{"id":33767,"date":"2020-06-05T08:59:47","date_gmt":"2020-06-05T08:59:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33767"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:26:35","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:26:35","slug":"ela-nao-esta-emocionalmente-indisponivel-esta-apenas-a-proteger-o-seu-coracao","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/ela-nao-esta-emocionalmente-indisponivel-esta-apenas-a-proteger-o-seu-coracao\/","title":{"rendered":"Ela n\u00e3o est\u00e1 emocionalmente indispon\u00edvel, est\u00e1 apenas a proteger o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o"},"content":{"rendered":"

Quer aproximar-se dela, mas ela rejeita-o. Queres mostrar-lhe afeto, mas ela assusta-se e foge.<\/em><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

And the first thing that comes to your mind is that she is emotionally unavailable. But I\u2019m sorry to tell you that she\u2019s anything but that!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

\u00c9 uma rapariga que j\u00e1 passou por muito e \u00e9 por isso que tem dificuldade em confiar facilmente nas outras pessoas.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Ela provou o sabor amargo das suas l\u00e1grimas, provou o amor n\u00e3o correspondido e a sensa\u00e7\u00e3o de estar desamparada.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

And that is why she is no longer able to give all of herself to someone if she\u2019s not ensured that she\u2019s doing the right thing.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

She\u2019s not afraid of falling in love, she\u2019s just cautious to whom she\u2019s giving her heart.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

She\u2019s not afraid to fight with every atom of her being for the things she believes in. No, she is not afraid to fight for love.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

As a matter of fact, she fought many battles before and now she\u2019s just cautious about choosing them.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Ela n\u00e3o tem medo de se apaixonar por outro cora\u00e7\u00e3o, apenas quer ter a certeza de que o seu amor ser\u00e1 correspondido.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

She has learned many lessons the hard way and that is why she\u2019s eager to protect her heart above everything else.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

She\u2019s not emotionally unavailable, she\u2019s just protecting her heart from potential narcissists and toxic manipulators, their selfishness and lies. <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

She\u2019s protecting herself from always being the one who cares more.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

When she loves, she loves with all of her body and heart or she doesn\u2019t love at all and she has paid a high price for that.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

She realized that she needs to protect herself from any potential harm because if she doesn\u2019t do so, no one will do so for her.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Apercebeu-se de que, se quer ser verdadeiramente feliz, tem de come\u00e7ar a cuidar de si pr\u00f3pria e n\u00e3o apenas dos outros.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

So, don\u2019t you dare call her emotionally unavailable or blame her for playing hard to get!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

She\u2019s not the same girl who used to wear her heart on her sleeve. <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If you want to win her, you will have to fight hard to prove that you\u2019re worthy of her. <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Ter\u00e1 de lutar muito para fazer um esfor\u00e7o em vez de se limitar a <\/em><\/strong>arranjar desculpas<\/em><\/strong><\/a>.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If there\u2019s one thing she got tired of, that is excuses. She can no longer afford to tolerate other people\u2019s bullshit because she owes that much to her heart.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Ela j\u00e1 n\u00e3o se pode dar ao luxo de estar em d\u00edvida para consigo pr\u00f3pria porque merece ser tratada com apre\u00e7o e respeito.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

And if you\u2019re willing to be a part of her life, the only way to her heart is by fighting hard to prove to her that you\u2019re not like the rest of them.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

That you won\u2019t make her sad, treat her for granted or make her feel less worthy.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Se se esfor\u00e7ar para a fazer sentir especial, ela vai reparar nisso. <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If you make sure that you\u2019ll always be there when she needs you, she will notice it. <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Se tratar o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o com carinho, ela vai reparar nisso.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

E s\u00f3 ent\u00e3o ela acreditar\u00e1 que as suas inten\u00e7\u00f5es s\u00e3o puras.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Ela acreditar\u00e1 em si quando lhe mostrar amor com os seus actos e n\u00e3o apenas com palavras.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

She will decide to be fully someone\u2019s only when her heart tells her that it feels loved and safe in their arms.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

E at\u00e9 isso acontecer, ela continuar\u00e1 a proteg\u00ea-lo, porque o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 a coisa mais valiosa que possui.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

As l\u00e1grimas podem ser enxugadas, as noites agitadas podem ser substitu\u00eddas por noites felizes, mas o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o nunca conseguir\u00e1 recuperar totalmente de toda a dor do seu passado.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

No, she\u2019s not emocionalmente indispon\u00edvel<\/a>, she\u2019s just protecting the last pieces of her broken heart so that she can be able to love again.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

She\u2019s just waiting for someone who will make her feel comfortable being vulnerable again.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Someone who will protect her heart the same way she\u2019s protecting it now. Someone special.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

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