{"id":32853,"date":"2020-07-14T11:38:42","date_gmt":"2020-07-14T11:38:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=32853"},"modified":"2022-02-28T12:05:05","modified_gmt":"2022-02-28T12:05:05","slug":"11-habitos-de-namoro-da-velha-guarda-que-deviamos-trazer-de-volta-a-vida","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/11-habitos-de-namoro-da-velha-guarda-que-deviamos-trazer-de-volta-a-vida\/","title":{"rendered":"11 h\u00e1bitos de namoro da velha guarda que dev\u00edamos trazer de volta \u00e0 vida"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Sou s\u00f3 eu ou h\u00e1 cada vez mais pessoas que t\u00eam aquele desejo ardente de voltar um pouco ao passado no que diz respeito aos h\u00e1bitos de namoro?<\/p>\n<p>Esta cultura do engate \u00e9 por vezes muito cansativa e dou por mim a pensar se ainda h\u00e1 homens que estejam dispostos a fazer um esfor\u00e7o para conquistar uma mulher.<\/p>\n<p>Some old school dating habits should definitely make a comeback\u2014or at least they should preserve their essence and undergo a modernization process.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 assim que tudo deve ser:<\/p>\n<h2>1. Um homem que convida uma mulher para um encontro com alguns dias de anteced\u00eancia<\/h2>\n<p>N\u00e3o estou a dizer que h\u00e1 algo de errado quando a mulher toma a iniciativa, mas para mim, pessoalmente, toda a experi\u00eancia de namoro \u00e9 melhor quando o homem faz um esfor\u00e7o e mostra o seu interesse genu\u00edno.<\/p>\n<p>A man who took his time and planned a date is so rare these days. All we usually get are last minute plans and late-night calls to hang out\u2014which is really sad.<\/p>\n<h2>2. Tornar as suas inten\u00e7\u00f5es claras desde o in\u00edcio<\/h2>\n<p>This is definitely one of the best things about old school dating habits. You knew when you were going steady with someone or as we would say it \u2018exclusive\u2019.<\/p>\n<p>There wasn\u2019t so much fuss about having \u2018the talk\u2019. You would just straight up ask someone if they like to be with you\u2014well men usually would because it was a manly thing to do, even if back then there were some who were exceptions to the rule.<\/p>\n<h2>3. Tentar estar no seu melhor<\/h2>\n<p>You know what they say: \u201cYou never get a second chance to make a first impression.\u201d That\u2019s true. We need something that will attract us before we get to know the soul of the person we are dating.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s nice when both men and women make efforts to dress nicely, smell good, and make someone notice that you want to impress them. Efforts are sexy.<\/p>\n<h2>4. Dan\u00e7a lenta<\/h2>\n<p>When you go clubbing these days, you don\u2019t really get the chance to slow dance. The music is too loud, and you can\u2019t hear one another.<\/p>\n<p>Luckily, there are still some places that you can slow dance at, and you should explore that option. Even if you are not a good dancer, it\u2019s an opportunity to learn something together.<\/p>\n<p>O som da m\u00fasica e um ambiente descontra\u00eddo relaxam tanto os homens como as mulheres e permitem-lhes falar com mais facilidade. Al\u00e9m disso, coloca-os numa posi\u00e7\u00e3o em que est\u00e3o fisicamente pr\u00f3ximos, o que aumenta a tens\u00e3o sexual entre eles.<\/p>\n<h2>5. Uma vers\u00e3o modernizada das boas maneiras<\/h2>\n<p>Even though opening car doors (or any doors) for a woman, a flower when you go out on a date, pulling out her chair or something along these lines sounds great and it shouldn\u2019t go out of style, it would be a bit awkward for most people these days.<\/p>\n<p>But why can\u2019t we just modernize some things and bring them more up to date? For instance, polished manners these days could be letting a woman order first; walking beside her holding her hand instead of a few steps ahead of her; sending a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/25-cute-and-endearing-goodnight-texts-for-him-and-her\/\">texto de boa noite<\/a>; etc.<\/p>\n<h2>6. Acompanhar uma mulher at\u00e9 \u00e0 porta de casa<\/h2>\n<p>It\u2019s not just about good manners. It\u2019s one-on-one chivalry, and it should never go out of style. First of all, it\u2019s a great kissing opportunity, and it smells of romance in this not-so-romantic modern era.<\/p>\n<p>Secondly, it makes a woman feel safe. On a subconscious level, it sends the message that the man is interested in the woman\u2019s safety, and we could all use more of that these days.<\/p>\n<h2>7. Fazer um grande gesto rom\u00e2ntico<\/h2>\n<p>Isto pode ser um desejo, mas seria bom se algu\u00e9m fizesse algo por si que o deixasse boquiaberto. Como um sincero <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/cartas-romanticas-e-intimas-de-amo-te-para-ele\/\">carta de amor<\/a>um poema ou at\u00e9 uma serenata debaixo da sua janela.<\/p>\n<p>Talvez hoje isso possa ser mais parecido com fazer-te uma ch\u00e1vena de caf\u00e9 de manh\u00e3, deixar post-its giros com frases de amor por todo o apartamento, esconder chocolate na tua mala. Estas pequenas grandes coisas deixariam qualquer rapariga de rastos.<\/p>\n<h2>8. Sem wi-fi<\/h2>\n<p>It\u2019s good to unplug from time to time. Our phones take our time and our attention. We don\u2019t listen to half of the things the other person says.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s why it would be great if the two people on a date would turn off their wi-fi (or at least avoid checking their phone every 5 seconds) and just talk to each other like in the old days.<\/p>\n<h2>9. Construir lentamente uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n<p>Isto deveria definitivamente ser aplicado nos dias de hoje, e todos n\u00f3s ter\u00edamos melhores hip\u00f3teses de amar. Ficamos impacientes, saltamos as etapas que nos levam a uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o e atiramo-nos logo para l\u00e1, \u00e0 espera do melhor.<\/p>\n<p>O m\u00e9todo antigo tinha o seu pr\u00f3prio ritmo, mais lento mas de maior qualidade. N\u00e3o havia necessidade de apressar nada. Apreciavam o processo e faziam do namoro uma arte.<\/p>\n<h2>10. Dating for the sake of dating and not to get into somebody\u2019s pants<\/h2>\n<p>Sex is a part of a relationship. It shouldn\u2019t be a taboo anymore. But we\u2019ve taken it to another extreme where it\u2019s assumed and expected. That\u2019s not right. The expectations of having sex after a first or fifth date are burdening.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t want to sound like a prude, but it would be nice to date somebody who wants to get to know you, talk to you, and know a bit more about you than your first name.<\/p>\n<p>Sentir-se ligado a algu\u00e9m a um n\u00edvel pessoal e emocional torna o sexo ainda melhor e mais significativo.<\/p>\n<h2>11. Resolver as coisas em vez de desistir<\/h2>\n<p>Este \u00e9 um ponto crucial nos encontros \u00e0 moda antiga. Nessa altura, as pessoas tinham uma mentalidade completamente diferente. Eram pessoas que resolviam problemas e n\u00e3o desistiam. Estavam dispostas a resolver problemas e a ouvir-se mutuamente.<\/p>\n<p>As rela\u00e7\u00f5es exigiam trabalho nessa altura, tal como hoje, mas o amor valia sempre a pena todos os esfor\u00e7os e investimentos.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s probably why their <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/fazer-um-teste-para-saber-quanto-tempo-durara-o-casamento\/\">os casamentos duraram<\/a>e tiveram a oportunidade de envelhecer com algu\u00e9m de quem gostavam.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-32859 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/PINTEREST-2019-02-14T123712.316-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"11 h\u00e1bitos de namoro da velha guarda que dev\u00edamos trazer de volta \u00e0 vida\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/PINTEREST-2019-02-14T123712.316-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/PINTEREST-2019-02-14T123712.316-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/PINTEREST-2019-02-14T123712.316.jpg 467w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Is it just me or there are more of us who get that burning desire to go a bit back into the past as far as dating habits are concerned? This hookup culture is really tiring at times, and I catch myself wondering if there are still men out there who are willing to make&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":32857,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-32853","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/freestocks-org-191995-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? 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