{"id":3291,"date":"2017-08-07T12:11:46","date_gmt":"2017-08-07T12:11:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=3291"},"modified":"2022-02-27T10:42:22","modified_gmt":"2022-02-27T10:42:22","slug":"perdido-largado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/perdido-largado\/","title":{"rendered":"Aqui est\u00e1 o que perdeste quando a deixaste ir"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Acordas todas as manh\u00e3s e esfor\u00e7as-te muito para n\u00e3o pensar nela. Ela \u00e9 o primeiro maldito pensamento com que come\u00e7as o teu dia.<\/p>\n<p>And it keeps track with you all the time. You can\u2019t get rid of her. Your effort to erase her from your heart is in vain. She is still in your heart, in your veins. And that\u2019s why you hate to wake up from your dreams and face the harsh reality. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bustle.com\/articles\/68397-7-signs-youre-not-in-love-anymore\" rel=\"noopener\">You don\u2019t have her anymore.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Mesmo que ela fosse a melhor pessoa da tua vida, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nao-voltem-atras-deixem-no-escapar\/\">deixaste-a ir<\/a>. You hate loving her still and above all, you hate the fact that she doesn\u2019t care for you anymore. You hate so many things but most of all, you hate not getting over her in these couple of months.<\/p>\n<p>She wasn\u2019t your choice, and I am afraid you won\u2019t be hers if she ever has the chance to decide.<\/p>\n<p>The two of you could have had everything but the problem was that you wanted the same things in different times. Your life schedules never matched and that\u2019s why you couldn\u2019t function. You didn\u2019t want to go an extra mile to make her happy even if she did everything to make you the happiest man on earth. You were selfish. You were a coward and now you pay a high price for your acts.<\/p>\n<p>Deixaste-a, mesmo que ela fosse o \u00fanico ponto de luz na tua vida. Perdeste a emo\u00e7\u00e3o de cada momento com ela e aquele grande desejo de vida que ela te transmitia. Perdeste uma pessoa que te empurrava para cima quando a vida te dava bofetadas. Uma e outra vez. Perdeste a seguran\u00e7a que a tua rela\u00e7\u00e3o com ela te dava.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-3293 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/ly-gia-phu-60457.jpg\" alt=\"Mulher com uma coroa de flores na cabe\u00e7a\" width=\"800\" height=\"578\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/ly-gia-phu-60457.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/ly-gia-phu-60457-300x217.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/ly-gia-phu-60457-768x555.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Her big heart and unconditional love is something you can\u2019t find in other girls. You lost her warmth, love, support, and strength that she was sharing with you every single day. You lost a girl who wanted to be there for better or worse, the one who was sticking to you in your moments of sorrow. And all she wanted was a little love and respect.<\/p>\n<p>Nunca mais lhe vais tocar. Nunca mais olhar\u00e1 para ti com aquele olhar de cachorrinho e se sentar\u00e1 aos teus p\u00e9s enquanto te conta uma piada hilariante. Nunca mais ver\u00e1 a beleza que ela introduziu na sua vida sempre que a viu. Perdeste uma mulher para amar. Aquela que valeu a pena esperar. Aquela que te deixou orgulhoso com as suas ac\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n<p>Nunca mais poder\u00e1s explorar o mundo atrav\u00e9s dos seus brilhantes olhos de cristal. Perdeste a sua incr\u00edvel mas escondida forma de te amar por baixo da tua pele. Perdeste as asas que s\u00f3 ela te pode dar e a capacidade de seres tu pr\u00f3prio sem censura. Ela nunca se preocupar\u00e1 t\u00e3o profundamente contigo. Nunca mais te contar\u00e1 anedotas na cama enquanto o resto do mundo est\u00e1 a dormir.<\/p>\n<p>Nunca mais te far\u00e1 sorrir e, acima de tudo, nunca mais te deixar\u00e1 aproximar dela. Porque ela foi magoada. E d\u00f3i muito ser abandonado quando se estava sempre a viver para o parceiro. Isso \u00e9 algo que ela nunca te ir\u00e1 perdoar.<\/p>\n<p>You left her even if she was the only one who understood you, the only one who put up with your crap, and even if you told her to leave, she was always coming back. You don\u2019t own her anymore and you never will. She started thinking with common sense and figured out that you are a jerk who can\u2019t love her.<\/p>\n<p>Mesmo que ela estivesse sempre l\u00e1 para ti, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/13-razoes-para-nao-merecer\/\">you weren\u2019t there for her.<\/a> E estava farta de chorar todos os dias.<br \/>\nIf you ever wonder if she forgot about you I will tell you the truth\u2014she didn\u2019t. She just realized that there is nothing to mourn about. She couldn\u2019t lose you because she never had you.<\/p>\n<p>Mas a verdade \u00e9 que ela sente a tua falta. Nas noites em que est\u00e1 completamente sozinha e quando todo o peso da sua vida lhe vem ao peito, ela pensa em ti.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ver tamb\u00e9m:<\/strong>&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/doi-como-o-diabo-nao-quero-voltar\/\">It Hurts Like Hell, But I Don't Want You Back<\/a><\/p>\n<p>And every time she repeats the same sentence: \u201cMy dear, one day someone will thank YOU for letting me go!\u201d<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You are waking up every morning, trying so hard not to think of her. She is the first damn thought that you start your day with. And it keeps track with you all the time. You can\u2019t get rid of her. Your effort to erase her from your heart is in vain. She is still&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":3292,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3291","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/jamie-dench-270190.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3291","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3291"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3291\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3292"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3291"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3291"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3291"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}