00ea-lhe algum espa\u00e7o para sentir a sua falta e deixe-o contact\u00e1-la primeiro.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Jogas duro para conseguir<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80645\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/pretty-woman-sitting-in-sofa-and-typing.jpg\" alt=\"mulher bonita sentada no sof\u00e1 e a escrever \u00e0 m\u00e1quina\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/pretty-woman-sitting-in-sofa-and-typing.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/pretty-woman-sitting-in-sofa-and-typing-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/pretty-woman-sitting-in-sofa-and-typing-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Isto \u00e9 o oposto do excesso de mensagens de texto que mencion\u00e1mos no in\u00edcio.<\/p>\n<p>Playing hard to get means that you are playing those same games you don\u2019t want anybody to play with you.<\/p>\n<p>Isto pode parecer que n\u00e3o est\u00e1 realmente interessada nele ou que o est\u00e1 a enganar.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t have to respond to every text the second you receive it, but replying after six hours or a day just isn\u2019t nice.<\/p>\n<p>O segredo est\u00e1 em encontrar o equil\u00edbrio e encontrarmo-nos a meio caminho.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/tens-quimica-textual-com-ele-eis-como-saber\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> Qu\u00edmica textual <\/a> is important, and it can really bring the two of you closer\u2014assuming that none of you is playing games.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80635\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/9-Bad-Texting-Habits-That-Will-Make-Him-Lose-Interest-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"9 maus h\u00e1bitos nas mensagens de texto que far\u00e3o com que ele perca o interesse\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/9-Bad-Texting-Habits-That-Will-Make-Him-Lose-Interest-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/9-Bad-Texting-Habits-That-Will-Make-Him-Lose-Interest-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You text him more often than he texts you Texts are like a relationship. They demand reciprocity. When one is going out of one\u2019s way and the other is barely participating, it\u2019s a really bad sign. Texting him more than you should, will reek of desperation. He will see that you are already crazy about&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":80646,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-32719","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/9-Bad-Texting-Habits-That-Will-Make-Him-Lose-Interest.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. 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