{"id":33447,"date":"2020-06-22T08:51:17","date_gmt":"2020-06-22T08:51:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33447"},"modified":"2022-02-26T11:03:29","modified_gmt":"2022-02-26T11:03:29","slug":"parar-de-lutar-por-um-homem-que-desistiu-de-si-ha-muito-tempo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/parar-de-lutar-por-um-homem-que-desistiu-de-si-ha-muito-tempo\/","title":{"rendered":"Pare de lutar por um homem que desistiu de voc\u00ea h\u00e1 muito tempo"},"content":{"rendered":"

You’re constantly checking your phone in the hope that he will call, even though you know he won’t.<\/p>\n

You’re constantly wondering what he’s doing, even though you know he doesn’t give a damn about what you’re doing.<\/p>\n

You’re constantly fighting to preserve what’s left of your love, even though you know that he gave up fighting a long time ago.<\/p>\n

Don’t do that. Stop fighting for those who don’t bother fighting for you! Stop fighting for those who are okay with perder-te<\/a><\/span>!<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

I know it\u2019s not that easy to forget all of the beautiful moments you had together, holding each other\u2019s hands before falling asleep, kissing passionately, laughing until your stomach started to really hurt, taking care of each other\u2026 but all these moments are not enough for you to keep fighting.<\/p>\n

Deixem de lutar pelos vossos momentos passados, abram os olhos e vejam a verdade.<\/p>\n

Ask yourself if he\u2019s that same man who used to hold your hand when you felt sad.<\/p>\n

Is he that same man who used to hold you in his arms, reassuring you that he\u2019d never give up on fighting for your love?<\/p>\n

If not, do not bother fighting for him because you\u2019re not fighting for him\u2014you\u2019re fighting for the memory of him.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o se preocupe em reviver velhos momentos de felicidade porque deve viver o presente!<\/p>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

Stop focusing on the happiness of those who don\u2019t care about yours. Stop letting them know that you\u2019ll always be there no matter what. Stop making them your priority when all this time they have treated you like an option!<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

You are not the one who is responsible for their happiness. You should never fight for someone who doesn\u2019t know how to reciprocate.<\/p>\n

Pare de lutar por um amor med\u00edocre quando deveria estar a desfrutar do tipo que o inspira e enche o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o de alegria em vez de dor.<\/p>\n

Pare de se torturar com os \"se\" e de pensar que, se continuasse a ser boa para ele e se continuasse a ser persistente para salvar o que restava do vosso amor, ele poderia ter mudado de ideias e come\u00e7ado a retribuir.<\/p>\n

No, he wouldn\u2019t have and you know it!<\/p>\n

No momento em que ele decidiu n\u00e3o se importar com os seus sentimentos e desejos, ele decidiu deliberadamente deixar de lutar por si.<\/p>\n

And why would you fight for him? Why would you keep making excuses for his behavior when you know he\u2019s doing it on purpose?<\/p>\n

Deixar de lutar por um homem<\/a> who doesn\u2019t know how to love. Stop fighting for a man who was never yours and who never will be!<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Queres ficar para sempre no limbo de amor n\u00e3o correspondido<\/a><\/span>, desejos negligenciados e ego\u00edsmo?<\/p>\n

Do you want to fight forever for something you\u2019ll never have? Of course you don\u2019t!<\/p>\n

\"Fotografia<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t want to and you definitely shouldn\u2019t because life is too short to waste your time waiting for those who are not willing to make an effort to change.<\/p>\n

A vida \u00e9 demasiado curta para desperdi\u00e7ar o seu tempo a pensar constantemente no passado e a recear o futuro.<\/p>\n

Pare de se torturar a si pr\u00f3prio e ao seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o com amor t\u00f3xico e concentre-se no que o faz feliz.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Do you want a strong, beautiful love that is reciprocal? Then don\u2019t fight for a weak one.<\/p>\n

Queres algu\u00e9m que esteja sempre l\u00e1 para ti e que nunca te fa\u00e7a duvidar das suas inten\u00e7\u00f5es?<\/p>\n

Then don\u2019t fight for the one who is never here.<\/p>\n

\u2018You reap what you sow\u2019. If you invest all of yourself in a man who is not ready to do the same for you, you will end up broken. If you keep fighting for a man who is making you feel unworthy, sad, and disappointed, you will never find your inner peace or happiness.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Mas se te perdoares por cada l\u00e1grima, por cada segundo de solid\u00e3o, pela tua dor e decidires parar de lutar por um homem que te estava a fazer tudo isto, vais come\u00e7ar a mudar!<\/p>\n

Quando decidires come\u00e7ar a lutar pelo teu sorriso, pela alegria e por um cora\u00e7\u00e3o cheio de amor puro, encontrar\u00e1s a tua felicidade.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not saying it will be easy. It won\u2019t but you will make it.<\/p>\n

Vai conseguir, porque \u00e9 preciso uma mulher forte para decidir continuar a lutar por um homem que a est\u00e1 a destruir por dentro e por fora.<\/p>\n

You will make it because it takes a brave heart to keep loving a man who was not ready to do the same. You will make it because you\u2019re a fighter.\"Pare<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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