{"id":33111,"date":"2020-02-18T11:44:19","date_gmt":"2020-02-18T11:44:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33111"},"modified":"2022-02-22T11:57:31","modified_gmt":"2022-02-22T11:57:31","slug":"se-ele-fizer-estas-6-coisas-e-um-bombista-do-amor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/se-ele-fizer-estas-6-coisas-e-um-bombista-do-amor\/","title":{"rendered":"Se ele faz estas 6 coisas, ele \u00e9 um bombista do amor"},"content":{"rendered":"

Para todos aqueles que n\u00e3o fazem ideia do que \u00e9 o love bombing e de onde vem, o love bombing \u00e9, na verdade, t\u00e3o antigo como o pr\u00f3prio amor.<\/p>\n

A partir do momento em que o amor nasceu, o bombardeamento amoroso tamb\u00e9m nasceu.<\/p>\n

From the moment someone \u2018decided\u2019 to love another person, someone else also came up with the concept of love bombing\u2014the moment when manipulation was born.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 basicamente isso que \u00e9 o bombardeamento amoroso.<\/p>\n

O que \u00e9 que os bombistas do amor fazem?<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

They won\u2019t stop until they have you. They will chase you, plan big, romantic surprises, and make gestures you won\u2019t be able to resist.<\/p>\n

Realizar\u00e3o todos os seus desejos e far\u00e3o com que se sinta a pessoa mais importante do seu mundo.<\/p>\n

Depois de o conquistarem e de acreditar que \u00e9 alvo de um bombista do amor, n\u00e3o tem qualquer hip\u00f3tese de lutar contra o seu charme; ele esquece-se que voc\u00ea existe.<\/p>\n

Logo depois de o atra\u00edrem para uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o e de derrubarem as suas barreiras defensivas, mostrar\u00e3o as suas verdadeiras cores.<\/p>\n

Heads-up\u2014it\u2019s their manipulative and controlling behavior.<\/p>\n

O que \u00e9 o \"love bombing\"?<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

As the phrase itself suggests, love bombing is a tactic which manipulators use to keep you under their control\u2014they use love as a bomb to keep you manipulated.<\/p>\n

Os seus alvos preferidos s\u00e3o pessoas que foram magoadas no passado, pessoas que foram tra\u00eddas pelo que pensavam ser amor, pessoas que ficaram destro\u00e7adas e inseguras.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s easy to make them victims of love bombing because they are the ones easiest to control.<\/p>\n

Ouvir o quanto algu\u00e9m nos ama todos os dias pode tornar-se muito viciante, especialmente se n\u00e3o tivemos respeito e amor no passado.<\/p>\n

When you get it, you easily get hooked. It\u2019s like a drug. When you get one hit, you need to get another.<\/p>\n

O principal objetivo do bombardeamento amoroso<\/h2>\n

\"mulher
\nThe ultimate goal for every love bomber is to overwhelm his victim with affection at the beginning of their relationship, so they don\u2019t change their mind about him later on when he shows his real face.<\/p>\n

He wants to keep his victim\u2019s hopes alive that he is going to change back to his old self\u2014a sweet and compassionate man ready to turn the world upside down for the person he loves.<\/p>\n

Homens como este enganam deliberadamente as suas v\u00edtimas para que tolerem o seu comportamento t\u00f3xico nas fases mais avan\u00e7adas da rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Signs you\u2019re with a love bomber and not a real and honest man<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/h2>\n

Ele criar\u00e1 uma liga\u00e7\u00e3o forte desde o in\u00edcio<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

He will tell you everything about himself before you even get home from the first date. He will let you in on all aspects of his life. Isn\u2019t this kind of alarming?<\/p>\n

He will emphasize how important you are to him and that he feels an unbreakable connection between the two of you, like you\u2019ve known each other your whole lives.<\/p>\n

Ele garante-lhe que lhe contou coisas sobre si pr\u00f3prio que nunca tinha contado a ningu\u00e9m.<\/p>\n

Logicamente, sentir-se-\u00e1 segura ao p\u00e9 dele e, uma vez que ele lhe contou tudo sobre si, vai retribuir o favor e abrir-se tamb\u00e9m com ele.<\/p>\n

Well, that\u2019s the first big mistake you made. You just gave him enough material to use against you in the future.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll drop the L-bomb way too soon<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

I know, no one has the right to decide when the right time to say, \u201cI love you,\u201d to someone is.<\/p>\n

O amor deve ser um sentimento particular que se experimenta num determinado momento; o amor deve ser algo especial.<\/p>\n

On the other hand, everyone knows love takes time to develop and it\u2019s almost impossible to apaixonar-se t\u00e3o cedo<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Mesmo que penses que est\u00e1s apaixonado logo no in\u00edcio, est\u00e1s enganado. Isso \u00e9 apenas atra\u00e7\u00e3o e paix\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Para amar verdadeiramente uma pessoa, \u00e9 preciso conhec\u00ea-la primeiro; tudo o resto \u00e9 apenas tempor\u00e1rio.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll tell you exactly what you want to hear<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

I\u2019m telling you, a person like that has to have a special skill to be able to do that, plus no conscience whatsoever.<\/p>\n

Ele tem uma linha adequada para cada cen\u00e1rio poss\u00edvel e n\u00e3o com o objetivo de o fazer feliz, mas para o manipular e controlar no futuro.<\/p>\n

Now you’re wondering, what if he really wants to make you happy? Think again. Does he really want that or does he just want things done his way?<\/p>\n

Ele quer que conhe\u00e7as os pais dele imediatamente<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Does this seem logical to you? Is it normal for two people who just started dating to meet each other’s family and go to family dinners?<\/p>\n

Sei com certeza que pode considerar-se sortuda se ele mencionar o seu nome depois do primeiro encontro.<\/p>\n

Usually, when two people start dating, they take things slow and they don\u2019t want to scare the hell out of the person they are dating with mentionings of marrying or having kids.<\/p>\n

Esses temas est\u00e3o fora de discuss\u00e3o h\u00e1 j\u00e1 algum tempo.<\/p>\n

Ele parece demasiado bom para ser verdade<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

My advice to you is to always go with your gut because your gut is not usually wrong. That little inner voice screaming on the inside\u2014LISTEN TO IT!<\/p>\n

Se sentir que toda a sua situa\u00e7\u00e3o parece um gui\u00e3o de um filme, d\u00ea um passo atr\u00e1s e abrande as coisas.<\/p>\n

Coloquem-no sob vigil\u00e2ncia e investiguem realmente quais s\u00e3o as suas verdadeiras inten\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n

As pessoas normais admitem os seus defeitos, n\u00e3o se envergonham deles, enquanto os bombistas do amor, pelo contr\u00e1rio, fazem tudo o que podem para os esconder.<\/p>\n

Ele faz-nos sentir super especiais<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

You\u2019re being bombed by compliments on an everyday basis? Isn\u2019t that nice? NO, it\u2019s not! It\u2019s false and it\u2019s not normal.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s one thing to say something nice to someone every now and then but bombing them with compliments draws a cloud of suspicion on the whole thing.<\/p>\n

Parece que a pessoa est\u00e1 a esfor\u00e7ar-se demasiado, como se estivesse a tentar convenc\u00ea-lo de alguma coisa.<\/p>\n

Se os seus h\u00e1bitos, como o elogio constante, incomodam toda a gente, provavelmente n\u00e3o s\u00e3o normais ou giros.<\/p>\n

Now that you know what people who love bomb do, be careful and don\u2019t let their dirty, manipulative tricks deceive you.<\/p>\n

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