{"id":33301,"date":"2019-02-20T10:39:34","date_gmt":"2019-02-20T10:39:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33301"},"modified":"2022-02-27T02:10:17","modified_gmt":"2022-02-27T02:10:17","slug":"se-ele-fosse-a-pessoa-certa-teria-ficado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/se-ele-fosse-a-pessoa-certa-teria-ficado\/","title":{"rendered":"Se ele fosse a pessoa certa, teria ficado"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>For as long as you can remember, you\u2019ve been someone who believed in love. You\u2019ve been a girl who was looking for real romance and a happy ending in all of your relationships.<\/p>\n<p>Nunca te interessaste por <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/nao-perca-o-tempo-dela-se-esta-a-procura-de-algo-temporario\/\">algo tempor\u00e1rio<\/a> e nunca procuraste um homem s\u00f3 para te divertires.<\/p>\n<p>Os casos sem sentido e os namoros casuais n\u00e3o eram a sua praia.<\/p>\n<p>Em vez disso, tudo o que sempre quiseste foi encontrar <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-pessoa-certa-vai-amar-te-por-todas-as-coisas-pelas-quais-a-pessoa-errada-te-deixou\/\">o homem certo<\/a> for you, your soulmate and the man you\u2019d grow old with.<\/p>\n<p>No, you weren\u2019t too picky and you didn\u2019t want a Mr. Perfect\u2014you just wanted simple things\u2014someone to get you, someone to try around you and someone to love you back.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>This is exactly what you hoped to get from your ex-boyfriend\u2014love, compassion and understanding. You wanted him to be your safe harbor and your haven after a long day.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>E, se pensarmos bem, este tipo era mesmo tudo isto.<\/p>\n<p>He indeed had everything you looked for in a man\u2014at least in the beginning.<\/p>\n<p>No entanto, passado algum tempo, as coisas mudaram e ele revelou-se um homem diferente do que pensava.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00e3o tem a certeza se ele est\u00e1 agora a mostrar as suas verdadeiras cores ou se simplesmente se cansou de si, mas a verdade \u00e9 que, de repente, n\u00e3o havia sinal do homem por quem se apaixonou.<\/p>\n<p>Depois de muitas discuss\u00f5es e ainda mais tempo perdido, ele deixou-a.<\/p>\n<p>Sem mais nem menos, ele foi-se embora da sua vida como se voc\u00eas os dois nunca tivessem tido import\u00e2ncia e como se nunca se importasse consigo.<\/p>\n<p>Deixou-te sozinha, a tentar lutar contra a tua tristeza e a tentar perceber quando e porqu\u00ea <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/correu-mal-ate-comecou\/\">as coisas correram mal.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Nevertheless, that is not the worst part. You know that eventually, you\u2019ll stop missing him and get used to his absence.<\/p>\n<p>You know that you\u2019ll learn to live without him even if you never stop loving him.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-48955\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/How-To-Move-Forward-3-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Se ele fosse a pessoa certa, teria ficado\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/How-To-Move-Forward-3-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/How-To-Move-Forward-3-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/How-To-Move-Forward-3.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Mas e se ele fosse a pessoa certa para si? E se ele fosse a tua alma g\u00e9mea?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>What if you never grow to love someone the way you still love him? What if you\u2019ll spend the rest of your life searching for him in all the other men you encounter? What if this man who got away remains stuck in one part of your brain forever?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Well, let me promise you one thing\u2014none of this will happen. And you know why?<\/p>\n<p>Porque <em><strong>if he was the one, he wouldn\u2019t have gotten away. If he was meant to be yours forever, you would have never lost him.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>You know, when love is real, it doesn\u2019t have an expiration date. It doesn\u2019t fade away the moment things get rough and it never ends.<\/p>\n<p>When love is real, it lasts a lifetime, through good and bad days, through thick and thin. None of life\u2019s obstacles or time can do it any harm because it is omnipotent and everlasting.<\/p>\n<p>I know you are still convinced that this man was the one for you but he clearly wasn&#8217;t.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Ele tinha um objetivo na sua vida, estava l\u00e1 para <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/uma-carta-ao-meu-ex-merdoso-obrigado-por-me-ter-ensinado-estas-5-coisas\/\">dar-vos uma li\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a><\/span> and to make you understand some things but he obviously wasn\u2019t right for you.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Porque se fosse, nada neste mundo o poderia ter afastado de ti.<\/p>\n<p>Se assim fosse, continuaria ao teu lado, a segurar-te a m\u00e3o ao longo da vida e nunca teria sequer pensado em abandonar-te.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Se ele fosse a pessoa certa, voc\u00eas teriam tido o vosso final feliz.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>I know all of this is difficult to believe in now but you\u2019ll see that it is the only truth once this true love we are talking about comes into your life.<\/p>\n<p>When that happens, you\u2019ll realize all the ways in which all of your past relationships were wrong and you\u2019ll finally understand why none of them worked out.<\/p>\n<p>Most importantly, you\u2019ll see that there is <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/dont-forget-that-god-always-has-the-perfect-timing\/\">momento perfeito<\/a><\/span> for everything and especially for love. You\u2019ll see that sometimes there is a difference between the love you think you want and the one you really need\u2014the difference between temporary and everlasting love.<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-33304\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/PINTEREST-2019-02-20T113810.773-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Se ele fosse a pessoa certa, teria ficado\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/PINTEREST-2019-02-20T113810.773-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/PINTEREST-2019-02-20T113810.773-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/PINTEREST-2019-02-20T113810.773.jpg 467w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>For as long as you can remember, you\u2019ve been someone who believed in love. You\u2019ve been a girl who was looking for real romance and a happy ending in all of your relationships. You were never interested in something temporary and you were never looking for a man just to have a good time. Meaningless&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":33303,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-33301","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/beautiful-beautiful-girl-daytime-1116380.jpg",800,532,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33301","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=33301"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33301\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/33303"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=33301"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=33301"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=33301"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}