{"id":33308,"date":"2019-02-20T12:06:21","date_gmt":"2019-02-20T12:06:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33308"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:53:55","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:53:55","slug":"a-todas-as-raparigas-que-estao-a-sofrer-agora-a-vossa-dor-nao-durara-para-sempre","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-todas-as-raparigas-que-estao-a-sofrer-agora-a-vossa-dor-nao-durara-para-sempre\/","title":{"rendered":"Para todas as raparigas que est\u00e3o a sofrer agora: A tua dor n\u00e3o vai durar para sempre"},"content":{"rendered":"

Eu sei que n\u00e3o \u00e9 f\u00e1cil. Na verdade, \u00e9 bastante dif\u00edcil, mesmo que n\u00e3o o queiras admitir.<\/p>\n

A dor que sente continua a dilacer\u00e1-lo e, por vezes, sente que est\u00e1 prestes a desmoronar-se por dentro.<\/p>\n

O peso esmagador que carregamos no peito sufoca-nos literalmente, faz-nos perder o f\u00f4lego e, por vezes, at\u00e9 nos d\u00e1 vontade de morrer.<\/p>\n

No entanto, todos os que o rodeiam continuam a dizer-lhe que as coisas acabar\u00e3o por melhorar, sem lhe darem quaisquer conselhos sobre a forma de se curar realmente e, ultimamente, tudo isso come\u00e7ou a parecer-lhe uma grande treta.<\/p>\n

They even make you feel like you don\u2019t have the right to have all of those emotions because many people have it worse than you do.<\/p>\n

Well, guess what? Screw other people\u2014the pain you are feeling is yours and no one else\u2019s.<\/p>\n

Consome-O e torna a SUA vida mais dif\u00edcil.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014I am not saying that you shouldn\u2019t be empathetic or that your feelings are the only ones which matter but the truth is the fact that whether someone else is suffering or not doesn\u2019t make things any easier or harder for you.<\/p>\n

A verdade tamb\u00e9m \u00e9 que tem todo o direito de se sentir como se sente.<\/p>\n

A \u00faltima coisa de que precisa \u00e9 que algu\u00e9m o julgue sem ter andado uma milha com os seus sapatos.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o h\u00e1 necessidade de justificar a sua dor a ningu\u00e9m ou de os outros compreenderem as raz\u00f5es por detr\u00e1s dela.<\/p>\n

No entanto, o utilizador shouldn\u2019t let it define you<\/a><\/span> ou. Porque a tua dor n\u00e3o \u00e9 quem tu \u00e9s.<\/p>\n

And because it will go away, even if you don\u2019t believe me now.<\/p>\n

I know you think of all this as bullshit and I know you are fed up with all of these empty phrases and clich\u00e9s but time really does heal all wounds. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Everything goes away sooner or later and before you know it, you\u2019ll become the girl you used to be.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

It sounds impossible, right? Well, once it happens, you\u2019ll see that I was right and that you should have believed in this in time.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t know whether some asshole broke your heart, if your friend betrayed you, if you are going through a family crisis or you just feel depressed and like you can\u2019t take it anymore.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Seja como for, o que lhe posso prometer \u00e9 que, mais cedo ou mais tarde, as coisas acabar\u00e3o por se resolver. Encontrar\u00e1 um homem que ver\u00e1 o seu valor, a sua carreira melhorar\u00e1 e o que quer que a esteja a incomodar ser\u00e1 resolvido.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Basta ter f\u00e9 suficiente em si pr\u00f3prio e f\u00e9 suficiente em Deus para lhe mostrar o caminho.<\/p>\n

Tens de ver como \u00e9s forte e poderoso e que nada do que est\u00e1s a passar neste momento te pode quebrar.<\/p>\n

Afinal de contas, lembra-se de todas as vezes que pensou ter alcan\u00e7ado ponto de rutura<\/a><\/span>.<\/p>\n

Every moment in which you thought there was no way back, every moment in which you felt spiritually dead and every moment in which you were convinced you\u2019d never recover.<\/p>\n

No entanto, tudo isso faz parte do passado, certo? E aqui est\u00e1, uma sobrevivente, mais forte do que nunca.<\/p>\n

Quando pensamos nisso, toda a negatividade e toxicidade por que pass\u00e1mos na vida moldaram-nos para nos tornarmos a pessoa que somos hoje.<\/p>\n

Por isso, \u00e9 \u00f3bvio que tinha de ter algum tipo de objetivo e ponto e que aconteceu por uma raz\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Bem, o mesmo se aplica a tudo aquilo por que est\u00e1 a passar neste momento. Em vez de verem as vossas lutas como maldi\u00e7\u00f5es, v\u00ea-los como b\u00ean\u00e7\u00e3os<\/a><\/span>.<\/p>\n

Encarem-nos como testes \u00e0 vossa for\u00e7a, \u00e0 vossa f\u00e9 e \u00e0 vossa paci\u00eancia.<\/p>\n

You may not see it now but some time in the future, you\u2019ll be grateful for everything you\u2019ve been through, even though it sounds crazy at the moment.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll be thankful for all of your challenges and for all the lessons you\u2019ve learned.<\/p>\n

So please, stop beating yourself up this instant. I can\u2019t ask you to stop hurting because that is something you would have done by now if you could.<\/p>\n

However, what I can ask you is to do your best to take a more optimistic and positive outlook on life. Make sure never to forget that tomorrow is always a new day and that there is light at the end of the tunnel, even when it doesn\u2019t seem that way.\"Para<\/strong><\/em><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I know it\u2019s not easy. Actually, it is pretty damn hard even though you might not want to admit it. The pain you are experiencing keeps tearing you apart and at times you feel like you are about to break down on the inside. The overwhelming weight you carry in your chest literally suffocates you,…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":23,"featured_media":33310,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29631],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-33308","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-getting-over-him"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29631,"label":"getting over him"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/adult-attractive-beautiful-1844212-1.jpg",800,571,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Leah Lee","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/leah\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29631,"name":"getting over him","slug":"getting-over-him","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29631,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","parent":29627,"count":124,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29631,"category_count":124,"category_description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","cat_name":"getting over him","category_nicename":"getting-over-him","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33308","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/23"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=33308"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33308\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/33310"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=33308"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=33308"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=33308"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}