{"id":32965,"date":"2019-02-15T10:29:32","date_gmt":"2019-02-15T10:29:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=32965"},"modified":"2021-11-10T10:22:57","modified_gmt":"2021-11-10T10:22:57","slug":"8-regras-para-se-tornar-uma-wingwoman-de-arrasar-ajude-a-sua-bff-a-engatar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/8-regras-para-se-tornar-uma-wingwoman-de-arrasar-ajude-a-sua-bff-a-engatar\/","title":{"rendered":"8 regras para se tornar uma mulher de asas assassina (Ajude a sua melhor amiga a ficar com ele)"},"content":{"rendered":"

J\u00e1 ouviste falar de wingmen, certo?<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not even remotely unusual that guys help each other out when they see a cute girl and want to approach her. It\u2019s the basics of good friendship.<\/p>\n

So naturally, why wouldn\u2019t women be great wingwomen, too?<\/p>\n

We have each other\u2019s backs and we are there in every possible situation. Why would it be strange for us to take the seat next to the pilot and help her land the guy of her dreams.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 isso, entre outras coisas, que melhores amigos<\/a> are for. \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n

Nem todas n\u00f3s somos boas a namoriscar e a abordar homens, por isso, por vezes, algumas de n\u00f3s precisam de uma ajuda e algumas de n\u00f3s est\u00e3o prontas a ajudar.<\/p>\n

O objetivo de ser uma mulher de asa<\/h2>\n

\u00c9 preciso ser-se respons\u00e1vel e inteligente para se poder passar por este ato nobre e altru\u00edsta.<\/p>\n

You have to keep in mind not to come off too strong and steal the spotlight but at the same time, you have to be interesting enough to entertain the guy\u2019s friend.<\/p>\n

The whole point is to have your girl\u2019s back and remove the friend from your girl\u2019s conversation in a subtle and cute way.<\/p>\n

If the friend is hot, it\u2019s definitely a plus.<\/p>\n

Como tornar-se a melhor wingwoman?<\/strong><\/p>\n

1. Praticar com ela<\/h2>\n

Fa\u00e7a isto um milh\u00e3o de vezes, se necess\u00e1rio. Recrie uma cena num bar e pratique com ela para deixar a melhor impress\u00e3o poss\u00edvel.<\/p>\n

Do this especially if your friend is a bit shy and usually doesn\u2019t approach strangers on your night out.<\/p>\n

Pretend you are a hot stranger and she\u2019s picking you up. Don\u2019t go easy on her, be ruthless if you need to.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s how you\u2019ll prepare her for the worst if it accidentally happens but also choose moments when to be gentle, too. You don\u2019t want to destroy her self-esteem.<\/p>\n

Al\u00e9m disso, n\u00e3o se esque\u00e7a de lhe dar feedback sobre as coisas que acha que ela poderia ter feito melhor. D\u00ea-lhe conselhos sobre o que teria feito de diferente, etc.<\/p>\n

2. Escolher por ela (se for necess\u00e1rio)<\/h2>\n

If she\u2019s too scared to look, if she\u2019s insecure, choose a guy for her (but follow the rules of the c\u00f3digo da rapariga<\/a>). <\/p>\n

You know that this night out is not about you and you don’t need to get nervous about making the first move. Your feelings are not on the line.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t have to care what he thinks about you because you are not the one who is interested in him but still, try to leave a good impression.<\/p>\n

Fa\u00e7a-lhe perguntas gerais, pergunte-lhe de que tipo de m\u00fasica gosta, o que faz para viver, etc.<\/p>\n

Re\u00fana algumas informa\u00e7\u00f5es gerais sobre ele que lhe apresentar\u00e1 e deixe-a decidir se gosta dele ou n\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

3. N\u00e3o \u00e9 um casamenteiro<\/h2>\n

There is no need for you to plan their date. You are not a matchmaker in this situation and the things you would like don\u2019t matter.<\/p>\n

Only she matters and the things she wants to do. Do not force the hook-up, those situations usually don\u2019t even end up well.<\/p>\n

Esteja presente para a sua rapariga como apoio e ajuda imediata. Certifique-se de que ela pode contar consigo em todos os momentos. \u00c9s como a sua rede de seguran\u00e7a.<\/p>\n

Remember, you are there for her to help her get what she wants\u2014a one-night stand, his number, a lover, a soulmate, you name it!<\/p>\n

4. Faz-te de parvo se for preciso<\/h2>\n

Se, por qualquer raz\u00e3o, as coisas ficarem fora de controlo, salte para salvar o dia.<\/p>\n

Se reparar que a conversa dela est\u00e1 a ir por \u00e1gua abaixo ou que ela ficou presa numa situa\u00e7\u00e3o embara\u00e7osa, v\u00e1 em busca de ajuda.<\/p>\n

Para a ajudar, envergonhe-se ainda mais do que ela, para direcionar a aten\u00e7\u00e3o indesejada para si. Esteja pronto para levar uma pela equipa!<\/p>\n

Do whatever it takes. Basically, your job is to make her look like a rock star. You don\u2019t matter.<\/p>\n

5. Falar com ela<\/h2>\n

Before going out, think of the stories you will share with the guy she\u2019s into. Avoid embarrassing stories and choose the ones that make her look awesome because let\u2019s face it, she is.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o se esque\u00e7a de real\u00e7ar todas as qualidades dela e deixe-o sem palavras.<\/p>\n

6. Divertir o amigo<\/h2>\n

D\u00ea-lhes algum tempo a s\u00f3s, especialmente se vir que a sua rapariga tem a situa\u00e7\u00e3o sob controlo, mas mantenha-se atento para o caso de ela precisar da sua ajuda.<\/p>\n

While you\u2019re letting her control the situation, amuse the friend.<\/p>\n

Be selfless and spend as much time as possible with him, even if you don\u2019t like him. If you do, well\u2026 that\u2019s a win-win situation but take my advice and don\u2019t count on that.<\/p>\n

7. N\u00e3o namoriscar<\/h2>\n

As I\u2019ve already said a couple of times, it\u2019s not about you. You are there for her just as support.<\/p>\n

So in order to help her the best you can, turn off your sexy charm and pretend you\u2019re not there. You don\u2019t want to distract him and get his attention.<\/p>\n

Se falar com ele primeiro, seja amig\u00e1vel e calorosa, mas ao mesmo tempo distante. N\u00e3o o atraia acidentalmente.<\/p>\n

8. Planear o caminho de fuga<\/h2>\n

Before you go out, carefully go through all the possible scenarios in the bar, including the one where things don\u2019t go exactly as you planned.<\/p>\n

What if he turns out to be a creeper or if he\u2019s just weird? You have to have an escape plan.<\/p>\n

For these situations, come up with a safe word or a gesture that will signal you to run and save her. Or if you just see that she\u2019s uncomfortable and she wants to bounce, go to the rescue and do your thing.<\/p>\n

S\u00ea o seu bra\u00e7o direito. S\u00ea o melhor amigo que ela precisa.<\/p>\n

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