{"id":33011,"date":"2020-02-15T14:46:48","date_gmt":"2020-02-15T14:46:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33011"},"modified":"2022-02-25T11:19:17","modified_gmt":"2022-02-25T11:19:17","slug":"para-todas-as-raparigas-que-precisam-de-ouvir-isto-fizeste-a-coisa-certa-quando-o-deixaste","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/para-todas-as-raparigas-que-precisam-de-ouvir-isto-fizeste-a-coisa-certa-quando-o-deixaste\/","title":{"rendered":"Para todas as raparigas que precisam de ouvir isto: Fizeste a coisa certa quando o deixaste"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>J\u00e1 alguma vez esteve numa situa\u00e7\u00e3o em que sabia que afastar-se de algu\u00e9m que amava era a \u00fanica op\u00e7\u00e3o que tinha, apesar de ser a \u00faltima coisa que o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o queria?<\/p>\n<p>Numa situa\u00e7\u00e3o em que teve de deixar para tr\u00e1s algu\u00e9m de quem gostava porque <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/tive-de-me-afastar-porque-sabia-que-ficar-me-iria-magoar-mais\/\">Ficar iria doer ainda mais?<\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>Numa situa\u00e7\u00e3o em que terminou uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o com um homem com quem sabia que n\u00e3o tinha futuro, apesar de ter sido a coisa mais dolorosa que teve de fazer na sua vida? <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Onde foste for\u00e7ado a partir o teu pr\u00f3prio cora\u00e7\u00e3o para sempre porque era a \u00fanica forma de fazer com que outra pessoa deixasse de o partir peda\u00e7o a peda\u00e7o a cada dia que passava?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>If you have, then this one\u2019s for you.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Isto \u00e9 para todas as raparigas que se perguntam se fizeram a coisa certa quando <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/recuperar-o-seu-coracao-e-ouvir-o-seu-cerebro\/\">ela ouvia o seu c\u00e9rebro<\/a> e afastou-se de algu\u00e9m que a estava a fazer infeliz.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Trust me\u2014you did make the right decision. Even if you don\u2019t see it now, with time, you\u2019ll understand that this decision was the best one of your life.<\/p>\n<p>De facto, era a \u00fanica coisa que podia fazer e a \u00fanica hip\u00f3tese que tinha de se libertar de toda aquela toxicidade de que estava rodeado.<\/p>\n<p><strong>For once, you chose to save yourself instead of saving that man who didn\u2019t want to be saved. For the first time ever, you chose to love yourself over that man.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I know you might question your decision now but trust me\u2014you did the right thing.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-77484\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-beautiful-woman-starring-at-one-point.jpg\" alt=\"uma mulher bonita e triste, que a certa altura est\u00e1 a olhar para ela\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-beautiful-woman-starring-at-one-point.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-beautiful-woman-starring-at-one-point-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-beautiful-woman-starring-at-one-point-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Por isso, sempre que te questionares, lembra-te de toda a dor que aquele tipo te fez passar.<\/p>\n<p>Lembra-te de todas as l\u00e1grimas, de todas as desilus\u00f5es e humilha\u00e7\u00f5es e de todas as vezes que ele te esmagou em peda\u00e7os.<\/p>\n<p>Sempre que come\u00e7ares a duvidar se fizeste a escolha certa, lembra-te de todas as noites sem dormir que passaste a rezar a Deus para o mudar e para o ajudar a tornar-se o <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/para-o-homem-que-nunca-se-tornara-o-homem-que-ela-precisa-que-ele-seja\/\">homem que precisavas que ele fosse.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Lembra-te de todos os anos que perdeste \u00e0 espera que ele se recompusesse e finalmente crescesse.<\/p>\n<p>Every time you start blaming yourself for leaving this man hanging, remember all the effort you\u2019ve put into your relationship while he couldn\u2019t care less about it.<\/p>\n<p>Todas as vezes que tentaste dar o teu melhor para o consertar enquanto ele te tomava por garantida, como se tivesse direito a esse tratamento especial que estava a receber.<\/p>\n<p>Sempre que come\u00e7ar a sentir saudades do seu ex t\u00f3xico, tente n\u00e3o pensar apenas nas coisas boas.<\/p>\n<p>Tente n\u00e3o pensar nas belas recorda\u00e7\u00f5es e nas vezes em que ele conseguiu faz\u00ea-la feliz.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, look at things realistically and see him for who he really is and always has been\u2014a manipulative selfish asshole who never deserved you, nor the love you were giving him.<\/p>\n<p>Remember that he will forever stay the same jerk he\u2019s always been and that there is nothing you could do to make him better.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-77487\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-woman-sitting-on-bed-while-man-ignoring-her.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste sentada na cama enquanto o homem a ignora\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-woman-sitting-on-bed-while-man-ignoring-her.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-woman-sitting-on-bed-while-man-ignoring-her-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-woman-sitting-on-bed-while-man-ignoring-her-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Sempre que se questionar se fez a coisa certa, lembre-se de que sabe muito bem, l\u00e1 no fundo, que esse homem nunca a amou nem nunca a amar\u00e1.<\/p>\n<p>Que ele nunca te tratou bem e que tu mereces muito mais.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Lembre-se que conseguiu sobreviver sem ele at\u00e9 agora e que sobreviver\u00e1 \u00e0 sua aus\u00eancia.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>That he didn\u2019t manage to break you just because he broke your heart and that all of this is nothing more than a lesson which will help you grow stronger.<\/p>\n<p>Lembre-se de que esta foi a \u00fanica forma de abrir o caminho para a sua felicidade e para o homem que lhe dar\u00e1 tudo o que procura.<\/p>\n<p>Que deix\u00e1-lo partir era a \u00fanica maneira de seguir em frente com a sua vida e de saltar para o futuro brilhante que a espera.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Most importantly, every time you think of going back to this man who has done you this much harm\u2014don\u2019t. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Por isso, por favor, vejam que isto, o que est\u00e3o a passar, n\u00e3o \u00e9 mais do que uma tenta\u00e7\u00e3o e, em vez de o verem como uma maldi\u00e7\u00e3o, vejam-no como uma b\u00ean\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Trust me, there will come a time when you\u2019ll be thankful to God for giving you the strength you needed to get through this challenge.<\/p>\n<p>A time when you\u2019ll be thankful for making the right choice in time.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-77482\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/To-Every-Girl-Who-Needs-To-Hear-This-You-Did-The-Right-Thing-When-You-Left-Him-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Para todas as raparigas que precisam de ouvir isto: Fizeste a coisa certa quando o deixaste\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/To-Every-Girl-Who-Needs-To-Hear-This-You-Did-The-Right-Thing-When-You-Left-Him-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/To-Every-Girl-Who-Needs-To-Hear-This-You-Did-The-Right-Thing-When-You-Left-Him-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Have you ever been in a situation where you knew that walking away from someone you loved was the only choice you had, even though that was the last thing your heart wanted? In a situation where you had to leave behind someone you cared for because staying would hurt even more? In a situation&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":23,"featured_media":77489,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29631],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-33011","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-getting-over-him"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29631,"label":"getting over him"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/To-Every-Girl-Who-Needs-To-Hear-This-You-Did-The-Right-Thing-When-You-Left-Him.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Leah Lee","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/leah\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29631,"name":"getting over him","slug":"getting-over-him","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29631,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","parent":29627,"count":124,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29631,"category_count":124,"category_description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","cat_name":"getting over him","category_nicename":"getting-over-him","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33011","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/23"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=33011"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33011\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/77489"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=33011"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=33011"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=33011"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}