{"id":33743,"date":"2020-10-04T13:36:42","date_gmt":"2020-10-04T13:36:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33743"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:23:23","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:23:23","slug":"sei-que-fomos-temporarios-mas-tu-significavas-muito-para-mim","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/sei-que-fomos-temporarios-mas-tu-significavas-muito-para-mim\/","title":{"rendered":"Eu sei que fomos tempor\u00e1rios, mas tu realmente significavas o mundo para mim"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Sejamos francos - desde o in\u00edcio, era mais do que \u00f3bvio que tu e eu n\u00e3o est\u00e1vamos destinados a ficar juntos.<\/p>\n<p>Eu, uma rom\u00e2ntica sem esperan\u00e7a que acredita no amor eterno, e tu, um homem sarc\u00e1stico e emocionalmente indispon\u00edvel que est\u00e1 convencido de que o romance n\u00e3o passa de uma inven\u00e7\u00e3o moderna. Um verdadeiro casamento feito no inferno.<\/p>\n<p>Desde o primeiro dia, est\u00e1vamos ambos conscientes de que n\u00f3s os dois juntos <b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/a-dura-realidade-de-amar-alguem-com-quem-nao-se-tem-futuro\/\">n\u00e3o tinha futuro<\/a><\/b> e que a nossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o estava condenada ao fracasso. Desde o primeiro dia, a nossa hist\u00f3ria de amor tinha um prazo de validade.<\/p>\n<p><b>I guess we simply weren\u2019t cut out for each other. Maybe we were too different or the timing was wrong, but the sad truth is that we weren\u2019t made to last.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Knowing all of this didn\u2019t prevent me from falling for you hard. It didn\u2019t prevent my heart from stopping to listen to reason, and it didn\u2019t stop me from growing to love you more than I had ever loved anyone.<\/p>\n<p>However, this doesn\u2019t mean we never mattered. It doesn\u2019t mean that you didn\u2019t leave a trace in my life and that my heart won\u2019t remember you forever in a way.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-122989\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/Romantic-young-couple-looking-each-other.jpg\" alt=\"Jovem casal rom\u00e2ntico a olhar um para o outro\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/Romantic-young-couple-looking-each-other.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/Romantic-young-couple-looking-each-other-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/Romantic-young-couple-looking-each-other-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/Romantic-young-couple-looking-each-other-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/Romantic-young-couple-looking-each-other-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/Romantic-young-couple-looking-each-other-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/Romantic-young-couple-looking-each-other-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/Romantic-young-couple-looking-each-other-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>Sabes, independentemente da forma como as coisas acabaram e apesar de agora fazeres parte do meu passado, tenho de te dizer que gostei de cada minuto que passei ao teu lado.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Enquanto durou a nossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o, tentei dar o meu melhor para viver o presente e n\u00e3o me deixar consumir pelo fim inevit\u00e1vel, e sei que tu estavas a fazer o mesmo.<\/p>\n<p>Call me a fool, but I just couldn\u2019t control myself around you. Even though I was aware that it would hurt like hell once I lost you, I have to admit that I wasn\u2019t prepared for this amount of shattering pain I am going through right now.<\/p>\n<p><b>Yes, you\u2019ve heard it right<\/b>\u2014<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/fizeste-me-acreditar-que-estavas-empenhado-mas-partiste-me-o-coracao\/\"><b>partiste-me o cora\u00e7\u00e3o<\/b><\/a><strong>.<\/strong> Talvez eu devesse ter vergonha de admitir isto ao homem que nunca planeou manter-me na sua vida permanentemente, mas a verdade \u00e9 que significaste o mundo para mim, apesar de n\u00e3o termos sido nada mais do que tempor\u00e1rios.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, I miss you like I\u2019ve never missed another man before you. But I know I will survive, and I know that my heart will heal. Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014this is not me begging you to take me back or me begging you to love me. iIt is just me expressing everything that lays on my soul.<\/p>\n<p>Isto sou eu a chorar por todas as coisas que pod\u00edamos e dev\u00edamos ter-nos tornado, se estiv\u00e9ssemos destinados a ser. Eu a lamentar todas as oportunidades que perdemos, e a lamentar o facto de nunca termos tido uma oportunidade.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-122984\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/Close-up-young-Asian-woman-feeling-upset.jpg\" alt=\"Grande plano de uma jovem asi\u00e1tica a sentir-se perturbada\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/Close-up-young-Asian-woman-feeling-upset.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/Close-up-young-Asian-woman-feeling-upset-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/Close-up-young-Asian-woman-feeling-upset-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/Close-up-young-Asian-woman-feeling-upset-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/Close-up-young-Asian-woman-feeling-upset-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/Close-up-young-Asian-woman-feeling-upset-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/Close-up-young-Asian-woman-feeling-upset-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/Close-up-young-Asian-woman-feeling-upset-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>This is me thanking you for being a part of my life. Thanking you for all the things our relationship taught me. You probably don\u2019t know this, but the truth is that if it hadn\u2019t been for you, I wouldn\u2019t be the woman I am today.<\/p>\n<p><b>Sabes, ensinaste-me que algumas pessoas e algumas coisas nas nossas vidas n\u00e3o existem para durar. Est\u00e3o l\u00e1 para nos ensinar coisas valiosas, mas <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/6-licoes-de-vida-importantes-que-a-dor-quebra\/\"><b>li\u00e7\u00f5es dolorosas<\/b><\/a><b> que nunca ter\u00edamos aprendido de outra forma. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Ensinaste-me a aceitar que, por vezes, h\u00e1 uma causa maior e uma raz\u00e3o mais profunda para o facto de algu\u00e9m n\u00e3o estar destinado a ser nosso at\u00e9 ao fim dos tempos.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>However, it doesn\u2019t mean that this person doesn\u2019t have a purpose in our life. For example, you were there to teach me that sometimes love isn\u2019t enough to make things right between two people. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Que n\u00e3o vale a pena esperar que algumas pessoas mudem miraculosamente s\u00f3 porque queremos desesperadamente que elas sejam diferentes.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Para me ensinar que temos de deixar entrar muitas pessoas erradas antes de aparecer a certa. Mais importante ainda, para me ensinar o qu\u00e3o forte eu posso ser. Que posso sempre fazer tudo sozinha e que nem todas as hist\u00f3rias de amor t\u00eam de ter um final feliz.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-122980\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/I-Know-We-Were-Temporary-But-You-Really-Meant-The-World-To-Me-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Eu sei que fomos tempor\u00e1rios, mas tu realmente significavas o mundo para mim \" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/I-Know-We-Were-Temporary-But-You-Really-Meant-The-World-To-Me-Pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/I-Know-We-Were-Temporary-But-You-Really-Meant-The-World-To-Me-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/I-Know-We-Were-Temporary-But-You-Really-Meant-The-World-To-Me-Pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Let\u2019s face it\u2014from the beginning, it was more than obvious that you and I weren\u2019t meant to be. Me, a hopeless romantic who believes in everlasting love, and You, a sarcastic, emotionally unavailable man who is convinced that romance is nothing more than a modern fabrication. A true match made in hell. From day one,&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":122981,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29653],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-33743","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-letters"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29653,"label":"letters"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/I-Know-We-Were-Temporary-But-You-Really-Meant-The-World-To-Me-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Martha Sullivan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/martha-sullivan\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29653,"name":"letters","slug":"letters","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29653,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. 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