{"id":33352,"date":"2020-02-21T08:50:42","date_gmt":"2020-02-21T08:50:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33352"},"modified":"2022-07-15T07:45:32","modified_gmt":"2022-07-15T07:45:32","slug":"8-coisas-que-gostava-de-poder-perguntar-ao-homem-com-quem-quase-namorei","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/8-coisas-que-gostava-de-poder-perguntar-ao-homem-com-quem-quase-namorei\/","title":{"rendered":"8 coisas que eu gostaria de poder perguntar ao homem com quem quase namorei"},"content":{"rendered":"

Here\u2019s to the man who broke my heart even though nunca namor\u00e1mos<\/a>.<\/span> Ao homem que perturbou a minha vis\u00e3o do amor e que me mudou para sempre.<\/p>\n

Ao homem que perdi apesar de nunca o ter tido. Ao homem que ainda me deve algumas respostas que provavelmente nunca obterei.<\/p>\n

1) Quais eram os teus verdadeiros sentimentos por mim?<\/h2>\n

Depois de todo este tempo, apercebi-me que nunca descobri a verdade sobre os teus sentimentos por mim.<\/p>\n

For a while, I kept deceiving myself that deep down you loved me but were too scared to admit it but now I can\u2019t help but wonder if your feelings for me ever existed.<\/p>\n

Were you just physically attracted to me? Maybe you had some deeper emotions? Or you couldn\u2019t care less about me all along?<\/p>\n

Vendo as coisas desse ponto de vista, o que \u00e9 que sentia por mim? N\u00e3o era mais do que lux\u00faria ou poderias chamar-lhe uma esp\u00e9cie de amor?<\/p>\n

2. Foi tudo uma mentira?<\/h2>\n

Ok, ent\u00e3o este \u00e9 as perguntas mais dif\u00edceis<\/a> mas tenho de perguntar: Alguma coisa disso era verdade? Estaria eu apenas a enganar-me a mim pr\u00f3prio que tu e eu t\u00ednhamos algo?<\/p>\n

Foste honesto quando me contaste os teus segredos e medos mais profundos?<\/p>\n

Foste honesto quando me expuseste o teu lado vulner\u00e1vel?<\/p>\n

Todas as nossas conversas de almofada eram falsas? Todas as tuas mensagens e todas as vezes que me disseste que eu era a \u00fanica pessoa que te compreendia e a \u00fanica em quem podias confiar?<\/p>\n

Foi tudo apenas um ato e uma m\u00e1scara que usaste? Uma maneira de entrar nas minhas cal\u00e7as e no meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o?<\/p>\n

3. Why couldn\u2019t you have been honest from the beginning?<\/h2>\n

One thing I think I\u2019ll never come to terms with is why you couldn\u2019t tell me how things were from the very start.<\/p>\n

Porque \u00e9 que tinhas a necessidade de me dar esperan\u00e7as quando sabias muito bem que isso s\u00f3 me traria mais dor?<\/p>\n

Wouldn\u2019t it have been fairer if you had been straight from the beginning?<\/p>\n

Why couldn\u2019t you have told me that you were looking for something meaningless and temporary instead of leading me on for so long?<\/p>\n

4. Alguma vez pensou em colocar um etiqueta na nossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a><\/span>?<\/h2>\n

Alguma vez te viste a imaginar um futuro comigo? Alguma vez viste n\u00f3s os dois a tornarmo-nos algo maior do que aquele nada que \u00e9ramos?<\/p>\n

Alguma vez planeaste rotular as coisas? Em levar a nossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o para o pr\u00f3ximo n\u00edvel?<\/p>\n

5.Why didn\u2019t you leave the moment you saw I was hooked?<\/h2>\n

Let\u2019s face it\u2014there was no way you didn\u2019t see when I fell for you hard.<\/p>\n

Deves ter reparado que eu estava a come\u00e7ar a gostar de ti e que a nossa quase rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a><\/span> estava lentamente a matar-me espiritualmente.<\/p>\n

So why didn\u2019t you walk away the moment you saw that I wanted more?<\/p>\n

Why couldn\u2019t you have been the bigger person and left me before I went completely crazy over you?<\/p>\n

Porque continuaste a usar o meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o e o amor que sentia por ti?<\/p>\n

Why did you keep on stringing me along when you knew very well that I wouldn\u2019t have the courage to end things?<\/p>\n

6. Why wasn\u2019t I enough to become your girlfriend?<\/h2>\n

Depois de toda a dor que me fizeste passar, acho que a coisa que ainda me magoa mais \u00e9 este sentimento que deixaste em mim de n\u00e3o ser suficiente.<\/p>\n

I can\u2019t help but question my worth and wonder why you couldn\u2019t have loved me enough to make our relationship real.<\/p>\n

Foi algo que eu fiz? Era demasiado carente? N\u00e3o era suficientemente bonita, inteligente ou interessante?<\/p>\n

Did you think that you were out of my league? What was the thing I didn\u2019t have that the woman you can love must have?<\/p>\n

7. Sabes o quanto me magoaste?<\/h2>\n

Sei que tens consci\u00eancia de que me partiste o cora\u00e7\u00e3o, embora provavelmente nunca o admitas.<\/p>\n

No entanto, n\u00e3o tenho a certeza se sabe o qu\u00e3o mau foi.<\/p>\n

Sabes que me esmagaste em milh\u00f5es de peda\u00e7os? Que me danificaste e que vai ser preciso mais do que imaginas para me curar?<\/p>\n

8. Arrepende-se de alguma coisa?<\/h2>\n

Finally, I want to ask you if you feel even a little bit sorry for all that you\u2019ve done. Do you regret hurting me the way you did?<\/p>\n

Lamentas que as coisas n\u00e3o tenham corrido bem entre n\u00f3s?<\/p>\n

Alguma vez acorda a meio da noite, dominado pela culpa? Tem medo de magoar-me vai assombrar-te<\/a> para sempre?<\/p>\n

Or is it that you couldn\u2019t care less?\"8<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Here\u2019s to the man who broke my heart even though we never dated. To the man who disrupted my view of love and who changed me for life. To the man I lost despite never having him. To the man who still owes me some answers I will probably never get. 1.What were your true…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":33353,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29617],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-33352","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-heartbreak"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29617,"label":"heartbreak"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/adult-balcony-beverage-1230665.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29617,"name":"heartbreak","slug":"heartbreak","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29617,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. That's why I've decided to collect different stories of heartbreak - to help everyone going through the same.","parent":38,"count":146,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29617,"category_count":146,"category_description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. That's why I've decided to collect different stories of heartbreak - to help everyone going through the same.","cat_name":"heartbreak","category_nicename":"heartbreak","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33352","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=33352"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33352\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/33353"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=33352"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=33352"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=33352"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}