{"id":33190,"date":"2020-08-19T12:27:03","date_gmt":"2020-08-19T12:27:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33190"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:39:12","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:39:12","slug":"nunca-confundir-o-silencio-de-uma-mulher-com-fraqueza","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nunca-confundir-o-silencio-de-uma-mulher-com-fraqueza\/","title":{"rendered":"Nunca confundir o sil\u00eancio de uma mulher com fraqueza"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>\u2018Silence speaks volumes\u2019.<\/em> Let\u2019s absorb this good old saying and think about it for a second.<\/p>\n<p>O sil\u00eancio fala muito, basicamente significa dizer muito sem dizer nada. Mas quando se trata de mulheres, a sociedade e especialmente os homens t\u00eam tido sempre uma conota\u00e7\u00e3o errada do sil\u00eancio.<\/p>\n<p>Pensam que se uma mulher se cala, est\u00e1 a ser fraca ou submissa. Mas a verdade est\u00e1 longe disso!<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Se uma mulher se cala, significa que foi demasiado forte durante demasiado tempo.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>It means she has been fighting hard for too long but you didn\u2019t notice it because you were probably too busy focusing on yourself.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 preciso saber que uma mulher <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/se-tiveres-de-abdicar-destas-coisas-por-ele-ele-nao-e-a-pessoa-certa\/\">nunca desiste<\/a> t\u00e3o facilmente. Ela \u00e9 uma lutadora pela sua felicidade e pela felicidade das pessoas que ama e em quem acredita.<\/p>\n<p>And if all of a sudden she becomes silent, it means she realized that there\u2019s no point in fighting anymore because she has been neglecting her own happiness for the sake of others. A woman never chooses to be silent.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-111086 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-woman-draws-by-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"uma mulher desenha \u00e0 janela\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-woman-draws-by-the-window.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-woman-draws-by-the-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-woman-draws-by-the-window-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-woman-draws-by-the-window-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-woman-draws-by-the-window-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-woman-draws-by-the-window-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-woman-draws-by-the-window-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-woman-draws-by-the-window-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>A sua falta de palavras \u00e9 uma consequ\u00eancia do facto de n\u00e3o ser correspondida e de n\u00e3o ser tratada como merece.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Uma mulher torna-se silenciosa quando tomamos as suas palavras por garantidas.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Uma mulher fica calada quando a deixas triste.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Uma mulher cala-se quando v\u00ea que nada vai mudar.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Uma mulher nunca desiste t\u00e3o facilmente. Com cada sorriso, ela encoraja-o a mudar. Com cada perd\u00e3o, ela est\u00e1 a dar-te outra oportunidade.<\/p>\n<p>With her every nice word, she is showing you that she cares. And when none of it is reciprocated\u2014she becomes silent.<\/p>\n<p>O seu sil\u00eancio n\u00e3o \u00e9 um sinal de fraqueza. Ser fraco significa desistir ao primeiro obst\u00e1culo. Ser fraco significa tratar as outras pessoas como merda e n\u00e3o se importar com o que elas sentem. Ser fraco significa nem sequer tentar <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/family\/5-razoes-pelas-quais-ter-uma-irma-faz-de-si-uma-pessoa-melhor\/\">tornar-se uma pessoa melhor<\/a>. And she\u2019s not any of this.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>A woman\u2019s compassion and tolerance are not signs of weakness but signs of strength.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-111087 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/an-imaginary-woman-sitting-on-a-bench.jpg\" alt=\"uma mulher imagin\u00e1ria sentada num banco\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/an-imaginary-woman-sitting-on-a-bench.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/an-imaginary-woman-sitting-on-a-bench-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/an-imaginary-woman-sitting-on-a-bench-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/an-imaginary-woman-sitting-on-a-bench-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/an-imaginary-woman-sitting-on-a-bench-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/an-imaginary-woman-sitting-on-a-bench-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/an-imaginary-woman-sitting-on-a-bench-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/an-imaginary-woman-sitting-on-a-bench-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 preciso muita for\u00e7a para escolher ficar em sil\u00eancio quando se tem muito a dizer. \u00c9 preciso muita for\u00e7a para continuar a mostrar compaix\u00e3o perante os maus tratos. \u00c9 preciso muita for\u00e7a para continuar a ver o lado bom dos outros depois de v\u00e1rias desilus\u00f5es.<\/p>\n<p>And women do all of that. They are compassionate and tolerant even when they shouldn\u2019t be because they believe in their dreams. They believe that they can change things even when it seems impossible to do so. So, don\u2019t you dare call them weak!<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Se uma mulher \u00e9 incapaz de pronunciar uma palavra, significa que toda a sua for\u00e7a \u00e9 substitu\u00edda pelo sil\u00eancio.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Significa que ela decidiu preservar as suas palavras para algu\u00e9m que esteja pronto para as ouvir. Significa que ela decidiu preservar o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o para algu\u00e9m que seja digno dele. Ela decidiu lutar pela sua pr\u00f3pria felicidade.<\/p>\n<p>E quando uma mulher decide faz\u00ea-lo, n\u00e3o h\u00e1 volta a dar. Ela nunca se arrepende das suas decis\u00f5es porque sabe que durante todo este tempo foi uma lutadora e que agora \u00e9 altura de redirecionar a sua for\u00e7a para si pr\u00f3pria.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Never mistake a woman\u2019s silence for ignorance.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Ela tem consci\u00eancia de tudo o que os outros j\u00e1 fizeram por ela e nunca o esquece. Nunca esquece o bom e o mau. A cada palavra simp\u00e1tica, responde ainda mais simp\u00e1tica. A cada palavra m\u00e1, responde com um sorriso.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-111088 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/the-woman-stands-with-her-eyes-closed.jpg\" alt=\"a mulher est\u00e1 de olhos fechados\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/the-woman-stands-with-her-eyes-closed.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/the-woman-stands-with-her-eyes-closed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/the-woman-stands-with-her-eyes-closed-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/the-woman-stands-with-her-eyes-closed-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/the-woman-stands-with-her-eyes-closed-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/the-woman-stands-with-her-eyes-closed-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/the-woman-stands-with-her-eyes-closed-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/the-woman-stands-with-her-eyes-closed-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>E sabem porqu\u00ea?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Porque ela acredita que as coisas boas v\u00eam para aqueles que acreditam, que esperam e que s\u00e3o pacientes. Ela est\u00e1 ciente de todos os maus tratos, mentiras, desrespeito e enganos, mas continua a responder com o sil\u00eancio. E sabem porqu\u00ea?<\/p>\n<p>Because no words can explain the battle that\u2019s going on in her heart and mind. Her silence is not a sign of weakness.<\/p>\n<p>Uma mulher torna-se silenciosa quando deixa de acreditar, de esperar e de ser paciente com aqueles que a ouvem, mas que n\u00e3o est\u00e3o dispostos a compreend\u00ea-la.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-111085 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/Never-Mistake-A-Womans-Silence-For-Weakness-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Nunca confundir o sil\u00eancio de uma mulher com fraqueza\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/Never-Mistake-A-Womans-Silence-For-Weakness-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/Never-Mistake-A-Womans-Silence-For-Weakness-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/Never-Mistake-A-Womans-Silence-For-Weakness-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/Never-Mistake-A-Womans-Silence-For-Weakness-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/Never-Mistake-A-Womans-Silence-For-Weakness-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u2018Silence speaks volumes\u2019. Let\u2019s absorb this good old saying and think about it for a second. Silence speaks volumes basically means saying a lot by saying nothing. But when it comes to women, society and especially men have all this time had the wrong connotation of it. They think if a woman is being silent,&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":111083,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29639],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-33190","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-women"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29639,"label":"understanding women"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/Never-Mistake-A-Womans-Silence-For-Weakness-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Katie Burns","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/katie\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29639,"name":"understanding women","slug":"understanding-women","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29639,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. 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