{"id":3296,"date":"2017-08-07T12:25:08","date_gmt":"2017-08-07T12:25:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=3296"},"modified":"2022-02-25T11:24:16","modified_gmt":"2022-02-25T11:24:16","slug":"escolher-o-melhor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/escolher-o-melhor\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c9 por isso que escolh\u00ea-la foi a melhor coisa que me fizeste"},"content":{"rendered":"

It completely sucks when you keep choosing somebody who\u2019d never chosen you.<\/strong> It sucks when you think \u2018this is it\u2019 and it turns out it isn\u2019t. This keeps happening to me. I keep misreading people and I keep giving them roles in my life they can\u2019t or they won\u2019t play.<\/p>\n

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Quando a escolheste em vez de mim, fiquei t\u00e3o zangada.<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

Estava sempre a culp\u00e1-la por te ter roubado de mim. A parte feia \u00e9 que nunca foste realmente minha, pois n\u00e3o? S\u00f3 te pedi emprestado a algu\u00e9m por um tempo. Nunca serias minha para sempre.<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

When you chose her over me, I kept wondering what she has that I don\u2019t.<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

The answer is nothing. She was just a fresh person in your life and that\u2019s the only difference. She wasn\u2019t better or prettier. She wasn\u2019t smarter or funnier. There was nothing she did better than me, and yet, she was my replacement.<\/p>\n

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Quando a escolheste em vez de mim, doeu muito.<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

It\u2019s not just a phrase or a girly thing\u2014it\u2019s a human thing in fact. Rejection hurts. Knowing that somebody else has what was mine hurts. Knowing she gets to do the things I wanted to do with you, knowing she gets to visit places with you that I wanted, made me feel so jealous.<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

Quando a escolheste a ela em vez de mim, pensei que um batoteiro continua a ser um batoteiro.<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

I know she\u2019s not your last choice. I know there will be another girl after her and another and another. There is nothing wrong with girls that you choose\u2014you\u2019re a good sellout\u2014but there is everything wrong with you.<\/p>\n

You keep replacing girls like worn out socks and each of us thinks she\u2019s different and this time you\u2019re going to settle. But you won\u2019t. Because you\u2019re not that type. You\u2019re all in until you get a girl and once you get her, you\u2019re all out.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m:<\/strong> Sinais de que ele n\u00e3o est\u00e1 pronto para se comprometer (mas voc\u00ea simplesmente n\u00e3o quer ver isso)<\/a><\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

When you chose her over me, I hoped you\u2019ll treat her better.<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

I sincerely wished for her a less broken heart than mine. I hoped you wouldn\u2019t emotionally abuse her and that she wouldn\u2019t stay emotionally damaged after you. I hoped she\u2019d see your intention better than I did. I sincerely wished for her to be saved by somebody and I kind\u2019ve hoped she\u2019d do to you things you\u2019re doing to all your girls.<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

Quando a escolheu, senti-me aliviado.<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

Fiquei de cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido, mas I was relieved that you\u2019d left<\/a>. I knew there is no more you and me and I knew there is no getting back together. I realized that all this trauma could\u2019ve been easily escaped by one single step\u2014walking away.<\/p>\n

If you hadn\u2019t walked away, I could\u2019ve never done it.<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

I would\u2019ve ficar para sempre nesta rela\u00e7\u00e3o miser\u00e1vel <\/a>where I was constantly dragged down. I\u2019d stay with somebody who\u2019d never appreciated my efforts and who\u2019d never loved me the way I deserved it. If you hadn\u2019t walked away, I would\u2019ve never known what a toxic relationship is and how it feels good to break free from it.<\/strong><\/p>\n

If you hadn\u2019t chosen her, we\u2019d be still together and I\u2019d still be going through the hell only you dared to put me through. That\u2019s why choosing her was the best thing you have ever done for me.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ciao, adios, I\u2019m done.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

It completely sucks when you keep choosing somebody who\u2019d never chosen you. It sucks when you think \u2018this is it\u2019 and it turns out it isn\u2019t. This keeps happening to me. I keep misreading people and I keep giving them roles in my life they can\u2019t or they won\u2019t play.   When you chose her…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":3297,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3296","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/colin-maynard-269472.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3296","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3296"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3296\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3297"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3296"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3296"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3296"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}