{"id":33164,"date":"2020-05-19T11:39:55","date_gmt":"2020-05-19T11:39:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33164"},"modified":"2022-01-06T15:58:44","modified_gmt":"2022-01-06T15:58:44","slug":"7-sinais-de-que-nao-o-amas-mas-amas-a-ideia-dele","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/7-sinais-de-que-nao-o-amas-mas-amas-a-ideia-dele\/","title":{"rendered":"7 sinais de que voc\u00ea n\u00e3o o ama - voc\u00ea ama a ideia dele"},"content":{"rendered":"

Quantas vezes pensaste apaixonou-se<\/a>? Quantas vezes o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o come\u00e7ou a bater mais depressa porque pensaste que tinhas finalmente encontrado o amor da tua vida?<\/p>\n

Muitas vezes, eu sei.<\/p>\n

But the sad truth is that every time you felt like that, it really wasn\u2019t real love.<\/p>\n

You thought that you loved someone but as soon as bad things started to happen, you would realize that you didn\u2019t love him so much.<\/p>\n

In fact, sometimes you hated him and you couldn\u2019t stand his behavior.<\/p>\n

Ent\u00e3o, a quest\u00e3o \u00e9: como \u00e9 que se pode saber com certeza se se ama algu\u00e9m ou apenas a ideia dessa pessoa?<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o se preocupe mais porque fiz uma lista das coisas que sentir\u00e1 APENAS quando gostar da ideia de um homem, mas n\u00e3o se ama-o<\/a>.<\/p>\n

You \u2018love\u2019 him because of his money<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Se pensa que est\u00e1 apaixonada por um homem que \u00e9 rico e bem sucedido, tem de pensar melhor.<\/p>\n

Would you still be with him if he didn\u2019t have all that money or success?<\/p>\n

Would you still be with him if he couldn\u2019t afford all those expensive gifts, travel or fast cars for you?<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o? Bem, ent\u00e3o o que sentes por ele n\u00e3o \u00e9 amor. De facto, est\u00e1 longe de ser amor. Apenas gosta da ideia dele e do que ele lhe pode proporcionar.<\/p>\n

Ele n\u00e3o \u00e9 a primeira pessoa a quem se d\u00e1 boas not\u00edcias<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Quando se est\u00e1 apaixonado, a pessoa amada ser\u00e1 a pessoa mais importante da sua vida.<\/p>\n

Ser\u00e1 a ele que telefonar\u00e1 quando tiver boas e m\u00e1s not\u00edcias.<\/p>\n

But if you don\u2019t have this kind of relationship with the guy you are dating, it means you don\u2019t love him. You just love the idea of him.<\/p>\n

Adoras ter algu\u00e9m a quem possas telefonar quando te sentes s\u00f3, porque \u00e9 a \u00fanica altura em que pensas nele.<\/p>\n

The truth is that you \u2018love\u2019 him because you need him. And nothing more than that.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o tem a certeza se ele \u00e9 o tal<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

Num momento pensa que ele \u00e9 o tal, depois senta-se e pensa como seria o seu futuro com ele e percebe que ele n\u00e3o \u00e9 o homem dos seus sonhos.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t say what you actually feel about him even if you think you love him.<\/p>\n

Sente que a forma como o trata depende do seu estado de esp\u00edrito e que, num dia, est\u00e1 cegamente apaixonada por ele e, no outro, quer mat\u00e1-lo.<\/p>\n

My dear, that is not love. You are not being honest with yourself in the first place and what you have with him simply won\u2019t last long.<\/p>\n

Gostaria de o transformar na pessoa perfeita para si<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

O que \u00e9 que isso diz?<\/p>\n

Se n\u00e3o est\u00e1 satisfeita com ele tal como ele \u00e9 e gostaria de o transformar noutra pessoa, isso \u00e9 um sinal comprovado<\/a> que n\u00e3o est\u00e1s realmente apaixonada por ele.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3 gostas da ideia dele e mais nada.<\/p>\n

Infelizmente, isso n\u00e3o \u00e9 suficiente para algo mais, pelo que deve pensar duas vezes se ele \u00e9 o homem com quem quer passar o resto da sua vida.<\/p>\n

If you \u2018love\u2019 him just when it benefits you and if you want him to change so you could love him completely, then he is surely not the man for you.<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1 com ele s\u00f3 para n\u00e3o ficar sozinha<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Se est\u00e1 com ele s\u00f3 porque quer evitar estar sozinha, isso n\u00e3o \u00e9 amor.<\/p>\n

Se o fizer, est\u00e1 apenas a mostrar que o est\u00e1 a usar para se sentir segura.<\/p>\n

Because even if he is not the perfect one for you and even if you know it, you are still with him because you don\u2019t want to end up alone.<\/p>\n

Isso significa que n\u00e3o est\u00e1 com ele pelas raz\u00f5es certas, mas sim pelas erradas.<\/p>\n

And if you continue like this, you won\u2019t be with him for long.<\/p>\n

Mais cedo ou mais tarde, vai perceber que \u00e9 melhor estar sozinha do que em m\u00e1 companhia e vai deix\u00e1-lo.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o est\u00e1 interessado em ouvir os problemas dele<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Quando se est\u00e1 apaixonado, ouve-se tudo o que a pessoa amada tem para dizer, independentemente de ser bom ou mau.<\/p>\n

But if you just want to hear the good stories and have fun with him while you don\u2019t give a damn about his problems, then you are not actually in love.<\/p>\n

You simply like everything that he gives you but you don\u2019t want to give him anything in return.<\/p>\n

It means that you take care of yourself and you like when he takes care of you but you don\u2019t want to do the same for him.<\/p>\n

Sorry to burst your bubble but love shouldn\u2019t be like this.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t always feel good when you are with him<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Quando estamos apaixonados, queremos passar todos os momentos livres com a pessoa amada.<\/p>\n

But if you don\u2019t feel this way and if you don\u2019t always feel good with him, chances are that we are not talking about amor verdadeiro aqui<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Provavelmente, passar\u00e1 os melhores momentos da sua vida quando ele lhe comprar presentes, fizer com que se sinta especial, levando-a a restaurantes elegantes ou fazendo viagens consigo.<\/p>\n

Ele ser\u00e1 bom para ti enquanto te sentires bem com ele e isso nunca mudar\u00e1.<\/p>\n

But real love is not all about those things. Real love would survive even if you two didn\u2019t have money so you stayed at home instead of going on a trip.<\/p>\n

Real love is when you accept your loved one the way he really is and when you don\u2019t want to change him. And everything else is just false shine.<\/p>\n

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