{"id":3315,"date":"2019-08-07T13:22:39","date_gmt":"2019-08-07T13:22:39","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=3315"},"modified":"2022-01-10T02:05:18","modified_gmt":"2022-01-10T02:05:18","slug":"confianca-apunhalada-de-volta","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/confianca-apunhalada-de-volta\/","title":{"rendered":"Eu confiei em ti e tu apunhalaste-me pelas costas"},"content":{"rendered":"

Never, not in my wildest dreams, did I imagine something like this would to happen to me. Now, that some time has passed, I\u2019m ready to open up and to talk about it, although I still haven\u2019t made peace with it\u2014I probably won\u2019t, ever. <\/span><\/p>\n

I know why I won\u2019t ever let this go. Because I didn\u2019t get any answers. The only thing that I got from you is doors slapping in my face and the words: \u201cGet out!\u201d With no explanation\u2014nothing. How can a person deal with something she still can\u2019t comprehend?<\/span><\/p>\n

We\u2019ve been together for 5 years. We lived together and of course, we had plans for the future. People judged us a lot\u2014I mean, they judged me because you were 15 years older than me. <\/span><\/p>\n

But I didn\u2019t have a problem with that. I fell in love with you and not your age. I loved the fact you are mature because I\u2019m an alma velha<\/a>\u2014so we got along just perfectly. <\/span><\/p>\n

The last 6 months were rough. We had so many bumps on the road, but then again, who doesn\u2019t. Name one relationship that is perfect\u2014there isn\u2019t one. <\/span><\/p>\n

We all fight and we do it because we care for each other and we express our emotions that way\u2014a few harmless fights can only do well to a relationship. <\/span><\/p>\n

They can\u2019t destroy it\u2014much worse things have to happen for the relationship to die. For example, this what happened to us\u2014what you did to me.<\/span><\/p>\n

I wasn\u2019t around as much as I should have been and that also contributed to our relationship fallout\u2014but it doesn\u2019t justify it. If you loved me truly, my absence wouldn\u2019t matter. <\/span><\/p>\n

Decidiu fazer-me mal e nada o teria impedido de o fazer.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m:<\/strong> Prometo que encontrar\u00e1s um homem melhor do que aquele que te quebrou<\/a><\/p>\n

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\"Mulher<\/p>\n

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Before you\u2019 broke my heart, I already had a feeling something is about to happen. I came home (a place that I used to call home) and you confronted me\u2014coldly and strictly. <\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019ve looked at me like I never meant anything to you and you mercilessly said: <\/span>\u201cI don\u2019t love you anymore. I want you to move out today because I\u2019m not comfortable with you being in my apartment.\u201d <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

I stood there in the state of complete shock. Where is this coming from? My apartment? Isn\u2019t that our home? Who gave it a title \u2018my apartment\u2019? So many questions were running inside my mind but I couldn\u2019t ask any of them. <\/span><\/p>\n

Queria dizer qualquer coisa, mas estava paralisado. Estava a ver a minha vida a desmoronar-se<\/a> and I couldn\u2019t do anything about it\u2014not even to find out why.<\/span><\/p>\n

I took some of my stuff and I went to my friend\u2019s house\u2014defeated and alone. I lived there for a few days and then I decided I will go back at my mom\u2019s house because I was just finishing college and I didn\u2019t work anywhere. <\/span><\/p>\n

I didn\u2019t have anywhere to go. She even told me she will pick me up and help me with my stuff\u2014after 5 years of living with someone there is a lot of stuff to move out.<\/span><\/p>\n

Telefonei-te e perguntei-te se podia passar a \u00faltima noite no apartamento, porque a minha m\u00e3e vinha de manh\u00e3 cedo buscar-me a mim e \u00e0s minhas coisas.<\/span><\/p>\n

You hesitated like those 5 years we\u2019ve spent together meant nothing to you. After I practically begged you to stay just one night, you agreed.<\/span><\/p>\n

I slept on the couch that night\u2014actually I didn\u2019t sleep at all. But when I got up in the morning, you were gone. I guess you didn\u2019t have the stomach to watch me pack and leave.<\/span><\/p>\n

After I left, I couldn\u2019t sleep and I couldn\u2019t eat. I was obsessing with why you did that to me out of the blue. I knew you had someone else\u2014I mean, it was obvious. <\/span><\/p>\n

But why didn\u2019t you have the courage to say it in my face? Why did you have to stab me in the back?<\/span><\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t have the courage to face me\u2014you were too much of a coward to come clean with me. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Claro que passou uma semana e recebi a not\u00edcia que esclareceu tudo. N\u00e3o s\u00f3 me andavas a trair, como tamb\u00e9m ias casar. Obrigada Deus, obrigada vida, obrigada TU por me apunhalares pelas costas depois de eu te ter dado 5 anos da minha vida.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m:<\/strong> \u00c9 por isso que escolh\u00ea-la foi a melhor coisa que me fizeste<\/a><\/p>\n

All I asked from you was a little bit of respect. All I wanted was a dignified breakup\u2014an explanation. I\u2019m not a dog on the street. I\u2019m a human being\u2014I feel stuff as you do. In that way, we are the same. <\/span><\/p>\n

You could have given me that\u2014instead you gave me pain. You stabbed me in the back. <\/i><\/b><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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