{"id":33438,"date":"2020-04-22T08:36:21","date_gmt":"2020-04-22T08:36:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33438"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:49:21","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:49:21","slug":"as-7-principais-coisas-que-os-homens-fazem-para-destruir-o-seu-casamento","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/as-7-principais-coisas-que-os-homens-fazem-para-destruir-o-seu-casamento\/","title":{"rendered":"As 7 principais coisas que os homens fazem para destruir o seu casamento"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>\u201cGreat marriages don\u2019t happen by luck or by accident. They are the result of a consistent investment of time, thoughtfulness, forgiveness, affection, prayer, mutual respect and rock-solid commitment between a husband and wife.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Em suma, o casamento \u00e9 uma bela montanha russa onde duas pessoas lutam constantemente para manter viva a sua chama.<\/p>\n<p>You never know what will happen next and that\u2019s the beauty of it and at the same time, it\u2019s a curse (especially if your partner is not as committed to maintaining your love as you are).<\/p>\n<p>Por falar nisso, h\u00e1 algumas coisas que s\u00e3o as principais respons\u00e1veis pela destrui\u00e7\u00e3o de um casamento e os homens s\u00e3o, na sua maioria, os culpados.<\/p>\n<p>H\u00e1 coisas que um homem faz que destroem o seu casamento de forma irrepar\u00e1vel, porque se esquece que escolheu estar ao lado da sua companheira nos bons e nos maus momentos.<\/p>\n<p>He destroys his marriage by forgetting to make sacrifices and putting his woman\u2019s happiness before his own.<\/p>\n<p>Ele continua a concentrar-se em si pr\u00f3prio, esquecendo-se assim de que a chave de qualquer casamento bem sucedido est\u00e1 no dar e receber m\u00fatuos!<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><em><strong>As 7 principais coisas que os homens fazem para destruir o seu casamento<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Not caring about your woman\u2019s feelings<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-83419\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/annoyed-man-standing-with-woman.jpg\" alt=\"homem irritado de p\u00e9 com uma mulher\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/annoyed-man-standing-with-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/annoyed-man-standing-with-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/annoyed-man-standing-with-woman-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>As mulheres s\u00e3o, por natureza, mais emotivas e a sua mente \u00e9 mais complexa e \u00e9 por isso que reparam sempre at\u00e9 nos mais pequenos pormenores.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re constantly looking at other women, they will notice it but in most cases, they will not tell you that they saw you looking, which doesn\u2019t mean that they are not hurt inside.<\/p>\n<p>Por isso, fazer constantemente coisas que fazem a sua mulher sentir-se desconfort\u00e1vel \u00e9 o principal destruidor do casamento.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00e3o se importar com o que a sua mulher sente \u00e9 o mesmo que n\u00e3o se importar com ela.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">N\u00e3o fazer um esfor\u00e7o para que a sua mulher se sinta especial<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-83420\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/unhappy-couple-walking-in-the-park.jpg\" alt=\"casal infeliz a passear no parque\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/unhappy-couple-walking-in-the-park.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/unhappy-couple-walking-in-the-park-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/unhappy-couple-walking-in-the-park-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Os gestos simples significam muito para qualquer mulher, especialmente num casamento.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re constantly neglecting her happiness by not giving her enough attention, you are deliberately destroying your marriage.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re not showing your affection with simple gestures like making coffee or tea for her, taking her flowers, or texting her \u2018 <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/130-i-love-you-quotes-for-him-and-her\/\">Eu amo-te<\/a> \u2019, you are deliberately extinguishing the flame of your love by not making an effort to make her feel special.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re never there when she needs you, you are letting her know that you don\u2019t care if she feels lonely.<\/p>\n<p>And if you never ask yourself if you\u2019re doing something wrong, you are not giving a damn about your marriage.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">N\u00e3o a deixar fazer parte da sua vida<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-83421\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/couple-typing-on-phone-separately.jpg\" alt=\"casal a escrever no telem\u00f3vel separadamente\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/couple-typing-on-phone-separately.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/couple-typing-on-phone-separately-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/couple-typing-on-phone-separately-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If your woman asks you where you have been or about your new hobby, don\u2019t just say to her, <em>\u201cI don\u2019t have time for this now,\u201d<\/em> porque isso f\u00e1-la-\u00e1 sentir-se triste e indesejada.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00e3o a deixar fazer parte da sua vida acabar\u00e1 por destruir o seu casamento.<\/p>\n<p>If she asks you what is bothering you or why you are pissed off, don\u2019t just stay silent because your woman wants to help you and be there for you.<\/p>\n<p>Not giving her an opportunity to show you how much she cares will make her feel alone in the marriage and it will destroy everything you\u2019ve built so far.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">N\u00e3o assumir a responsabilidade pelos seus actos ou ser um homem a s\u00e9rio<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-83422\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/couple-arguing-in-restaurant.jpg\" alt=\"casal a discutir num restaurante\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/couple-arguing-in-restaurant.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/couple-arguing-in-restaurant-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/couple-arguing-in-restaurant-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Como j\u00e1 foi dito, o casamento tem a ver com altos e baixos, lutas constantes, alegria e tristeza, dar, receber e perdoar.<\/p>\n<p>You will always make mistakes (minor or major ones) which is totally normal when you\u2019re married but not taking responsibility for them is not normal.<\/p>\n<p>Os homens cometem um grande erro quando decidem n\u00e3o se importar com as suas ac\u00e7\u00f5es e consequ\u00eancias.<\/p>\n<p>Os homens destroem o seu casamento por n\u00e3o serem <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/os-homens-de-verdade-amam-nos-com-as-accoes-mais-reais-e-nao-com-as-palavras-mais-falsas\/\">homens de verdade<\/a> who will admit that they made a mistake and they won\u2019t try hard to make it right.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Dar-lhe o tratamento do sil\u00eancio<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-83423\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/unhappy-couple-sitting-in-silence.jpg\" alt=\"casal infeliz sentado em sil\u00eancio\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/unhappy-couple-sitting-in-silence.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/unhappy-couple-sitting-in-silence-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/unhappy-couple-sitting-in-silence-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The worst thing you can do after a fight is to stay distant and give your partner the silent treatment and that\u2019s exactly what many men out there are doing.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00e3o ser emocionalmente maduro \u00e9 a maior predisposi\u00e7\u00e3o para destruir o seu casamento.<\/p>\n<p>Ambos os parceiros devem estar sempre dispostos a conversar um com o outro e a falar sobre todos os problemas que possam ter.<\/p>\n<p>A \u00faltima coisa que deve fazer \u00e9 ignorar o seu parceiro, porque ignor\u00e1-lo \u00e9 o assassino silencioso de todos os casamentos.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Taking away your woman\u2019s freedom by being pushy and judgmental<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-83424\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/man-yelling-at-crying-woman.jpg\" alt=\"homem a gritar com mulher a chorar\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/man-yelling-at-crying-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/man-yelling-at-crying-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/man-yelling-at-crying-woman-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Women are, by nature, sensitive and fragile beings and if they sense that someone is taking away their freedom, they will feel entrapped and there\u2019s no worse feeling than that.<\/p>\n<p>Most men forget that their woman is able to make choices for herself and she doesn\u2019t need to constantly be directed.<\/p>\n<p>Taking away your woman\u2019s freedom by being pushy and judgmental will destroy your marriage and your woman\u2019s security.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Nunca pedir desculpa<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-83425\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/young-sad-couple-sitting-on-the-couch.jpg\" alt=\"jovem casal triste sentado no sof\u00e1\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/young-sad-couple-sitting-on-the-couch.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/young-sad-couple-sitting-on-the-couch-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/young-sad-couple-sitting-on-the-couch-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Apologizing means saying that you\u2019re sorry for what you\u2019ve done to your woman and that you will never repeat that again, whereas not apologizing means not giving a damn about what she will think.<\/p>\n<p>Os homens que nunca pedem desculpa pelas suas asneiras fazem com que a sua mulher se sinta menos digna.<\/p>\n<p>Os homens que nunca pedem desculpa pelas suas asneiras est\u00e3o a destruir o seu casamento voluntariamente.<\/p>\n<p>If you want to preserve the love and save your marriage, don\u2019t treat your woman like something replaceable.<\/p>\n<p>Treat her like the delicate flower she is, shower her with affection and don\u2019t forget to remind her of her true beauty.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-83417\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/The-Top-7-Things-Men-Do-That-Destroy-Their-Marriage-pinterest-2.jpg\" alt=\"As 7 principais coisas que os homens fazem para destruir o seu casamento\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/The-Top-7-Things-Men-Do-That-Destroy-Their-Marriage-pinterest-2.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/The-Top-7-Things-Men-Do-That-Destroy-Their-Marriage-pinterest-2-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-83416\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/The-Top-7-Things-Men-Do-That-Destroy-Their-Marriage-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"As 7 principais coisas que os homens fazem para destruir o seu casamento\" width=\"735\" height=\"1102\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/The-Top-7-Things-Men-Do-That-Destroy-Their-Marriage-pinterest.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/The-Top-7-Things-Men-Do-That-Destroy-Their-Marriage-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/The-Top-7-Things-Men-Do-That-Destroy-Their-Marriage-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 735px) 100vw, 735px\" 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They are the result of a consistent investment of time, thoughtfulness, forgiveness, affection, prayer, mutual respect and rock-solid commitment between a husband and wife.\u201d Summarized, marriage is a beautiful roller coaster where two people are constantly fighting to keep alive its flame. You never know what&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":83426,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29623],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-33438","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-marriage"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29623,"label":"marriage"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/The-Top-7-Things-Men-Do-That-Destroy-Their-Marriage.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29623,"name":"marriage","slug":"marriage","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29623,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Establishing a happy marriage is not an easy task. 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