{"id":33150,"date":"2019-02-19T10:51:49","date_gmt":"2019-02-19T10:51:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33150"},"modified":"2021-08-12T09:57:48","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T09:57:48","slug":"7-razoes-reais-para-ter-saudades-do-seu-ex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/7-razoes-reais-para-ter-saudades-do-seu-ex\/","title":{"rendered":"7 raz\u00f5es reais para ter saudades do seu ex"},"content":{"rendered":"

N\u00e3o \u00e9s louca por teres saudades dele, quer ele fosse um psicopata total ou um tipo simp\u00e1tico, ou apenas porque o sexo era bom.<\/p>\n

One way or another, he was a part of your life and now he\u2019s gone. Of course you\u2019re going to feel something.<\/p>\n

So missing him is totally normal and excusable. You\u2019re not alone, by the way. It\u2019s in every human\u2019s nature to feel that way after a relationship has ended.<\/p>\n

Those who continue partying after they\u2019ve gotten out of a relationship and swear they are okay, are, of course, lying.<\/p>\n

But that\u2019s a story for another time.<\/p>\n

Sabe quando, de repente, esquecemos todas as coisas m\u00e1s que pass\u00e1mos numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o depois da separa\u00e7\u00e3o?<\/p>\n

It\u2019s fascinating how those bad memories fade away so quickly and the good ones force their way to you.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s like your own mind is playing tricks on you and tries to make you feel guilty that the two of you broke up.<\/p>\n

Se pensarmos bem, sentir saudades do nosso ex \u00e9 uma partida cl\u00e1ssica que a nossa mente nos prega.<\/p>\n

As much as I want to believe that to be totally true, that my mind is just playing with me and it\u2019s going to go away sooner or later, there are still other reasons why you miss your ex\u2014like true, legit reasons.<\/em><\/p>\n

1. You\u2019re still single<\/h2>\n

J\u00e1 ouviram falar de um ressalto? Bem, sugiro-lhe vivamente que o experimente. Solta-te e sai com algu\u00e9m que te ajude a esquecer.<\/p>\n

You actually need a man right now to kick your ex out of your mind. You need to get rid of him. The sooner you do it, the sooner you\u2019re going to forget about him.<\/p>\n

Quando acabamos solteiros depois de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o, temos de encarar que temos muito tempo livre e, francamente, n\u00e3o fazemos ideia do que fazer com esse tempo.<\/p>\n

So, what I actually think is that one of the reasons why you\u2019re still thinking about him is because, well… you\u2019re bored.<\/p>\n

Precisas de uma distra\u00e7\u00e3o disfar\u00e7ada de um belo peda\u00e7o de rabo quente. Aceita o meu conselho e distrai-te!<\/p>\n

2. Terminou as coisas recentemente<\/h2>\n

Bem, acredites ou n\u00e3o, \u00e9 preciso tempo para p\u00f4r as emo\u00e7\u00f5es em ordem. Nada acontece de um dia para o outro e, no fundo, sabemos isso mas recusamo-nos a aceit\u00e1-lo.<\/p>\n

We don\u2019t have an on and off switch to press whenever we don\u2019t like what we\u2019re feeling. Emotions don\u2019t work that way.<\/p>\n

We can\u2019t change that, we can\u2019t control our emotions. And whether you like it or not, you\u2019re going to miss him for as long as your heart is still hung up on him.<\/p>\n

But don\u2019t panic, let some time pass by and he\u2019ll be further and further in the past. Eventually, you\u2019ll forget about him altogether.<\/p>\n

3. Notas e textos de bom dia<\/h2>\n

As I\u2019ve already said, whatever this guy did to you and no matter how pissed off you are at him, there are still some good things about him that you miss.<\/p>\n

Talvez ele costumava deixar-te pequenas notas ou enviar-te mensagens de texto que ele sentiu a tua falta<\/a> out of the blue. It would be cool to keep that, wouldn\u2019t it?<\/p>\n

There is one thing you aren\u2019t probably aware of, though. You\u2019re not missing him per se, you\u2019re missing the attention you were getting.<\/p>\n

Sente falta de algu\u00e9m que pense em si e lhe mostre que \u00e9 importante.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why I strongly suggest you go through with the first point and find a rebound.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll see that you don\u2019t care about who sent the text \u2018I miss you\u2019. It\u2019s just important for you to get it.<\/p>\n

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4. You\u2019re obsessing over what went wrong<\/h2>\n

Again, you\u2019re not alone in this. It\u2019s no wonder you\u2019re trying to figure out what happened between the two of you and why it ended.<\/p>\n

Talvez penses que a culpa foi toda tua. Not\u00edcia de \u00faltima hora! S\u00e3o precisas duas pessoas para estragar uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o, ou, nalguns casos, um homem muito demente e emocionalmente incapacitado.<\/p>\n

Whatever the case may be, it\u2019s not your fault, or not only your fault.<\/p>\n

So, as long as you keep torturing yourself with trying to turn back time, you won\u2019t be able to let him go and move on.<\/p>\n

5. Est\u00e1 impressionado com a fam\u00edlia dele<\/h2>\n

This sometimes can also be at stake. His mom is a badass and you really love her. Now that you\u2019re no longer together, you miss having her around.<\/p>\n

In this case, my friend, you\u2019re missing his family and not him, which is kind of reasonable.<\/p>\n

Quando acabamos com um homem, acabamos tamb\u00e9m com a fam\u00edlia dele.<\/p>\n

Maybe he was an ass but his family weren\u2019t and now you\u2019re faced with losing people who liked you and you liked them back.<\/p>\n

That is a hard blow to take. Therefore, it\u2019s normal you\u2019re missing the main link that tied you together\u2014your ex.<\/p>\n

6. O sexo era de outro mundo<\/h2>\n

There is no need to say out loud that it\u2019s so freakin\u2019 hard to find a man who will satisfy you both emotionally and physically but there, I had to say it.<\/p>\n

If he was a selfish lover and having sex with him was just a part of the relationship routine, of course, you won\u2019t miss him.<\/p>\n

Infelizmente, neste caso, o sexo foi alucinante e, na verdade, o que lamenta n\u00e3o \u00e9 perd\u00ea-lo, mas sim perder o seu \u2018thing\u2019<\/em>. It was a good \u2018thing\u2019 wasn\u2019t it?<\/p>\n

Well, at this point, all you can do is move on and I\u2019m sure there will appear another man who will know how to satisfy you in every way possible.<\/p>\n

7. Perde o contacto<\/h2>\n

Todos sentimos falta do toque humano. Quer se queira admitir ou n\u00e3o, todos n\u00f3s fomos concebidos para desejar aten\u00e7\u00e3o e toque f\u00edsico.<\/p>\n

We are not able to go through life completely alone and even the ones who are alone and don\u2019t want to admit they are miserable face that crisis from time to time.<\/p>\n

So, you see, it\u2019s perfectly normal to miss the man who snuggled with you, who cuddled like there\u2019s no tomorrow.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s normal to miss the human touch but that doesn\u2019t necessarily mean that you miss him.<\/p>\n

The bottom line is, even if he was a total jerk it\u2019s still normal to miss him and I mean miss him for true, legit reasons.<\/p>\n

Missing him even though you know you shouldn\u2019t doesn\u2019t mean you\u2019ve lost it. Everybody goes through the same thing as you, they are just too ashamed to admit it.<\/p>\n

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