{"id":33739,"date":"2020-10-04T13:23:55","date_gmt":"2020-10-04T13:23:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33739"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:24:27","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:24:27","slug":"se-a-amas-nao-ha-desculpas-para-a-tratares-mal","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/se-a-amas-nao-ha-desculpas-para-a-tratares-mal\/","title":{"rendered":"Se a amas, n\u00e3o h\u00e1 desculpas para a tratares como merda"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Quando amamos uma rapariga, fazemo-lo de todo o cora\u00e7\u00e3o e at\u00e9 ao fim, sem reter nenhuma parte de n\u00f3s.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t manipulate her into thinking you are the man you are not, you don\u2019t lie to her, you don\u2019t cheat on her and you don\u2019t neglect her emotionally.<\/p>\n<p><b>Quando amamos uma rapariga, tratamo-la como tal.<\/b> You don\u2019t give her any promises you have no intention of fulfilling and you don\u2019t make her beg for your attention.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t deceive her with empty words and you don\u2019t give her false hope that things will be better any time now.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t play mind games, you don\u2019t send <b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/this-is-what-his-mixed-signals-mean\/\">sinais contradit\u00f3rios<\/a><\/b> and you don\u2019t make her question your feelings or doubt your intentions.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t leave her hanging when she needs you the most and you never make her cry intentionally.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t invest halfway, while waiting for a better opportunity to arise. You don\u2019t take advantage of her loving and caring heart and you don\u2019t use the fact that she\u2019ll forgive you for whatever you do.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t apologize for the things you plan on repeating and you don\u2019t blow every second chance you get. You don\u2019t treat her as your second choice and you don\u2019t take her for granted.<\/p>\n<p>Quando amamos uma rapariga a s\u00e9rio, certificamo-nos de que ela sente a profundidade do nosso amor. Tornas-te o seu melhor amigo, o seu amante, o seu protetor e o seu parceiro em todos os sentidos da palavra.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-121997 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/a-man-and-a-woman-walk-holding-hands.jpg\" alt=\"um homem e uma mulher caminham de m\u00e3os dadas\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/a-man-and-a-woman-walk-holding-hands.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/a-man-and-a-woman-walk-holding-hands-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/a-man-and-a-woman-walk-holding-hands-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/a-man-and-a-woman-walk-holding-hands-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/a-man-and-a-woman-walk-holding-hands-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/a-man-and-a-woman-walk-holding-hands-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/a-man-and-a-woman-walk-holding-hands-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/a-man-and-a-woman-walk-holding-hands-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Tentamos estar perto dela e colocamo-la sempre em primeiro lugar. Apoia-a e f\u00e1-la sentir-se segura, certificando-se de que ela sabe que pode contar sempre consigo.<\/p>\n<p>You give her back everything you\u2019ve been getting from her and more. You treat her with the respect and appreciation she deserves and you value all the sacrifices she\u2019s making.<\/p>\n<p>When you love a girl, you fight for her. You don\u2019t do everything in your power to push her away from you and you never let her go.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, it\u2019s that simple. When you love someone for real, there is no excuse to make them suffer and you never become the cause of their pain, no matter the circumstances.<\/p>\n<p>No entanto, n\u00e3o \u00e9 assim que tratas a tua namorada, apesar de saberes o quanto ela te ama, pois n\u00e3o?<\/p>\n<p>Even though you are aware that you mean the world to this girl, you still act like you don\u2019t give a damn about her.<\/p>\n<p>Mant\u00e9m-na ao seu lado e continua a engan\u00e1-la, sabendo que ela merece muito mais do que este amor de meia-tigela que lhe est\u00e1 a dar.<\/p>\n<p><b>So, why exactly are you with her? Why do you keep lying that you love her when you obviously don\u2019t and why do you keep on hurting her when that is the last thing she deserves?<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Porque \u00e9 que continuas a partir-lhe o cora\u00e7\u00e3o sem a inten\u00e7\u00e3o de alguma vez lhe permitires <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/this-is-what-moving-on-is-really-all-about\/\"><b>seguir em frente<\/b><\/a> with her life? Why do you keep on leaving her and going back to her, expecting that she\u2019d always be there, patiently waiting for you to make up your mind and to get your shit together?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-121998 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/a-man-and-a-woman-standing-holding-hands.jpg\" alt=\"um homem e uma mulher de m\u00e3os dadas\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/a-man-and-a-woman-standing-holding-hands.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/a-man-and-a-woman-standing-holding-hands-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/a-man-and-a-woman-standing-holding-hands-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/a-man-and-a-woman-standing-holding-hands-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/a-man-and-a-woman-standing-holding-hands-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/a-man-and-a-woman-standing-holding-hands-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/a-man-and-a-woman-standing-holding-hands-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/a-man-and-a-woman-standing-holding-hands-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>So no\u2014you don\u2019t love her, no matter how you try to convince yourself of that. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Talvez adore a ideia de ter algu\u00e9m como ela \u00e0 sua volta, talvez adore o facto de ela o amar ou talvez esteja apenas a us\u00e1-la como rede de seguran\u00e7a. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>It is also possible that you are very well aware that you\u2019ll never find someone like her again or you need her to fix your broken ego and to make you feel better about yourself.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>But the truth is that you don\u2019t love her. Because you don\u2019t hurt the one you love.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t cause their sleepless nights, you don\u2019t make their life a <b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/10-tipos-de-namorados-que-farao-da-sua-vida-um-inferno\/\">inferno vivo<\/a><\/b> and you most certainly don\u2019t make them wonder why they aren\u2019t enough. You never make them cry and you don\u2019t break their heart over and over again.<\/p>\n<p>So, why do you keep on convincing yourself that you love this girl, when you clearly don\u2019t and never will?<\/p>\n<p>Why can\u2019t you be the bigger man and let her find her the happiness which you obviously can\u2019t give her?<\/p>\n<p><b>Why don\u2019t you give her the opportunity to wait for a guy who will treat you the way you never did? A guy who will love her the way she deserves to be loved?<\/b><\/p>\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><\/figure>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-121993\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/If-You-Love-Her-There-Are-No-Excuses-For-Treating-Her-Like-Shit-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Se a amas, n\u00e3o h\u00e1 desculpas para a tratares como merda\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1499\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/If-You-Love-Her-There-Are-No-Excuses-For-Treating-Her-Like-Shit-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/If-You-Love-Her-There-Are-No-Excuses-For-Treating-Her-Like-Shit-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/If-You-Love-Her-There-Are-No-Excuses-For-Treating-Her-Like-Shit-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When you love a girl, you do it wholeheartedly and all the way, without holding any parts of yourself back. You don\u2019t manipulate her into thinking you are the man you are not, you don\u2019t lie to her, you don\u2019t cheat on her and you don\u2019t neglect her emotionally. When you love a girl, you&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":39,"featured_media":121991,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29641],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-33739","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips-for-him"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29641,"label":"dating tips for him"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/If-You-Love-Her-There-Are-No-Excuses-For-Treating-Her-Like-Shit-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Owen Scott","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/hase\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29641,"name":"dating tips for him","slug":"dating-tips-for-him","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29641,"taxonomy":"category","description":"These are not just any dating tips. 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