{"id":33747,"date":"2020-06-04T13:56:22","date_gmt":"2020-06-04T13:56:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33747"},"modified":"2022-09-14T08:26:38","modified_gmt":"2022-09-14T08:26:38","slug":"7-sinais-alarmantes-de-que-ele-a-esta-a-usar-emocionalmente","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/7-sinais-alarmantes-de-que-ele-a-esta-a-usar-emocionalmente\/","title":{"rendered":"7 sinais alarmantes de que ele est\u00e1 te usando emocionalmente"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Ser usada emocionalmente n\u00e3o \u00e9 nada agrad\u00e1vel. Apaixonamo-nos completamente por um homem e ele nem sequer mostra sinais de afeto ou amor.<\/p>\n<p>So, you end up confused because you don\u2019t know whether you should continue <b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/7-formas-de-manter-o-interesse-dos-homens\/\">a tentar conquist\u00e1-lo<\/a><\/b> ou ent\u00e3o \u00e9 melhor deixar tudo.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 muito dif\u00edcil ver estes sinais, especialmente no in\u00edcio de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o, mas se quiser saber mais sobre eles, continue a ler.<\/p>\n<h2>1. He doesn\u2019t talk about the future<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-88656\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/serious-couple-standing-outside.jpg\" alt=\"casal s\u00e9rio em p\u00e9 no exterior\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/serious-couple-standing-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/serious-couple-standing-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/serious-couple-standing-outside-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Se o seu homem nunca fala de planos futuros consigo, \u00e9 prov\u00e1vel que a esteja a usar emocionalmente.<\/p>\n<p>Neste momento, ele sente-se bem ao estar consigo, mas n\u00e3o est\u00e1 a planear casar consigo ou ter filhos consigo.<\/p>\n<p>O que tem de fazer \u00e9 perguntar-lhe diretamente quais s\u00e3o os seus planos em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a si, uma vez que n\u00e3o est\u00e1 a pensar esperar que ele se recomponha.<\/p>\n<p>If he refuses to talk about the future with you, it is a sure-fire sign that he is using you and you shouldn\u2019t waste your time with him anymore.<\/p>\n<h2>2. N\u00e3o \u00e9 afetuoso<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-88657\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/young-couple-walking-in-silence.jpg\" alt=\"jovem casal a caminhar em sil\u00eancio\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/young-couple-walking-in-silence.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/young-couple-walking-in-silence-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/young-couple-walking-in-silence-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When was the last time he hugged you and told you he loves you? When was the last time he made you feel special? I know, you can\u2019t even remember, right?<\/p>\n<p>A man like this is with you just because he feels good about it but he isn\u2019t planning on devoting himself totally to you.<\/p>\n<p>Em vez disso, ele vai apenas us\u00e1-la porque voc\u00ea \u00e9 boa para algumas coisas, mas n\u00e3o o suficiente para ele se casar consigo.<\/p>\n<p>If you don\u2019t feel nice and desirable in this kind of a relationship, you shouldn\u2019t even try to make things better.<\/p>\n<p>If he is not capable of doing something about it, you shouldn\u2019t worry about it either.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Relacionadas: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/sinais-de-que-um-homem-a-esta-a-usar-por-dinheiro\/\">25 sinais de que um homem est\u00e1 a usar-te por dinheiro que n\u00e3o deves ignorar<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<h2>3. Ele s\u00f3 te chama quando precisa de ti<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-88660\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/man-speaking-on-his-phone-while-driving-car-1.jpg\" alt=\"homem a falar ao telem\u00f3vel enquanto conduz um autom\u00f3vel\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/man-speaking-on-his-phone-while-driving-car-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/man-speaking-on-his-phone-while-driving-car-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/man-speaking-on-his-phone-while-driving-car-1-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Se tem aquela sensa\u00e7\u00e3o constante de que o seu homem s\u00f3 lhe liga quando precisa de si, deve pensar duas vezes se ele \u00e9 o homem com quem quer passar o resto da sua vida.<\/p>\n<p>If he is not your support when you need him the most, then he surely doesn\u2019t deserve you.<\/p>\n<h2>4. Ele fala de outras raparigas<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-88661\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/upset-couple-talking-at-cafe-1.jpg\" alt=\"casal chateado a conversar num caf\u00e9\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/upset-couple-talking-at-cafe-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/upset-couple-talking-at-cafe-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/upset-couple-talking-at-cafe-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Um homem assim s\u00f3 a est\u00e1 a usar emocionalmente e nunca ser\u00e1 um homem com quem possa ser feliz.<\/p>\n<p>Ele s\u00f3 cuida das suas necessidades e nunca lhe dar\u00e1 o amor que realmente merece. Por isso, quanto mais cedo o deixares, melhor ser\u00e1 para ti.<\/p>\n<p>Quando est\u00e1 com ele, ele est\u00e1 sempre a falar de outras raparigas, de como elas s\u00e3o bem sucedidas e bonitas.<\/p>\n<p>Ent\u00e3o, fica ali e <b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/obrigado-por-me-fazeres-sentir-uma-merda\/\">sentir-se mal<\/a><\/b> porque o homem por quem est\u00e1 perdidamente apaixonada fala de outras raparigas com admira\u00e7\u00e3o e nunca fala de si dessa forma.<\/p>\n<p>Behavior like that is simply humiliating and you shouldn\u2019t put up with something that makes you feel bad.<\/p>\n<p>I am not saying that he shouldn\u2019t talk about other girls but if you feel bad about his words he should stop it.<\/p>\n<p>Ele precisa de saber que \u00e9s a sua prioridade e a sua namorada e que tem de se recompor se quiser manter-te na sua vida.<\/p>\n<h2>5. He isn\u2019t romantic at all<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-88662\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/Image-of-young-angry-woman-arguing-with-her-husband.jpg\" alt=\"Imagem de uma jovem mulher zangada a discutir com o marido\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/Image-of-young-angry-woman-arguing-with-her-husband.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/Image-of-young-angry-woman-arguing-with-her-husband-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/Image-of-young-angry-woman-arguing-with-her-husband-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Do you remember the last time your man did something romantic for you? I didn\u2019t think so.<\/p>\n<p>I am not saying he should make surprises for you every single day but you deserve some recognition on your birthday or on Valentine\u2019s Day for example.<\/p>\n<p>If he doesn\u2019t even remember your birthday and he makes zero effort to make you feel special, you should ask yourself what you are doing with a person like that.<\/p>\n<p>Se quer um namorado que a acarinhe e respeite da forma que realmente merece, sugiro que o deixe e comece a concentrar-se em si. Acredita em mim, nunca ser\u00e1s verdadeiramente feliz com um homem assim.<\/p>\n<h2>6. He doesn\u2019t have any deep conversations with you<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-88666\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/Men-argue-with-his-girlfriend-who-is-sitting-next-to-him-on-the-couch.jpg\" alt=\"Homem discute com a namorada, que est\u00e1 sentada ao seu lado no sof\u00e1\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/Men-argue-with-his-girlfriend-who-is-sitting-next-to-him-on-the-couch.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/Men-argue-with-his-girlfriend-who-is-sitting-next-to-him-on-the-couch-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/Men-argue-with-his-girlfriend-who-is-sitting-next-to-him-on-the-couch-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Se o seu homem age como se voc\u00ea estivesse ali apenas para satisfazer os seus desejos e nunca fala a s\u00e9rio consigo, deve preocupar-se porque \u00e9 um sinal comprovado de que ele est\u00e1 apenas a us\u00e1-la.<\/p>\n<p>He probably doesn\u2019t feel anything for you and you are there just to fill a void.<\/p>\n<p>E isso n\u00e3o \u00e9 certamente o que uma mulher merece. Deve ter um parceiro amoroso e carinhoso que lhe mostre que a ama.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t need someone who will just come home to eat, change his clothes and go out with his friends, totally ignoring you.<\/p>\n<p>Nenhuma mulher deve suportar uma coisa destas e tu tamb\u00e9m n\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<h2>7. Sente que algo n\u00e3o est\u00e1 bem<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-88668\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-woman-sitting-while-man-typing.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste sentada enquanto um homem est\u00e1 a escrever \u00e0 m\u00e1quina\" width=\"800\" height=\"538\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-woman-sitting-while-man-typing.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-woman-sitting-while-man-typing-300x202.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-woman-sitting-while-man-typing-768x516.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-woman-sitting-while-man-typing-760x510.jpg 760w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Tu \u00e9s uma mulher. Tu podes <b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/20-sinais-inegaveis-de-que-ele-te-ama-secreta-e-profundamente\/\">sentir as coisas profundamente<\/a><\/b>. Se o seu instinto lhe diz que algo est\u00e1 errado, provavelmente est\u00e1.<\/p>\n<p>If you feel that the relationship you have is not a good one, it probably isn\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p>There are some reasons why you feel that way and even if you don\u2019t see things clearly, you can definitely feel them.<\/p>\n<p>Sempre que sentirmos que n\u00e3o somos n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o com algu\u00e9m, isso \u00e9 um sinal de alerta imediato para deixarmos essa pessoa.<\/p>\n<p>If your man doesn\u2019t want to make any effort to improve your relationship then you should just let him go. Trust me, a man like that is not worth the effort.<\/p>\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-88651\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/7-Alarming-Signs-He-Is-Emotionally-Using-You-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"7 sinais alarmantes de que ele est\u00e1 te usando emocionalmente\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/7-Alarming-Signs-He-Is-Emotionally-Using-You-Pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/7-Alarming-Signs-He-Is-Emotionally-Using-You-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Being emotionally used doesn\u2019t feel nice at all. You catch yourself totally falling for a guy and he doesn\u2019t even show any signs of affection or love. So, you end up confused because you don\u2019t know whether you should continue trying to win him over or you should just leave it all. It is very&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":88652,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29625],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-33747","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-toxic-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29625,"label":"toxic relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/7-Alarming-Signs-He-Is-Emotionally-Using-You.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29625,"name":"toxic relationship","slug":"toxic-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29625,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Are you in a toxic relationship without even knowing it? 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