{"id":32748,"date":"2020-11-13T11:42:02","date_gmt":"2020-11-13T11:42:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=32748"},"modified":"2022-01-12T22:21:25","modified_gmt":"2022-01-12T22:21:25","slug":"por-vezes-o-facto-de-um-ex-querer-voltar-e-um-teste-para-ver-se-se-sabe-melhor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/por-vezes-o-facto-de-um-ex-querer-voltar-e-um-teste-para-ver-se-se-sabe-melhor\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c0s vezes, um ex que quer voltar \u00e9 um teste para ver se voc\u00ea sabe melhor"},"content":{"rendered":"

All the emotions we thought were dead and buried come rushing in the second an ex\u2019s name lights up on our phone. We can\u2019t stop them. We can\u2019t handle them. They are too intense. They are overwhelming. <\/span><\/p>\n

Our heart starts pounding, our hands start shaking, and we don\u2019t know <\/span>como se comportar<\/span><\/a>. It\u2019s like our ex is standing right in front of us, and we have to react in the best possible way. Yet we are frozen at this point, unable to make a single move. <\/span><\/p>\n

No momento em que ganhamos coragem para abrir a sua mensagem, apercebemo-nos de que vamos precisar de um milh\u00e3o de vezes mais coragem para n\u00e3o voltar a cair no seu feiti\u00e7o t\u00f3xico. <\/b><\/p>\n

You see, whether we would like to admit it or not, no matter what our ex has put us through, the second he wants to come back into our life, we think only about the good parts and pretend like the bad ones didn\u2019t happen. <\/span><\/p>\n

Mas aconteceram. Olha para essas cicatrizes no teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o. Elas v\u00e3o lembrar-te de tudo. Lembram-te porque \u00e9 que tiveram de acabar. <\/span><\/p>\n

Lembrar-vos-\u00e3o de cada l\u00e1grima e de cada noite sem dormir. V\u00e3o lembrar-te de todas as vezes que ele te mentiu e traiu a tua confian\u00e7a. V\u00e3o lembrar-te de como ele te tratou mal enquanto estavam juntos. <\/span><\/p>\n

Lembrar-te-\u00e3o de todos os momentos em que precisaste dele e ele te deixou sozinha. Lembrar-te-\u00e3o dos seus modos ego\u00edstas. <\/span><\/p>\n

Lembrar-te-\u00e3o que sempre te faltou tudo quando estavas com ele. Nunca houve aten\u00e7\u00e3o, afeto ou seguran\u00e7a suficientes. Nunca houve investimentos pessoais suficientes e nunca houve o suficiente dele nessa hist\u00f3ria.<\/span><\/p>\n

Claro que sim, ele sente a tua falta neste momento<\/a>. How wouldn\u2019t he? He has finally realized what he had all along and didn\u2019t appreciate. <\/b><\/p>\n

Ele tinha uma boa mulher, disposta a ir mais al\u00e9m por ele. Uma mulher que estava disposta a dar parte de si para o fazer feliz. <\/span><\/p>\n

Uma mulher leal e de confian\u00e7a que s\u00f3 tinha olhos para ele. Uma mulher que sabia amar. Uma mulher que era muito mais para ele do que ele alguma vez foi para ela. <\/span><\/p>\n

Algumas pessoas merecem uma segunda oportunidade, mas ele n\u00e3o \u00e9 uma dessas pessoas, e tu sabes bem disso. <\/b><\/p>\n

Even though your lonely days might blind your view and make you think that he might have changed, that things might be better the second time around, that\u2019s just not going to happen. <\/span><\/p>\n

People change that\u2019s true, but if their essence is toxic, there is nothing that can be done. They will once again poison your life if you give them a chance. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Resist the urge to have him close. That’s not loving. That\u2019s familiarity and habit mixed with bits of <\/span>solid\u00e3o<\/span><\/a> e as mem\u00f3rias de momentos fant\u00e1sticos que partilharam.<\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t look at this as a sign to take him back, to let him into your life. You will only give him another chance to hurt you even more the second time around. Look at this as a test. <\/span><\/p>\n

Um teste para ver se aprendeste a li\u00e7\u00e3o da primeira vez. <\/span><\/p>\n

Um teste para ver se tens consci\u00eancia do teu pr\u00f3prio valor. <\/span><\/p>\n

Um teste para ver se tens consci\u00eancia de que a tua vida \u00e9 muito melhor sem ele. <\/span><\/p>\n

Um teste para ver se sabes que mereces muito mais do que ele alguma vez poder\u00e1 dar. <\/span><\/p>\n

Um teste para ver se sabes que n\u00e3o deves voltar a apaixonar-te por ele.<\/span><\/p>\n

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