{"id":33481,"date":"2020-02-25T08:27:15","date_gmt":"2020-02-25T08:27:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33481"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:53:47","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:53:47","slug":"5-truques-para-o-levar-a-comprometer-se-e-5-coisas-que-o-vao-assustar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-truques-para-o-levar-a-comprometer-se-e-5-coisas-que-o-vao-assustar\/","title":{"rendered":"5 truques para o convencer a comprometer-se (e 5 coisas que o v\u00e3o assustar)"},"content":{"rendered":"

Compromisso. Que palavra t\u00e3o grande e assustadora.<\/p>\n

Conseguir que um homem se comprometa \u00e9 provavelmente o objetivo final de todas as mulheres, para que ele se estabele\u00e7a numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o para o resto da sua vida.<\/p>\n

Actually, there is nothing scary about commitment. Anyone can commit. It\u2019s not a matter of possibility. It\u2019s a matter of choice.<\/p>\n

Por isso, da pr\u00f3xima vez que algu\u00e9m tentar persuadi-lo de que n\u00e3o \u00e9 capaz de se comprometer, lembre-se que isso \u00e9 uma grande treta!<\/p>\n

O empenhamento \u00e9 uma quest\u00e3o de escolha pessoal.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s a matter of trusting someone and putting yourself and your future happiness into someone else\u2019s hands.<\/p>\n

E n\u00e3o s\u00f3 para si, mas tamb\u00e9m para a outra parte.<\/p>\n

Okay now, I know I\u2019ve said commitment is a matter of personal choice, but that doesn\u2019t mean that you can\u2019t influence someone\u2019s personal choice – not manipulate, but guide a person to do what they\u2019ve probably already wanted but for some reason didn\u2019t do.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s completely logical really.<\/p>\n

Pelo lado positivo, ao ouvir os conselhos sobre como conseguir que ele se comprometa e o que n\u00e3o fazer<\/em>, transformar-se-\u00e1 numa pessoa melhor e mais atenciosa.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll pay attention to your actions and how they affect others. Let\u2019s say this is definitely a win-win situation.<\/p>\n

COMPROMISSO: D\u00e1-lhe cabo da cabe\u00e7a<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Tens de te esfor\u00e7ar muito para o impressionar. Tens de dar o teu melhor.<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s face it, if he\u2019s not impressed, he won\u2019t commit to you, and frankly, why should he?<\/p>\n

You really have to show him that you\u2019re special, that you\u2019re not like every other girl.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m sure you won\u2019t have any problems with that if you really care about him.<\/p>\n

SCARE AWAY: You\u2019re suffocating him<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Tentar impression\u00e1-lo \u00e9 uma coisa, mas estar sempre em cima dele \u00e9 outra completamente diferente.<\/p>\n

H\u00e1 que saber onde tra\u00e7ar o limite. \u00c9 preciso saber at\u00e9 que ponto a aten\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 suficiente para o manter interessado e n\u00e3o o afugentar.<\/p>\n

His personal space means everything to him as it does to any man\u2014actually to all of us.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s essential we retreat to our safe places and spend some time away from everyone.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re all over the place trying to impress him, it\u2019s very possible that you\u2019ll achieve exactly the opposite.<\/p>\n

Tente manter um equil\u00edbrio entre n\u00e3o o assustar e dar-lhe algum espa\u00e7o para respirar.<\/p>\n

COMPROMISSO: Manter as coisas divertidas<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t make things too serious too soon. Avoid talking about serious stuff because you\u2019re not at that stage of the relationship yet.<\/p>\n

Everything happens when it\u2019s time for it to happen.<\/p>\n

So, for starters, show him that you\u2019re fun to be around.<\/p>\n

That way, he won\u2019t think twice about coming to you when he wants to relax and have fun.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be that girl who brings stress and drama in a relationship\u2014no one likes that.<\/p>\n

MEDO DE MEDO: Chatea\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

It\u2019s never a good idea to start nagging about everything he does wrong, but it\u2019s especially a bad idea when you do it at the beginning of your relationship.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re bothered by something he does, wait for your relationship to get to a more serious level, and then talk about it like two mature adults.<\/p>\n

If you mention it too early, you might get him to change, but that will just be temporary. Later on, he\u2019ll probably resent you for that.<\/p>\n

COMPROMISSO: Prestar aten\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0s outras pessoas na sua vida<\/h2>\n

\"amigos<\/p>\n

Se ele se aperceber de que as pessoas de quem gosta gostam de si, vai certamente pensar em fazer o mesmo.<\/p>\n

As pessoas que o rodeiam ir\u00e3o afect\u00e1-lo positivamente, falando bem de si e dizendo que \u00e9 uma pessoa fant\u00e1stica em geral.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re good for his family and friends, he\u2019ll realize you\u2019re good for him, too.<\/p>\n

MEDO: Ser mal-educado com os outros<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

He\u2019s not an idiot, and he is well aware of how you\u2019re acting to people around you.<\/p>\n

If your behavior changes when you\u2019re talking to someone other than him, he\u2019ll notice it and take it as a huge red sign.<\/p>\n

Naturally, you can\u2019t change who you really are. So, if by any chance you are a jerk to others, good luck to you.<\/p>\n

But, if you\u2019re on the edge and you can control yourself, I suggest you do it\u2014not just for his sake but for your own as well.<\/p>\n

COMMIT: Don\u2019t be too available<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be at his disposal. Don\u2019t come running every time he calls you because he\u2019ll get the impression he can do whatever he wants with you.<\/p>\n

So, play a bit hard to get, but don\u2019t overdo it either or he might lose interest in you completely.<\/p>\n

Also, by not being too available, you\u2019re giving extra value to the time he gets to spend with you.<\/p>\n

In time, he\u2019ll only want more of you. Let him figure it out by himself.<\/p>\n

MEDO: Fazer suposi\u00e7\u00f5es<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t make any premature decisions, especially if you\u2019re still not that close with that person.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t make assumptions that the two of you speak the same language and that he has the same mindset as you do.<\/p>\n

Nor assume that he doesn\u2019t like you and wants to call things off. Wait to get to know him a bit better, and then assume all you want.<\/p>\n

COMMIT: Don\u2019t force commitment<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Even if commitment means a lot to you, act like it\u2019s not such a big deal.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t throw the idea of committing in his face because you might get a completely different outcome than you hoped for.<\/p>\n

The thing is, men don\u2019t like to be told what to do.<\/p>\n

Chances are if they get the impression that you\u2019re telling them what to do, they are definitely going to do something completely different just so things don\u2019t end up your way.<\/p>\n

ASSUSTAR: Fazer com que ele aceite o seu comportamento de alta manuten\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

You\u2019re manuten\u00e7\u00e3o elevada<\/a> and that\u2019s okay, but don\u2019t expect him to support your behavior.<\/p>\n

Se quer coisas bonitas e tem um padr\u00e3o que deve manter, certifique-se de que cuida dele sozinho.<\/p>\n

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Commitment. What a big and scary word. Getting a man to commit is probably the final goal of every woman, to get him settled down in a relationship for the rest of his life. Actually, there is nothing scary about commitment. Anyone can commit. It\u2019s not a matter of possibility. It\u2019s a matter of choice….<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":84145,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-33481","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/romantic-couple-standing-in-the-field.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","parent":29643,"count":442,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29648,"category_count":442,"category_description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","cat_name":"dating tips","category_nicename":"dating-tips","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33481","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=33481"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33481\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/84145"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=33481"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=33481"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=33481"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}