{"id":33584,"date":"2019-02-26T09:08:53","date_gmt":"2019-02-26T09:08:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33584"},"modified":"2022-01-24T21:46:47","modified_gmt":"2022-01-24T21:46:47","slug":"o-seu-amo-te-nao-significa-nada-se-ele-se-recusar-a-comprometer-se","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/o-seu-amo-te-nao-significa-nada-se-ele-se-recusar-a-comprometer-se\/","title":{"rendered":"O seu \"eu te amo\" n\u00e3o significa nada se ele se recusa a comprometer-se"},"content":{"rendered":"

Sei que est\u00e1s sempre a ouvir este tipo dizer o quanto gosta de ti.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You keep listening to him swearing his love for you and to him telling you that he couldn\u2019t imagine living his life without you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Nevertheless, you can\u2019t help but notice that these are just empty words.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

This man keeps telling you how much he loves you but you don\u2019t see or feel that love because his words don\u2019t match his actions.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

No matter how hard you try not to see it, you can\u2019t avoid but notice the painful truth\u2014this man isn\u2019t fully committed<\/a>.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

He isn\u2019t putting in the effort you need and he isn\u2019t completely dedicated to your relationship.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

H\u00e1 alturas em que ele age como se voc\u00eas os dois n\u00e3o passassem de uma tempor\u00e1rio<\/a> e momentos em que ele a trata como uma segunda op\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

No matter how much you try to fight it, deep down you feel that this man doesn\u2019t love you wholeheartedly and that he hasn\u2019t invested his entire self to your relationship.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Apesar de saberes tudo isto, nunca tiveste coragem de o confrontar.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Apesar de ter consci\u00eancia de que se est\u00e1 a contentar com menos, nunca teve a coragem de se afastar e de deixar este homem no passado, simplesmente porque quer acreditar nas suas palavras em vez das suas ac\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Sempre que tentas acabar com as coisas, as suas doces palavras fazem-te mudar de ideias numa fra\u00e7\u00e3o de segundo.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

\u00c9 \u00f3bvio que ele sabe exatamente o que voc\u00ea precisa de ouvir e que est\u00e1 a usar isso contra si.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Ent\u00e3o, antes que se aperceba, em vez de terminar as coisas, d\u00e1 por si a dar-lhe apenas mais uma oportunidade de melhorar as coisas, apenas mais uma oportunidade de se tornar o homem que precisa que ele seja e apenas mais uma oportunidade de apoiar as suas palavras.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Nevertheless, this isn\u2019t happening.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Instead, he keeps on being the same guy who doesn\u2019t want to label things, the same selfish asshole who doesn\u2019t put you first and the same guy whose behavior keeps on breaking your heart.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Well, I have to tell you the harsh truth you keep running away from\u2014he doesn\u2019t love you enough<\/a>nunca o fez e nunca o far\u00e1.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Sure, hearing, \u201cI love you,\u201d is amazing but these three magical words don\u2019t actually mean anything if they are not backed up with actions. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

I love you doesn\u2019t mean a thing coming from a man who doesn\u2019t treat you according to those words.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Lembra-te de uma coisa: um homem que te ama far\u00e1 com que sintas sempre esse amor.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

He won\u2019t make you question it, he\u2019ll never make you doubt him and he\u2019ll never make you beg for his attention.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

A man who truly loves you won\u2019t have trouble committing to you. He\u2019ll be more than happy to make you his priority and to call you his girlfriend.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

This man will act like your true partner in crime because he\u2019ll know that loyalty is much more than fidelity.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

He\u2019ll be your best friend, your lover and your biggest support.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

And the best part is that when he tells you he loves you, you\u2019ll know that he means it for real.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

No entanto, nenhuma destas coisas descreve o homem com quem est\u00e1 envolvida, pois n\u00e3o? Ent\u00e3o, do que \u00e9 que est\u00e1 \u00e0 espera para o deixar?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

How long do you plan on believing his, \u201c<\/strong>Amo-te<\/strong><\/a>\u201d? How long do you plan on buying his lies and empty promises? <\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Quanto tempo mais tencionam perder, esperando pacientemente que ele comece a agir de acordo com as suas palavras?<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Quando \u00e9 que tenciona abrir os olhos e ver a verdade? Quando tenciona deixar de se contentar com menos do que merece?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n


I know all of this is easier said than done but trust me\u2014you have the strength to take this step, even if you don\u2019t see it now.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

\u00c9 a \u00fanica maneira de abrir o caminho para o homem que merece entrar na sua vida.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

And even if this special guy doesn\u2019t come along soon enough, being single always beats being with someone who doesn\u2019t honestly love you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

\"O<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

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I know you keep hearing this guy tell you how much he cares about you. You keep listening to him swearing his love for you and to him telling you that he couldn\u2019t imagine living his life without you. Nevertheless, you can\u2019t help but notice that these are just empty words. This man keeps telling…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":33585,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-33584","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/girl-1026246_1920-1.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33584","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=33584"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33584\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/33585"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=33584"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=33584"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=33584"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}