{"id":33383,"date":"2020-02-21T11:22:00","date_gmt":"2020-02-21T11:22:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33383"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:11:09","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:11:09","slug":"se-estiveres-a-fazer-estas-7-coisas-estas-a-deixar-que-ele-te-manipule","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/se-estiveres-a-fazer-estas-7-coisas-estas-a-deixar-que-ele-te-manipule\/","title":{"rendered":"Se est\u00e1s a fazer estas 7 coisas, est\u00e1s a deixar que ele te manipule"},"content":{"rendered":"

Continuas a sair com o mesmo tipo de homens<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Quando olhamos para os nossos ex, vemos que quase todos t\u00eam muitas semelhan\u00e7as e o que mais se destaca \u00e9 o seu comportamento idiota.<\/p>\n

Clearly, you are not doing this on purpose. They don\u2019t show their true face until you are already hooked and it\u2019s too late.<\/p>\n

Mas pode haver alguns sinais precoces<\/a> que s\u00e3o m\u00e1s not\u00edcias e que deves ter cuidado com elas. Comece a escolher sabiamente a quem entrega o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

D\u00e1-lhe a sua confian\u00e7a em vez de o deixar merec\u00ea-la<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Why would you believe someone you hardly know? What guarantees do you have that this person won\u2019t double-cross you? You have none.<\/p>\n

Trust is something that people should earn over time. So make sure you don\u2019t rush into things.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s less risky that way and there are fewer chances that someone will play you.<\/p>\n

Queres que ele seja a tua pessoa para sempre e queres muito<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Ser\u00e1 dif\u00edcil para si admitir isto, mas pergunte a si pr\u00f3prio se gosta dessa pessoa ou da ideia que tem dela.<\/p>\n

Talvez esteja t\u00e3o ansiosa por ter uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o de compromisso que espera que ele seja o homem certo para si.<\/p>\n

Apaixona-se facilmente? J\u00e1 houve um par de rapazes que pensou que eram a s\u00e9rio at\u00e9 tudo correr mal?<\/p>\n

Se a resposta for sim, est\u00e1 a deixar que ele o manipule e voc\u00ea est\u00e1 a manipular-se a si pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n

O que acontece \u00e9 que o seu desejo de amar \u00e9 t\u00e3o forte que escolhe ver apenas as partes boas enquanto ignora cegamente as m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

Quando o homem certo estiver presente, n\u00e3o haver\u00e1 necessidade de for\u00e7ar as coisas ou de trabalhar tanto para o manter ao seu lado.<\/p>\n

Remember you can\u2019t hurry love, it has its own time zone and there is nothing any of us can do about it, no matter how exhausted we might be from the wrong guys.<\/p>\n

D\u00e1s-lhe in\u00fameras oportunidades para te desiludir<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Some people are really rare to deserve a second chance and all the rest really don\u2019t. And every chance you give after a second one is one too many.<\/p>\n

The problem is that you don\u2019t even realize that you are giving someone a third, fourth… thirty-sixth chance to play you all over again because you feed yourself with the hope that next time it will all be different.<\/p>\n

Stop doing that ASAP. It won\u2019t be different, it will be only worse. People who betray you, walk out on you and abuse your feelings in any way don\u2019t deserve a spot in your life.<\/p>\n

Preocupas-te mais com ele do que contigo<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Por muito fortes que sejam os nossos sentimentos ou por muito que amemos algu\u00e9m, devemos sempre amar-nos um pouco mais.<\/p>\n

You shouldn\u2019t give parts of yourself to somebody who doesn\u2019t give anything back.<\/p>\n

You shouldn\u2019t allow anybody to disrespect you or treat you lousily just because you love them or you don\u2019t want to be alone.<\/p>\n

That isn’t loving, that\u2019s settling for a life without real love.<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1 a alimentar-se de mentiras<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

\u201cHe is not all that bad,\u201d or, \u201cHe just needs time,\u201d or, \u201cWe shared so many happy memories, I am sure he can be that person again.\u201d<\/p>\n

Se der por si a dizer alguma destas frases ou outras semelhantes, est\u00e1 a permitir que ele a manipule.<\/p>\n

He can\u2019t live on past glory, he has to be good to you right now. He has to care for you and treat you right now, not tomorrow, not in a few months or years.<\/p>\n

Deixe de arranjar desculpas para ele e reconhe\u00e7a que merece muito mais do que ele.<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1 a ignorar a sua intui\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

You know deep down that he is wrong for you, you feel that something is out of place and that he isn\u2019t being truthful.<\/p>\n

Em vez de confiar na sua intui\u00e7\u00e3o, continua a silenci\u00e1-la porque se sente atra\u00edda por ele e espera estar enganada.<\/p>\n

You are not wrong; if something smells bad, it\u2019s bad, there is no doubt about it. Learn to listen to your instincts as they are hardly ever wrong.<\/p>\n

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