{"id":3328,"date":"2017-08-11T07:45:31","date_gmt":"2017-08-11T07:45:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=3328"},"modified":"2021-08-12T13:17:23","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T13:17:23","slug":"a-todas-as-raparigas-apaixonem-se-primeiro-por-voces-proprias","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-todas-as-raparigas-apaixonem-se-primeiro-por-voces-proprias\/","title":{"rendered":"Para todas as raparigas: Apaixona-te primeiro por ti pr\u00f3pria"},"content":{"rendered":"

This one is for every girl who has ever wanted fairy tale love. I’m sure you’ve heard things like “that doesn’t exist in the real world” or “chivalry is dead”. But I am here today to tell you that what you\u2019ve heard isn\u2019t true.  However, here’s the tricky part: It doesn\u2019t come from a man in the castle and it most definitely does not come from \u201clove at first sight\u201d. True love will only be found within yourself. <\/span><\/p>\n

Toda a gente passa por uma fase da vida em que se sente perdida ou como se faltasse alguma coisa. Se calhar, at\u00e9 pode estar a passar por essa fase ainda hoje. Como resultado, d\u00e1 por si a perseguir pessoas<\/a> who surely don\u2019t give a damn about you or numbing your pain with things you never said you would. <\/span><\/p>\n

That\u2019s the problem though\u2014as much as you try to numb the symptoms, you are doing nothing to cure the cause. We feel so low that we chase the highs in other people\/substances\/materials. But how can we look for a love we have yet to find? Or a feeling we have yet to feel?<\/span><\/p>\n

When you sit there and ask yourself, \u201cIf I were to be given a love so deep, what would it look like?\u201d, you often start to visualize emotions and materials a person can give you. You forget about the love you are already receiving and about the love you can give yourself. You know you are capable of giving someone the world but you forget to give it to yourself. <\/span><\/p>\n

P\u00e1ra de dar essas partes de ti. \u00c9 muito mais simples do que pensa. Pode j\u00e1 ter ouvido isto muitas vezes, mas vou repetir mais uma vez. Muda a tua mente e mudar\u00e1s a tua vida. Corte completamente com qualquer pessoa que o fa\u00e7a sentir-se menos voc\u00ea mesmo. <\/span><\/p>\n

Se est\u00e1 constantemente a assentar<\/a> for people who lower your worth, you will never make time for those who truly value the person you are meant to be and will blossom into. Just remember you don\u2019t need anyone who doesn\u2019t need you!<\/span><\/p>\n

Pare de esperar que algu\u00e9m apare\u00e7a e a leve a fazer todas as coisas que sempre desejou. Voc\u00ea \u00e9 completo e \u00e9 completamente capaz de fazer coisas fant\u00e1sticas na sua pr\u00f3pria companhia. Pare de esperar que algu\u00e9m lhe diga o quanto \u00e9 maravilhoso e o quanto o adora.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m:<\/strong> Uma carta para aquela que ainda est\u00e1 \u00e0 espera que o amor entre na sua vida<\/a><\/p>\n

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\"Mulher<\/p>\n

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Today, I challenge you!\u2014Wake up, wash your face, look yourself straight in the eye, and give yourself a compliment. And if that seems a little too easy, I challenge you to do this every day. Tell yourself everything you want to hear from someone else. I promise you there will be no better feeling than the one you will receive.<\/span><\/p>\n

Forget about what people think of you! If there is one thing I have learned within the process of loving myself, it is that in order to love yourself, we CAN NOT\u2014and I repeat, CAN NOT\u2014listen to anybody else\u2019s perception of you. <\/span><\/p>\n

You are not what people think you are\u2014you are what YOU think you are. You are not what people make yourself to be\u2014the ways of you are written in your heart and actions. And if you don\u2019t feel too good about yourself, there is the issue in itself. But it can surely be taken care of with a few words of motivation from yourself. <\/span><\/p>\n

Last but not least, take care and forgive yourself. I know it may sound a little on the \u201cI\u2019ve heard it all before side\u201d but that\u2019s because it is. We just choose not to ever listen, or maybe we don\u2019t know the way to go about it. Forgive yourself in the smallest ways. \u201cI forgive myself for making myself believe I am less than I truly am\u201d or \u201c I forgive myself for not watching what I put in my body\u201d. <\/span><\/p>\n

In doing so, we release ourselves of the heavy burdens we carry around trying to be perfect. Let\u2019s face it\u2014we are humans and none of us are perfect. Therefore, we might as well accept ourselves the way we are, forgive ourselves for past mistakes, and keep loving ourselves regardless. The process of this will truly lead to abundance and self prosperity.<\/span><\/p>\n

D\u00ea o primeiro passo de mudan\u00e7a para se amar a si pr\u00f3prio. Don\u2019t rely your happiness on other people.<\/a> Hoje \u00e9 o dia em que acorda e percebe que tem a capacidade de fazer absolutamente tudo o que deseja. Comece com pouco e lembre-se sempre <\/span>s\u00e3o as mais pequenas mudan\u00e7as dentro de n\u00f3s que ir\u00e3o atrair as maiores mudan\u00e7as nas nossas vidas.  <\/b><\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: <\/strong>4 raz\u00f5es pelas quais precisa de aprender a gostar de si pr\u00f3prio<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

This one is for every girl who has ever wanted fairy tale love. I’m sure you’ve heard things like “that doesn’t exist in the real world” or “chivalry is dead”. But I am here today to tell you that what you\u2019ve heard isn\u2019t true.  However, here’s the tricky part: It doesn\u2019t come from a man…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":3465,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29644],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3328","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29644,"label":"self-love"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/ariel-lustre-242326-1.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29644,"name":"self-love","slug":"self-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29644,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. Boost your self-confidence, learn to love yourself and ditch toxicity because you deserve to be happy.","parent":29643,"count":290,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29644,"category_count":290,"category_description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. Boost your self-confidence, learn to love yourself and ditch toxicity because you deserve to be happy.","cat_name":"self-love","category_nicename":"self-love","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3328","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/22"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3328"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3328\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3465"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3328"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3328"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3328"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}