{"id":33064,"date":"2019-02-18T09:10:50","date_gmt":"2019-02-18T09:10:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33064"},"modified":"2021-08-12T09:59:12","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T09:59:12","slug":"se-a-visses-valer-a-pena-a-tempo-talvez-ela-ainda-la-estivesse","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/se-a-visses-valer-a-pena-a-tempo-talvez-ela-ainda-la-estivesse\/","title":{"rendered":"Se a visses com o tempo, talvez ela ainda l\u00e1 estivesse"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Depois de tudo o que fizeste a esta rapariga, ainda tens a aud\u00e1cia de te perguntar como merecias que ela te deixasse, assim, do nada?<\/p>\n<p>After all the shit you\u2019ve put her through and after making her existence a living hell for years, you are still convinced that you have the right to blame her for dumping you?<\/p>\n<p>You still have the courage to call her and show up at the places you could meet her, thinking that her decision wasn\u2019t serious and that she\u2019d change her mind the moment she heard your voice or saw your face.<\/p>\n<p>Ainda tens a coragem de tentar rastejar de volta para ela, esperando ter outra oportunidade e esperando que ela te aceite mais uma vez, como se nada tivesse acontecido?<\/p>\n<p>Esperar que ela acredite na sua <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/nao-mais-palavras-doces-e-promessas-vazias-quero-honestidade-e-esforco\/\">promessas v\u00e3s<\/a> e desperdi\u00e7ar mais alguns anos com o homem que nunca mereceu t\u00ea-la em primeiro lugar.<\/p>\n<p>Se o fizeres, tenho de te dizer que deves estar louco, porque a \u00faltima coisa que esta rapariga planeia fazer \u00e9 voltar para ti.<\/p>\n<p>A \u00faltima coisa que ela pensa em fazer \u00e9 dar-lhe outra oportunidade de a magoar e de lhe partir o cora\u00e7\u00e3o outra vez.<\/p>\n<p><strong>No, she doesn\u2019t regret the choice she made and she most certainly doesn\u2019t feel guilty for walking away from you. She doesn\u2019t question her decision, wondering if she did the right thing.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>E sabem porque \u00e9 que isso acontece?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Because she didn\u2019t actually leave you\u2014you were the one who let her go, thinking you could play with her until you got bored. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>The one who chased her away and the one who never gave her a reason to stay, convinced that she\u2019d put up with you for as long as she breathed.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Quando penso nisso, nunca apreciou ou amou suficientemente esta rapariga. Nunca a puseste em primeiro lugar e nunca lhe deste o lugar que ela merecia na tua vida.<\/p>\n<p>Sim, eu sei que est\u00e1 convencido de que, desta vez, faria tudo de forma diferente.<\/p>\n<p>That you want her to believe you that you\u2019ve learned your lesson and that you are ready to turn over a new page of your life, as a changed man.<\/p>\n<p>Well, guess what? This girl grew tired of all of your false promises and this time, she isn\u2019t coming back and you couldn\u2019t be more wrong if you believe that she is.<\/p>\n<p>Provavelmente, faria tudo o que estivesse ao seu alcance s\u00f3 para ter mais uma oportunidade de corrigir as coisas.<\/p>\n<p>To show her you\u2019ve realized your mistakes and that you\u2019ve changed to this enlightened man who is finally ready to take responsibility for his actions.<\/p>\n<p>I am sure that now that you\u2019ve <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/perdeste-me-e-nao-vou-voltar\/\">perdido<\/a> ela, esta rapariga era mais do que suficiente.<\/p>\n<p>Now you finally realize everything people around you kept telling you\u2014that she was one of a kind and that you\u2019d never find a girl similar to her.<\/p>\n<p>Sim, finalmente percebeste. Finalmente v\u00eas todos os sacrif\u00edcios que ela estava a fazer pela vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o e todo o esfor\u00e7o que ela fez para que as coisas entre voc\u00eas dois resultassem.<\/p>\n<p>No entanto, nenhuma destas constata\u00e7\u00f5es tem agora qualquer sentido. \u00c9 bom que tenha ganho ju\u00edzo, mas tamb\u00e9m \u00e9 completamente in\u00fatil e sem sentido no que diz respeito a esta rapariga.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Because she isn\u2019t coming back. And there is nothing you can do about it.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>However, there is something even worse than this\u2014<strong>you are the one who is sentenced to spending the rest of your life dreaming about a girl you had but whose true value you didn\u2019t see.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Aquele que se tornou infeliz e aquele que perdeu uma rapariga que nunca mais voltar\u00e1 a encontrar.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014I am in no way trying to sympathize with you\u2019re here.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, I\u2019m pretty glad that all of this is happening to you because repenting for what you did is exactly what you deserve to go through.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-33067 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/PINTEREST-2019-02-18T100848.526-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Se a visses com o tempo, talvez ela ainda l\u00e1 estivesse\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/PINTEREST-2019-02-18T100848.526-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/PINTEREST-2019-02-18T100848.526-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/PINTEREST-2019-02-18T100848.526.jpg 467w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>After everything you\u2019ve done to this girl, you still have the audacity to wonder how you deserved her leaving you, just like that, out of the blue? After all the shit you\u2019ve put her through and after making her existence a living hell for years, you are still convinced that you have the right to&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":33065,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-33064","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/adult-blur-bonnet-246804.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33064","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=33064"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33064\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/33065"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=33064"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=33064"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=33064"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}