{"id":33692,"date":"2019-03-04T11:44:36","date_gmt":"2019-03-04T11:44:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33692"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:45:50","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:45:50","slug":"quando-e-que-deve-levar-a-sua-relacao-para-o-nivel-seguinte","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/quando-e-que-deve-levar-a-sua-relacao-para-o-nivel-seguinte\/","title":{"rendered":"Quando \u00e9 que deve levar a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o para o n\u00edvel seguinte?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>When should you consider taking your relationship to the next level?  This is an important question that will inevitably come up after you\u2019ve been with someone for a while and things are going really well.  You might be thinking <b>ele pode ser o tal,<\/b> e os seus amigos e familiares est\u00e3o desejosos de o conhecer.  Est\u00e3o sempre a chatear-vos para marcarem uma apresenta\u00e7\u00e3o. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So, when should you take him home to meet your family or take him out to meet your trusted circle of friends?  When are you really ready?  The answer is\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><b>Depende.<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sure, it\u2019s a vague, but true.  Every relationship is different, and everyone has a different comfort level.  Trust your intuition first and foremost to understand when you are ready.  You might be three weeks into this thing, and your heart feels as if you should be broadcasting this to the world.  Three months might have already flown by, and something still seems off, so you\u2019re taking your time and trying to figure out next steps.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><b>Todos n\u00f3s tamb\u00e9m temos um passado complicado, e alguns s\u00e3o mais complicados do que outros. <\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you have had your heart broken before, you could be more reluctant to push this one forward.  You may need a little more time.  Or if you\u2019ve ever been partnered with someone abusive, you may be reluctant to dive right in.  <b>There\u2019s nothing wrong with this.<\/b>  Na verdade, se algu\u00e9m o est\u00e1 a pressionar para assumir um compromisso e se se sente desconfort\u00e1vel com a velocidade a que as coisas est\u00e3o a progredir, isso \u00e9 um grande sinal de alerta. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But, it\u2019s also important to remember that we\u2019ll never have all of the answers, and just because the last partnership went one way doesn\u2019t mean this one will.  Everyone is different and you shouldn\u2019t compare an old connection with one that\u2019s new \u2013 especially if the previous partnership didn\u2019t end well.  Worrying that this one will take the same path will only cause negative energy to fester.  Like attracts like \u2013 emit positivity and you\u2019ll get it back, emit negativity and\u2026well, you understand.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>While you may be bringing your same self to the table \u2013 you know you\u2019re genuine and aren\u2019t willing to be put on a fa\u00e7ade \u2013 being with someone new will present with new exciting experiences as well as new challenges.  There are likely to be some predictable patterns, but there will also be something unfamiliar thrown into the mix from time to time.  So, if it took only a few days to bring your last beau home, it doesn\u2019t mean this new relationship should follow suit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sure, it can be tough when loved ones have seen you go through a bad experience, and they are pushing to meet the new flame because they want to extend their approval \u2013 or not.  While there is nothing wrong, of course, with valuing the input of those who know you best, you have to learn to trust yourself first.  It\u2019s endearing that your friends and family are being protective and are determined to make sure you aren\u2019t hurt again, but this strategy also has a tendency to backfire. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Por isso, certifique-se de que est\u00e1 confort\u00e1vel com a forma como as coisas est\u00e3o a correr e de que se sente \u00e0 vontade para partilhar a sua nova chama com o resto do mundo antes de marcar um encontro inicial.  S\u00f3 tu saber\u00e1s quando \u00e9 a altura certa para respirar fundo e come\u00e7ar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><b>Remember, it\u2019s okay to <em>n\u00e3o<\/em> tamb\u00e9m querem levar uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o para o n\u00edvel seguinte. <\/b><br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Recognize your own emotional cues \u2013 thoughts, feelings, intended or unintended body language, and mannerisms that are all too familiar \u2013 and recognize when they are trying to tell you enough is enough.  If there is something that was said or done that didn\u2019t feel right, don\u2019t second-guess your own judgment. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><b>Sometimes you may not be able to put your finger on it, but something just feels off \u2013 if it doesn\u2019t <\/b><b><em>parecer <\/em><\/b><b>right, it\u2019s not.<\/b><br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We don\u2019t have to have all of the answers to have an answer to this question.  If you feel it\u2019s right to take your relationship to the next level, whatever that may be, go for it.  If there is something nagging inside that says to hold off, do.  If there\u2019s something telling you to run, run and never look back.  <b>Confie em si pr\u00f3prio em primeiro lugar, e tudo o resto se encaixar\u00e1.<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/When-Should-You-Take-Your-Relationship-To-The-Next-Level_-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Quando \u00e9 que deve levar a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o para o n\u00edvel seguinte?\" class=\"wp-image-33722\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/When-Should-You-Take-Your-Relationship-To-The-Next-Level_-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/When-Should-You-Take-Your-Relationship-To-The-Next-Level_-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/When-Should-You-Take-Your-Relationship-To-The-Next-Level_.jpg 467w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When should you consider taking your relationship to the next level? This is an important question that will inevitably come up after you\u2019ve been with someone for a while and things are going really well. You might be thinking he could be the one, and your friends and family are dying to meet him. 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