{"id":33093,"date":"2020-05-18T10:56:38","date_gmt":"2020-05-18T10:56:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33093"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:27:22","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:27:22","slug":"nao-se-preocupem-em-assentar-mas-sim-em-assentar-no-homem-errado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nao-se-preocupem-em-assentar-mas-sim-em-assentar-no-homem-errado\/","title":{"rendered":"N\u00e3o se preocupe em assentar tarde, preocupe-se em assentar no homem errado"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Ignore todas as vozes que lhe dizem que tem de estar numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o para ser feliz e completo.<\/p>\n<p>Ignore todas as vozes que lhe dizem que tem de se casar ou ir viver com o seu namorado antes dos 30 anos.<\/p>\n<p>Ignore todas as vozes que lhe dizem que o seu rel\u00f3gio biol\u00f3gico est\u00e1 a contar e que, a dada altura, ser\u00e1 demasiado tarde para ter filhos e criar uma fam\u00edlia.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Life is not a race, and it\u2019s not the 1970\u2019s anymore; you don\u2019t have to do anything.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>The rule is that there are no rules or boundaries when it comes to true love, and it\u2019s different for each and every one of us.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00e3o existe um calend\u00e1rio definido para nenhuma destas coisas. Algu\u00e9m encontra o amor no liceu, algu\u00e9m depois dos 30 anos e algu\u00e9m depois de um ou mais casamentos falhados.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89111\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/wedding-couple-kissing.jpg\" alt=\"casal de noivos a beijar-se\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/wedding-couple-kissing.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/wedding-couple-kissing-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/wedding-couple-kissing-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>O verdadeiro amor bate-nos \u00e0 porta sem se importar.<\/p>\n<p>Por isso, sempre que o amor entrar na tua vida, d\u00e1-lhe as boas-vindas. Mas nunca se contente com meios amores, rela\u00e7\u00f5es confusas e pessoas t\u00f3xicas.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s not true love. That\u2019s not settling down with somebody you love.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s settling for less than you deserve. That\u2019s settling for a life deprived of joy.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Afaste o medo de acabar sozinha. Preocupe-se mais com o facto de acabar com o homem errado.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Trust me\u2014that\u2019s ten times worse than ending up alone because nothing can ruin your life like the wrong man.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89112\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/man-looking-at-sad-woman.jpg\" alt=\"homem a olhar para uma mulher triste\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/man-looking-at-sad-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/man-looking-at-sad-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/man-looking-at-sad-woman-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Quando se apaixona pelo homem errado, est\u00e1 a aceitar brigas constantes e falta de aten\u00e7\u00e3o e afeto.<\/p>\n<p>You are sharing your roof with somebody who doesn\u2019t understand you.<\/p>\n<p>Once you settle for the wrong man, you are signing the papers that you accept a life in which he doesn\u2019t give you the respect you deserve.<\/p>\n<p>A \u00fanica coisa que ele far\u00e1 \u00e9 tomar-te a ti e a todos os teus esfor\u00e7os como garantidos.<\/p>\n<p>Quando nos contentamos com o homem errado, n\u00e3o estamos a viver no presente.<\/p>\n<p>Vive na esperan\u00e7a de um amanh\u00e3 melhor, na esperan\u00e7a de que um dia ele mude e lhe d\u00ea o amor que merece.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89113\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/worried-young-woman-sitting-on-the-couch.jpg\" alt=\"jovem mulher preocupada sentada no sof\u00e1\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/worried-young-woman-sitting-on-the-couch.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/worried-young-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/worried-young-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Once you settle for the wrong man, you are settling for a life of waiting\u2014waiting for him to be the man you need; waiting for something that will never be.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Don\u2019t marry someone you are not completely, madly, passionately in love with either.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t settle for someone you don\u2019t really care for just because he is good for you or better than your ex.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t settle for someone because you just celebrated a milestone birthday and you think \u2018it\u2019s time\u2019 to put down some roots.<\/p>\n<p>Settling for anything less than true love is a mistake. Where all the feelings and investments aren\u2019t reciprocated, there is no love. There is no basis to build a life together.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00e3o h\u00e1 qualquer hip\u00f3tese de um bom casamento.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89114\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-woman-taking-off-her-wedding-ring.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste a tirar a alian\u00e7a de casamento\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-woman-taking-off-her-wedding-ring.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-woman-taking-off-her-wedding-ring-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-woman-taking-off-her-wedding-ring-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>So, don\u2019t marry someone you are \u2018meh\u2019 about because he will be wrong for you\u2014just as a man who treats you like crap because there\u2019s no love coming from your side.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Don\u2019t settle for \u2018good enough\u2019. Wait for the one that is the best for you even though he might not be perfect. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Don\u2019t settle for somebody who treats you poorly because there is a man out there who will treat you like a queen.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t allow society\u2019s expectations or your own expectations and fears to pressure you into settling for someone who isn\u2019t made for you, someone who clearly isn\u2019t your soulmate.<\/p>\n<p>Todos n\u00f3s temos uma vida para viver e devemos escolher como a viver. Nunca devemos desperdi\u00e7\u00e1-la contentando-nos com menos do que um amor verdadeiro.<\/p>\n<p>Por isso, escolhe o amor que \u00e9 rec\u00edproco, infinito e incondicional.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89115\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/happy-couple-hugging-on-the-rooftop.jpg\" alt=\"casal feliz abra\u00e7ado no telhado\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/happy-couple-hugging-on-the-rooftop.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/happy-couple-hugging-on-the-rooftop-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/happy-couple-hugging-on-the-rooftop-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Escolha ser suficientemente corajoso para esperar por algu\u00e9m que traga calma e alegria \u00e0 sua vida, algu\u00e9m com quem se sinta seguro, algu\u00e9m que cuide de si e o trate com bondade, apesar de ser mais do que capaz de cuidar de si pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n<p>Wait for the man and marry the man who you feel is the right one for you, and you just know that you wouldn\u2019t want to spend the rest of your life with anybody else.<\/p>\n<p>The best thing about it all is that your timing will be just right. You won\u2019t meet him too late or too soon.<\/p>\n<p>Vai encontrar a sua alma g\u00e9mea no momento certo.<\/p>\n<p>So mute those mean voices telling you to settle, pressuring you to hurry up into getting married, screaming that you have to do something you don\u2019t feel is right.<\/p>\n<p>Porque tudo o que tens de fazer \u00e9 ser feliz, amar e ser amado, e nunca o ser\u00e1s se te encontrares com o <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/7-sinais-comuns-que-dizem-que-o-sr-esta-errado\/\">homem errado<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>So why wouldn\u2019t you settle down \u201ca bit later\u201d if it\u2019s with the right man?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89110\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/Don\u2019t-Worry-About-Settling-Down-Late-Worry-About-Settling-For-The-Wrong-Man-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"N\u00e3o se preocupe em assentar tarde, preocupe-se em assentar no homem errado\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/Don\u2019t-Worry-About-Settling-Down-Late-Worry-About-Settling-For-The-Wrong-Man-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/Don\u2019t-Worry-About-Settling-Down-Late-Worry-About-Settling-For-The-Wrong-Man-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Shut down all those voices telling you that you have to be in a relationship to be happy and complete. Shut down all those voices telling you that you have to get married or move in with your boyfriend before 30. Shut down all those voices telling you that your biological clock is ticking and&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":89116,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29645],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-33093","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-being-single"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29645,"label":"being single"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/Don\u2019t-Worry-About-Settling-Down-Late-Worry-About-Settling-For-The-Wrong-Man.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29645,"name":"being single","slug":"being-single","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29645,"taxonomy":"category","description":"How to rock being single? 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