{"id":33377,"date":"2020-06-21T10:58:02","date_gmt":"2020-06-21T10:58:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33377"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:49:41","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:49:41","slug":"8-microesforcos-que-ele-deve-colocar-na-vossa-relacao-se-for-ele-o-tal","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/8-microesforcos-que-ele-deve-colocar-na-vossa-relacao-se-for-ele-o-tal\/","title":{"rendered":"8 Micro-esfor\u00e7os que ele deve colocar no seu relacionamento se ele for o \u00fanico"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 uma via de dois sentidos e os casais devem fazer esfor\u00e7os iguais um pelo outro. Por vezes, as mulheres esquecem-se disso e v\u00e3o mais al\u00e9m, enquanto os homens d\u00e3o por garantido tudo o que elas fazem.<\/p>\n<p>Estes microesfor\u00e7os est\u00e3o aqui para lembrar aos homens todas as coisas que devem fazer pela sua cara-metade sem pensar muito nisso, para lembrar \u00e0s mulheres que merecem algu\u00e9m que saiba retribuir tudo o que elas est\u00e3o a dar, e que s\u00f3 um homem que se esfor\u00e7a \u00e9 o tal.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>If he is the one, he should&#8230;<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<h2>1. Enviar-lhe uma mensagem de texto primeiro (pelo menos uma vez por dia)<\/h2>\n<p>Devia haver uma regra que dissesse que os casais precisam de ter not\u00edcias um do outro pelo menos duas vezes por dia. No entanto, 3 mensagens por dia seriam perfeitas: bom dia, boa tarde e um <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/25-cute-and-endearing-goodnight-texts-for-him-and-her\/\">texto de boa noite<\/a><\/span> para dormir melhor.<\/p>\n<p>This is especially important for couples who don\u2019t see each other often, so the texts are what gives them that feeling of togetherness.<\/p>\n<p>If he is the one, he will text you first at least once a day because he won\u2019t be able to stand not hearing from you for an entire day. A man who says that\u2019s not true is a liar.<\/p>\n<h2>2. Mostrar afeto sem uma agenda<\/h2>\n<p>Car\u00edcias, beijos, <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/4-coisas-podem-encontrar-abracos-de-homens\/\">abra\u00e7os<\/a> <\/span>often say \u2018I love you\u2019 more strongly than words ever will. They are there to show love, affection, warmth, and even comfort.<\/p>\n<p>So if he hugs you a lot, kisses you every time he is saying goodbye, and cuddles with you often without trying to get into your pants every single time, it\u2019s all a good sign that he is the one and that he has feelings that are stronger than anything he can say aloud.<\/p>\n<h2>3. Ganhar tempo<\/h2>\n<p>This is really a micro-effort even though most men today act like they should get a reward for finding time in their busy schedules. If you are making time for them, they should make time for you. It\u2019s that simple.<\/p>\n<p>So don\u2019t buy into the \u201cI am too busy.\u201d BS excuse. When he is the one for you, he will make time\u2014there is no doubt about it. No matter how busy he is or what he has going on, you will see that he is making an effort to be with you.<\/p>\n<h2>4. Enviar uma mensagem de texto aleat\u00f3ria para lhe lembrar que est\u00e1 a pensar em si e que tem saudades suas<\/h2>\n<p>N\u00e3o estou a dizer que ele deva inundar a sua caixa de entrada com mensagens, mas aquele emoji de beijo a meio do dia ou um texto simples com poucas frases ter\u00e1<span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/5-formas-de-dizer-a-alguem-que-tem-saudades\/\"> Tenho saudades tuas<\/a><\/span> escrito por todo o lado.<\/p>\n<p>This text doesn\u2019t have to arrive every day, but it\u2019s nice if he sends one every now and then just to remind you how special you are. I bet you are doing the same for him.<\/p>\n<h2>5. Preocupar-se com os seus pensamentos e sentimentos<\/h2>\n<p>Most men are not in touch with their feelings like women are, and a lot of things can happen to a woman emotionally that they won\u2019t even detect.<\/p>\n<p>But if he takes the time to ask you how are you or notices that you are behaving differently, that\u2019s exactly the micro-effort you need. It shows that he cares about your wellbeing and that he wants to contribute to making you feel better.<\/p>\n<h2>6. Fazer planos<\/h2>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t have to be all the time, but it\u2019s really nice when a man plans a date regardless if it\u2019s going out or staying home.<\/p>\n<p>It can be something as simple as making you lunch after a hard day\u2019s work, making you a bubble bath or planning a night out full of fun things to do. The important thing is that he tries and that his efforts are visible.<\/p>\n<h2>7. Fazer pequenas coisas com significado<\/h2>\n<p>Aconchegar-se a si quando adormece no sof\u00e1, lembrar-se de algo que lhe disse h\u00e1 algum tempo, fazer-lhe caf\u00e9 de manh\u00e3, at\u00e9 mesmo levar o lixo para fora, s\u00e3o coisas que lhe tomam apenas alguns minutos, mas que far\u00e3o todo o seu dia.<\/p>\n<p>Doing things that he knows will help you and make you feel good is what it is all about. If he is the one, he won\u2019t waste his words in reassuring you that he loves you. He will do these little big things to show you he cares.<\/p>\n<h2>8. Deixar o utilizador satisfeito<\/h2>\n<p>If he is selfish in bed, he will be selfish in every other aspect of the relationship, and that\u2019s just wrong on so many levels.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s why the right one for you should show you the <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/13-signs-you-are-not-just-having-sex-you-are-making-love\/\">diferen\u00e7a entre ter sexo e fazer<\/a><\/span> amor, colocando o seu prazer em primeiro lugar.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-33378\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/PINTEREST-2019-02-21T115431.042-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"8 Micro-esfor\u00e7os que ele deve colocar no seu relacionamento se ele for o \u00fanico\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/PINTEREST-2019-02-21T115431.042-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/PINTEREST-2019-02-21T115431.042-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/PINTEREST-2019-02-21T115431.042.jpg 467w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A relationship is a two-way street, and couples should make equal efforts for each other. Sometimes women forget that and go over and beyond while men take for granted everything that they do. These micro-efforts are here to remind men of all the things that they should do for their significant other without giving it&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":33380,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29615],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-33377","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-soulmate-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29615,"label":"soulmate"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/4k-wallpaper-beautiful-bloom-1263986.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29615,"name":"soulmate","slug":"soulmate-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29615,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Do you believe in twin flames - a person you're meant to have in your life no matter what? 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