{"id":33712,"date":"2019-03-04T09:16:04","date_gmt":"2019-03-04T09:16:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33712"},"modified":"2022-01-24T22:19:16","modified_gmt":"2022-01-24T22:19:16","slug":"e-por-isso-que-os-narcisistas-e-os-psicopatas-se-agarram-a-nos-depois-de-uma-separacao","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/e-por-isso-que-os-narcisistas-e-os-psicopatas-se-agarram-a-nos-depois-de-uma-separacao\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c9 por isso que os narcisistas e os psicopatas se agarram a ti depois de uma separa\u00e7\u00e3o"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Hoje em dia, manter a amizade com um ex j\u00e1 n\u00e3o \u00e9 um tabu.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It\u2019s a scenario that is completely plausible to occur after a break-up and more and more people gravitate toward keeping their exes within arm\u2019s reach.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">As raz\u00f5es para tal s\u00e3o in\u00fameras.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sometimes, you just can\u2019t let go completely, so it\u2019s easier having them in your life in any capacity.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And sometimes, you want to remain a part of their world to see how they\u2019re doing post-break-up and who they are spending their time with.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Your reasons are probably totally harmless and with no ulterior motive, while his could very well be the complete opposite\u2026<\/em><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em>Tem sido amplamente divulgado que os indiv\u00edduos que tendem a agarrar-se aos seus ex-parceiros muito depois da separa\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00eam tend\u00eancias narcisistas e psicop\u00e1ticas.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Os narcisistas e os psicopatas podem ser identificados com relativa facilidade pelo seu sentido inflacionado de si pr\u00f3prios e pelo seu ego bomb\u00e1stico.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">S\u00e3o eles <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/e-por-isso-que-nunca-se-deve-apaixonar-por-um-falinhas-mansas\/\">falinhas mansas<\/a> com pouca ou nenhuma capacidade de sentir, imitando o ambiente que os rodeia para se adaptarem e encontrarem as presas que consideram mais f\u00e1ceis de manipular e quebrar.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When in a relationship, they have this capacity to make you feel like a worthless piece of shit and make everything seem like it\u2019s your fault.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Encantam-nos, desarmam-nos e conquistam-nos, para depois nos quebrarem completamente, peda\u00e7o a peda\u00e7o, at\u00e9 que toda a nossa auto-confian\u00e7a e f\u00e9 se tenham desvanecido.<\/em><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Eles precisam de estar numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o para que o seu ego cres\u00e7a e para terem algo de que se alimentar.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You are their lifeline and they\u2019re not just going to let go. Not by a mile.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If you\u2019ve ever been involved with such a disturbing individual, you are probably finding yourself in this and wondering how the hell you let them play you for a fool.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Don\u2019t. This is their specialty. This is what they do.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It\u2019s more often than not done to complete perfection and until they\u2019ve used you in all the ways they needed and fuelled their ego, no one\u2019s the wiser.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But the most disturbing thing about this is their unwillingness to leave you alone even after you\u2019ve found your way out.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">De alguma forma, parecem sempre agarrar-se a n\u00f3s a partir de uma dist\u00e2ncia segura, tentando voltar a entrar e derrubando as nossas barreiras uma a uma.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em>Os narcisistas e os psicopatas s\u00e3o indiv\u00edduos que n\u00e3o t\u00eam empatia, s\u00e3o ego\u00edstas, ego\u00edstas, manipuladores e extremamente vingativos.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So whatever they do and however small they make you feel, know it\u2019s never you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Se lhe apetecer <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/6-things-to-consider-when-your-ex-is-begging-for-another-chance\/\">o seu ex<\/a> se algu\u00e9m pr\u00f3ximo de si for uma amea\u00e7a potencial neste contexto, fuja e aconselhe qualquer pessoa que esteja ligada a essa pessoa a fazer o mesmo.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Quando os narcisistas e os psicopatas experimentam a rejei\u00e7\u00e3o, s\u00e3o incapazes de lidar com ela de uma forma que \u00e9 conhecida por si, por mim e por muitos outros. <\/em><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Eles activam imediatamente o modo de ataque.<\/em><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">O seu ego est\u00e1 ferido, o seu sentido de orgulho est\u00e1 amea\u00e7ado e far\u00e3o tudo para se manterem ligados a si, pois perder n\u00e3o \u00e9 algo que consigam tolerar.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Quando os tratamos da forma como eles nos tratam, eles sentem necessidade de retaliar e v\u00e3o com tudo.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Agarram-se \u00e0queles que s\u00e3o emp\u00e1ticos, atenciosos e compassivos, porque essas s\u00e3o todas as caracter\u00edsticas de que precisam na sua vida quotidiana para o manipularem a ser o que quer que seja que eles precisam de si.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And when you take that away from your narcissist, they\u2019re not going to take it well.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When you face them with rejection, they\u2019ll find a way to stick around.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Eles v\u00e3o jogar bem as suas cartas.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">They will try and win you back but don\u2019t be fooled.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It\u2019s only for their selfish, egoistic reasons.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Precisam de si apenas para preencher o vazio que lhes resta ap\u00f3s a sua partida.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mais frequentemente do que n\u00e3o, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/6-razoes-dolorosas-pelas-quais-ele-ainda-te-mantem-em-segredo\/\">eles v\u00e3o querer mant\u00ea-lo por perto<\/a> por raz\u00f5es pr\u00e1ticas e sexuais.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Se alguma destas situa\u00e7\u00f5es lhe soa familiar, \u00e9 poss\u00edvel que tenha um narcisista ou um psicopata entre m\u00e3os.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Se o seu ex parece precisar de si apenas para se sentir melhor consigo pr\u00f3prio e para a usar por raz\u00f5es de natureza sexual ou manipuladora, perceba a dica e fuja dele o mais poss\u00edvel.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em>They won\u2019t stop until they\u2019ve got their claws in you once again, therefore proving to themselves that they are the master of their expertise.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mas agora j\u00e1 sabes melhor. Nunca deves deix\u00e1-los ir para a segunda ronda.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Once you find your way out of your narcissist\u2019s web, never look back and let their ego reach the ultimate low by ignoring them until the end of time and giving them a taste of their own medicine.<\/em><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" class=\"wp-image-33714\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/PINTEREST-38-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\u00c9 por isso que os narcisistas e os psicopatas se agarram a ti depois de uma separa\u00e7\u00e3o\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/PINTEREST-38-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/PINTEREST-38-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/PINTEREST-38.jpg 467w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Nowadays, staying friends with an ex isn\u2019t such a taboo anymore. It\u2019s a scenario that is completely plausible to occur after a break-up and more and more people gravitate toward keeping their exes within arm\u2019s reach. The reasons for this are numerous. Sometimes, you just can\u2019t let go completely, so it\u2019s easier having them in&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":33713,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29633],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-33712","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-narcissism"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29633,"label":"narcissism"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/angry-argument-breakup-984954.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29633,"name":"narcissism","slug":"narcissism","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29633,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. 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