{"id":33290,"date":"2020-09-20T10:28:18","date_gmt":"2020-09-20T10:28:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33290"},"modified":"2022-01-14T11:28:27","modified_gmt":"2022-01-14T11:28:27","slug":"as-raparigas-tentam-mudar-os-homens-as-mulheres-apenas-mudam-de-direcao","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/as-raparigas-tentam-mudar-os-homens-as-mulheres-apenas-mudam-de-direcao\/","title":{"rendered":"As raparigas tentam mudar os homens, as mulheres apenas mudam de dire\u00e7\u00e3o"},"content":{"rendered":"

H\u00e1 muitas diferen\u00e7as entre uma rapariga e uma mulher.<\/p>\n

One of them lies in the fact that when a girl loves a guy, she\u2019ll do everything in her power to make him better and to transform him into the man of her dreams.<\/p>\n

Somehow, she\u2019ll always find a way to justify his behavior and excuse him so she can keep on loving him.<\/p>\n

She\u2019ll keep on giving him endless second chances, all in the hope that he\u2019ll finally become the man of her dreams.<\/p>\n

Of course, eventually, after wasting years on a guy who can\u2019t be repaired, this girl sees that all of her efforts were in vain.<\/p>\n

Ela apercebe-se de que foi uma tola por ter esperado por uma mudan\u00e7a que nunca viria e acaba por desistir deste homem, com o cora\u00e7\u00e3o despeda\u00e7ado.<\/p>\n

On the other hand, real women don\u2019t do this. They know what they want and don\u2019t plan on lowering their standards for anyone.<\/p>\n

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Um verdadeiro a mulher afasta-se<\/a> the moment she isn\u2019t treated right or the moment she realizes her relationship with someone doesn\u2019t have a future.<\/p>\n

She isn\u2019t ready to spend years of her life next to a man who she knows is wrong for her and she\u2019ll always remain single until the right one comes along.<\/p>\n

O \u00fanico rapaz que alguma vez ter\u00e1 o privil\u00e9gio de ser criado por esta mulher \u00e9 o seu filho.<\/p>\n

She\u2019ll never waste years of her life trying to transform some immature guy into the grown ass man he should be by himself, simply because she knows something like this is not her duty.<\/p>\n

Ela sabe que n\u00e3o deve pensar que a sua fun\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 gui\u00e1-lo na vida ou ser o seu anjo da guarda numa miss\u00e3o para o salvar. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Ela sabe que n\u00e3o \u00e9 seu dever ser sua m\u00e3e ou consertar o que outras raparigas do seu passado quebraram. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

N\u00e3o \u00e9 obriga\u00e7\u00e3o dela ensinar-te a viver, ajudar-te a aprender a diferen\u00e7a entre o certo e o errado ou transformar-te em algo que obviamente n\u00e3o \u00e9s e que n\u00e3o sabes que devias ser.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014this in no way means that a woman like this treats her partner like she couldn\u2019t care less about him.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o, ela dar-lhe-\u00e1 todo o apoio de que precisa, empurr\u00e1-lo-\u00e1 para a frente e ser\u00e1 o vento sob as suas asas se vir que \u00e9 digno dos seus esfor\u00e7os e que \u00e9 um homem que a merece.<\/p>\n

No entanto, a \u00faltima coisa she\u2019ll do is fall for your potential.<\/a> She won\u2019t love all the qualities you might have and she most certainly won\u2019t fall in love with the man you might become.<\/p>\n

You see, she worked hard to become the woman she is today. She is a finished product and she won\u2019t settle for a man who is any less than that.<\/p>\n

A \u00faltima coisa que esta mulher planeia fazer \u00e9 gastar a sua energia a modific\u00e1-lo.<\/p>\n

Ela sabe que valoriza muito mais do que dedicar toda a sua vida a um tipo que precisa da sua orienta\u00e7\u00e3o na vida.<\/p>\n

Instead, she\u2019ll look for a relationship in which both of you can improve and help each other become better.<\/p>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

What she wants and needs is an equal partner\u2014a man who will have the capacity to give her back all he\u2019s getting from her.<\/p>\n

Um homem que ter\u00e1 a for\u00e7a para atravessar a vida ombro a ombro com ela, um companheiro de equipa e um parceiro no crime.<\/p>\n

Por isso, se espera que uma mulher como ela espere pacientemente que se torne o homem de que ela precisa, pense de novo.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

If you expect her to wait for you to come to your senses and get your shit together, walk away in time because trust me\u2014you don\u2019t stand a chance with her.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Cuidado com o facto de esta mulher saber que o seu love can\u2019t change a man<\/a> until he decides to do so himself so she won\u2019t even try doing it.<\/p>\n

Instead, she\u2019d rather focus all of her energy into working on herself and becoming the best possible version of herself.<\/p>\n

Instead of loving someone unworthy of her love, she\u2019d rather love herself.<\/p>\n

\"As<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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